I was reading about punishments in the grave and it says: those who consume riba , those who pay it, those who record it and those who witness it will get punished. My question is can you get spared from grave punishments? Since people have life circumstances, for example, my parents said i should get into riba because I was poor, it helps for university, life and i really did not know anything about it. And for the punishment in the grave, do you get punished for an ongoing behavior or a one time thing.