Visiting my sister-in-law before going for hajj DWQA Questions › Category: hajj › Visiting my sister-in-law before going for hajj 0 Vote Up Vote Down JonSnow Staff asked 4 years ago I am going to hajj, but I dnt want to pay my sister in law visit as she hurt me a lot, what should I do? 1 Answers 0 Vote Up Vote Down JonSnow Staff answered 4 years ago At least go once and make salaam and ma`af. Else at least phone and briefly ask for health, ma`af and salaam. The holy prophet (saw) said that the real family connecting is about the one who mends broken ties. Age and wealth increases in such steps.