Advices and Solutions to problems
Q) I have a lot of money issues. I work everyday but no peace and I want to get relief from debts. I have no hopes anymore. I always think of suicide as last option from worries. 
A) Read 5 daily salaahs on time. Wake up for tahajud and read 360 times Allahoummagh firli sehri time. 


Q) I have been a depressed person for quite long and it has prevented me to live properly....Can dua remove the depression completely from my life? 
A) Yes, read this: http://islam-qna.org/Dua.asp?ID=122

Q) In today's time, what's your advice about a girl who finished her HSC? What should she do? 
A) Learn deen and become an aalimah. Together with it, learn also household chores. When you become an aalimah, you'll be able to preserve yourself against the fitnahs of this actual time. Stay away from facebook and internet

Q) I am 34 and due to financial constraint, I cannot get married... I have to work first and save money before getting married. Is there an age after which I will not be able to get married? 
A) No. But we suggest that you look for a poor girl. She will accept any condition. Read your salaah daily and read lot Allahoummaghfirli. 

Q) My husband is addicted to porn movies. I always tell him it is haram. I'm fighting with him since 10 years, but he doesnt listen. What can i do?
A) Try to make him do all 5 times salaah on time, in the masjid. Else encourage him to do it at home. Then do 10 minutes of ta`lim or reading a book like muntakhab ahadith for 10 minutes daily everyday. Make him understand that he would not wish to have a son in law with such disgusting habits. Having vice to look at sex is a sign that he like to have sex, may be every second day. So, as a wife, decorate yourself for him and please him as he wish and talk to him of what posture he like, etc. As a wife, you would channel out all his sexual desires and this would stop this pornographic vice insha Allah Ta`ala. I would make du`as and you also make du`as during tahajjud times.

Q) I am 24 and my parents still think its too early for me to get married. I feel depressed, they don't give marriage much importance as I am independent. Any solutions please?
A) Yes. You need to present your case to a mowlana or a mufti so as they may look for a pious husband for you. The beloved prophet SAW taught us to disobey parents when they are initiating us to sin. 24 years old is a pressing age for you to get married.


Q) I have done istikhara to know whether it is good to apply for a job and I had a nice dream. I dreamt about a bathroom which was beautifully coloured green in a building. But I did not get the job. Can you give me interpretation plz? 
A) Maybe you would get another job soon insha Allah.

Q) I have not got a marriage until now partly due to my ugly teeth. Can I use braces to correct them?
A) Consult a dentist. Yes, if medically supported. 

Q) I had a weird dream i kissed my brother enjoyed den saw my elder sister with my brother they were too making love in another dream and in third dream saw my brother trying to see my dead sister naked she screamed and hide behind my mother plzz help me my brothr is 16 i m 19 elder sister 22 and elder sister was 24 at time of death.
A) First of all, cover yourself properly at home as outside also. Be decent in front of your family members. Mahram terminology have paled nowadays. The beloved prophet SAW prophesised that a time will come when the blood family would cohabit each other. This happened before Him also. So you and other sisters also should always keep their room door closed and cover fully the body when coming out of the room. Be distant physically even to your father and also your brother. Then advise your brother to keep fast a lot. A 16 year old youngster experience lot of sexual appetite and hence he is advised by the beloved prophet SAW to keep fast consecutively. 

Q) I am newly married but i dont feel the need to go towards my husband. Same for him too which doesnt seem normal for married couple. Can you please help. 
A) This need to be corrected. See a doctor for nutrition and communicate with each other for each other`s likings. Find time to appreciate each other`s body and words. Read verse 63 of sourah 8 and blow on sugar, tea etc that both will eat or drink 

Q) I love a girl who does not even know me. I need to get a good job & earn enough money to propose her Nikah. I dreamt I was chatting online with her about her worklife etc and when I woke up in the morning, I was happy! Interpretation plz? 
A) You may propose her parents for a future nikah. Insha Allah, she will accept.

Q) I dreamt a cousin of mine built a house next to that of a pious muslim mathematics teacher which I had. In the dream I visited my cousin & while passing by, the teacher's door was open & I saw Allah written in Arabic on green background. Interpretation? 
A) You may adopt a teacher career insha Allah.

Q) I am a married person. I have three children. My vacation is due for one month. Can I do intercourse daily?
A) Yes, permissible. But beware to prepare your partner and caress well before intercourse.

Q) My wife is becoming ''big and fat''. I keep telling her to start doing exercise but she do not listen to me. I feel discourage, nervous since this causes problem during sexual intercourse. What should I do? 
A) This is an issue that the couple need to heal. And it will not heal with harsh words nor swearing. You both need to sit and talk about it in the room, holding her hand. Then make dua in tahajud. The wife may be stressing or feeling depressed which might also be the cause for her to consume more. You both may consult a nutritionist so as to reduce fats in food.

Q) Recently my parents came 2 know that my sister bunked extra classes 2 meet her boyfriend & although I knew , I didn't tell them anything . My sister had promised 2 not do it again but she re-bunked classes. Last night I kept on crying because I didnt know if I should tell them . Should I tell them ? I'm scared they will be depressed because I know they love us a lot and are working hard to raise us. I don't want anything 2 happen 2 them .. Plz tell me what I should do. 
A) Inform them discreetly so as they may raise you people up better and with better eyes. But tell them to enquire from school so as your sister does not doubt you. Keep on informing them because they need to correct you people as and when necessary. If you do not inform, you would be guilty of her sins

Q) My parents want to get me married. But I am scared that the man who will marry me will reject me on the first night itself because I do not have a beautiful body. please help me. 
A) Do you have any defect in your body? If yes, then should tell him before hand. Else know that muhabbat comes in the eyes from Allah Ta`ala. So turn to him in tahajud and everything will be ok insha Allah.


Q) I have three elder sisters..i love them so much..my parents too..but i always feel that i am the bad one in my family..who creates problem..who cannot keep quite when my sisters are in an argument with their husband..i don't give any peaceful life to my parents..insha Allah i am getting married this aug..my parents feel scared about me so much..i had a small argument with my brother in law whom i consider as my second dad..i love my family so much..i wana be a good girl..i wana be polite..i wana control myself..i don't wana create any more troubles to anyone..my sisters had gone through a lot because of me.
A) Stop talking for the hours you are at home, except when necessary. When sleeping count the number of words you have talked, and everyday be more concise. Be brief. Do not talk in other conjugual matters, it is against shariah. Read as much as possible: Douroud shareef, laa ilaaha illallah, 3rd kalimah and astaghfirullah each for 300 times.


Q) Sometimes i dream swimming in sea water and at other times swimming in muddy water or river. What does this mean please? 
A) This means that one should purify the pathway of the day to do more good actions and meetings. One should continue the zikr of Allah during the day and read one`s salaah on time. Also one should read more Islamic books rather than other books.


Q) I did my istihara prayer for the past two days, the first day i didnt have any dreams. This morning i dreamt of my small cousin playing a game in which he was digging the soil and removing some bricks in the soil. Shall i take this as a negative answer or continue doing the prayer?
A) It is negative answer.


Q) It's been five years now since my  husband is cheating on me. Everyday before he goes to work, i tell him not to meet other women and he tells me ok inshallah he won't. But he still goes. When i ask him about that he tells me he is not to be blame. It's Allah who makes him do that. Please clearify this for me.
A) It's true that Allah alone makes everything possible. But each person is responsible for his own actions and will be accountable for them.
On the day of Judgement, no one will have the right to say that it's Allah who made him do his actions. Thus, it is not good to do something and blame Allah for that. Everyone will be accountable of his actions. 

Q) I always dream of my father who passed away whenever in the dream i deliver a baby. why this? 
A) Read the precautionary ayats and sourahs against jinnaat and evils. It seems that may be there was a jin on your father that want to possess you. Read the manzil and you will find the duas in the masnoon duas on the web. 

Q) I dreamt of snake colour yellow, green and brown in my yard.... interpretation plz.
A) Small snakes. Inshallah lots of worldly wealth will come to your house.


Q) If a wife wants to cook separately (not with inlaws), will she be sinful for doing so?
A) No. It's obligatory for a husband to provide his wife with seperate cooking facilities.

Q) Before I read one of your answers I was really happy and satisfied that whosoever I may marry I would do it for Allah and I shouldnt regret if I dont get to marry the one I love. But your answer was that there would be no choice for woman in jannat she will have to stay with the same worldly husband.  That has really made me sad and it seems as if all hopes have died. 
A) Allah Ta`ala has blessed us with his pure deen in this world. He has established the democracy between man and woman to have nikah and stay pure. No one can force a woman to marry a man, except with mutual agreement and permission of each side. Yet He has made lawful for a lady to ask the unwanted ‘divorce’. But He has not made lawful disobedience and ‘disorders’. He wish that every child be born under legitimacy of nikah and every woman be legitimately consumed. 


On the contrary is to cohabit as wish and wherever be-Al `iyazoubillah. This is disobedience and cause disorders. No woman would have legitimacy and honour of being a spouse of a husband. And children would be born with one parent and would not have the care of both parents. Hence this is an anti-islamic scenario that prevails mostly in Europe and America. This causes harm to the society and due to no grace and honour, there is lot of crimes and violation on women. 

This is why Allah Ta`ala prescribe Nikah and purity during this life.  

Likewise, He do not wish to create such disorders on the day of qiyamah that each spouse be going wherever she wants. But because the sky is more pure, our grandmother Hawa will be in the custody of our grandfather Adam a.s. Allah Ta`ala do not want to be unjust towards the husband that he wants to have his partner during his lifetime be by him in Jannah. But those whose husband died, then remarry, then these will have the choice to choose between the spouses they had in this world. The holy prophet SAW said in this meaning: Live well with your wife during your lifetime. Since if after your death, she remarries, then she will choose the husband that behaved better towards her on the day of qiyamah. (Daarul Qutni)

Yes, you should know that this is the promise of Allah when entering Jannah: ‘’Et il y aura là [pour eux] tout ce que les âmes désirent et ce qui réjouit les yeux;» - et vous y demeurerez éternellement.’’(43:71) 

He will not breach His promise. As such, he will change the characters of people of Jannah and will purify them from jealousy, hatred, harshness,etc. As such your husband will be as you had wish in Jannah. Your husband will have the option to take the face that you would love in Jannah. 

Jannah is not monotone. Jannah is full of activity, pleasure, change and improvement. And this will never end. 


Q) I am a new convert and my parents do not know about this. i cannot do all the 5 salaah. is this a sin? i also wont be able to fast on ramadan, is this a sin? i cant yet reveal the truth to them.
A) Ok. Keep your faith. But still try to the best in the beginning to fulfil the salaah and fast. Fasting can be done without anybody noticing. As such you may fast without your parents noticing. Salaah can be done in your room or your working place also. See these options may be materialised and be independent financially so as to look for a new place to practice your deen fully. 


Q) Once my mother in law told me bad things which hurts me a lot. Since then i dont get into deep conversation with her though we live in the same house. I dont no why but i cant forget those words she told me. Am i making gunah? 
A) No, but try to make salaam and talk even superficially. By you doing so, you would solve many family pressures in that house. Try to make du`a for her in secret and be respectful to her. 

Q) If someone hurts & insults you again and again despite you dont deserve it, and in anger you curse the person, is it allowed? 
A) It is permissible in extreme cases to curse someone, but it is better to avoid to do so. Better postpone to tahajud time for an equilibrium decision. If suffering, then ask justice from Allah. It is reported that if the curse was 
not justifiable, then the curse fall upon the person who said the curse himself. 

Q) What is the interpretation of reading la hawla wa la quwwata illa billa hil aliyil aziim in dream?

A) A good dream. One should go in the path of Allah and talk much on that Allah is the doer, Allah is the Creator

Q) I am madly in love with a girl but I do not think she likes me...What dua can I read to make her fall in love with me? 
A) Make istikharah, then go decently to the family and propose the girl. Either she will accept or she will refuse. Know that love without nikah is a sickness. 


Q) It will soon be 2 years since i have been married and one year since i have had miscarriage.. I have applied all the instructions of the doctor but i can't get pregnant. Please could u help me. 
A) Tell your husband to meet me. Start going 3 days jamaat and also Read tahajud with this dua in sajdahs: Rabbi hab li minassaliheen. 

Q) I dreamt I was performing salah alone, then after a few days I dreamt I'm performing salah along with many women wearing jilbab and today I heard the tasbeehaat we read during salaat in a melodious voice... interpretation plz.
A) This is a good dream. Continue your zikr, ibadat and khidmat. But be concerned about others also. Establish a weekly home ta'leem for ladies in your house through your masjid's mashwara. Do Muntakhab ahadith ta'leem. Invite to participate.

Q) I dreamt that 7 members of my family passed away. What does this mean? 
A) One should pray salaahs on time. Possible that you are praying assr salaahs before time. 


Q) I've heard that if one's husband tells her to remove hijab she has to obey. is it true? is there any hadith proving that? 
A) No. In fact the qur-aan and hadiths says that we should disobey any creations if he is ordering us to disobey the Creator: Nous avons commandé à l’homme [la bienfaisance envers] ses père et mère; sa mère l’a porté [subissant pour lui] peine sur peine: son sevrage a lieu à deux ans. «Sois reconnaissant envers Moi ainsi qu’envers tes parents. Vers Moi est la destination. 15. Et si tous deux te forcent à M’associer ce dont tu n’as aucune connaissance, alors ne leur obéis pas; mais reste avec eux ici-bas de façon convenable.(31:14-15)
Imam Tirmizi put up a chapter particularly on that there is no obedience of creations in disobedience of the Creator. Hence do not obey anyone in concern of taking out pardah. Pardah is an obligation for a muslim lady. 

Q) I am 30 years old.I got married in june 2011 & unfortunately my marriage ended after only 3 months due to my husband bad habits of gambling.Since then i have been so much affected and disturbed. I have been receiving proposals but i am facing obstacles and having so much difficulty to accept..nothing is working out for me..it's been 4 years since he gave me talaq, i have not been able to redo my life..i am getting depressed since so long & cannot manage those suffocating emotions..so many times i feel because of my ex husband my life has ruined, he has got married again...pls advice me what i should do abt my depression & what i should to get a good proposal?
A) All this was written. No nostalgia. Look forward. Accept any good proposal. Read your salaah constantly on time. And read tahajjud. Read Allahoummagh fir li 360 times sehri times. Read this dua right after farz salaah: Bismillahillazi laa ilaaha illaa houwar Rahmanur Rahim Allahoumma azhib `anni hamma wal houzna.

Q) I dreamt about the last day on earth.The country of india had disappeared on the map and the sky started becoming dust. And soon i arived near a river where i had to cross a bridge. There were people who said "if your soul is pure you will be able to cross the bridge otherwise you will be drowned and whoever has evil heart can hold the hand of a pure heart and cross the bridge. Then i started to cross it without any difficulty and i helped someone. Then we arrived on the other side of the river and we were told to wait for judgement. i started saying "ya Allah forgive me" continuously. 
A) This is a good dream. Insha Allah you will go through tribulations safely. Keep steady with salaahs and duas. And be in touch with pious and educated alimas

Q) I'am a girl of 20 years. I always wanted to start my own business and become a successful entrepreneur. Is there any dua which can help me choose the right career path and which can help me succeed in my professional life ? And a dua which can help me improve my memory ?
A) We suggest that you accept the proposal of a businessman so that you may councel him according to your ambitions. Allahoumma Khirli wakhtar li. Rabbi zid ni `ilma

Q) How can i protect myself from zina of the ear? i always hear evil talks like backbiting,slander,boastful evil talk,filthy language,useless gossip,fun type talk,taunt,abuse from my family member and relatives..so how can i protect myself from zina of the ear ? i have heard some hadith about it  and some about the ties of holding kinship ..so how can i balance good relation with all ? coz they always use filthy words. 
A) Very easy. Stand up and leave the room whenever there are haraam happening. When talk finished, then come back there.

Q) I dreamt that women and girls were telling me I am good looking and that is why they were nervous to talk to me. Could you interpret?
A) It means that until now you have not done zina, Alhamdulillah. But from now on, you should keep yourself away from zina so as to preserve your spiritual beauty. Indeed zina destroys the life beauty of a man or a woman.

Q) My mother dreamt that she saw the words Allah Jalaluhu in Arabic on top of a very tall building. She said that she has a good feeling about the dream, hence must be a good dream. can you please interpret? 
A) Should increase Salaah, Zikrullah and Qur-aan tilawat.

Q) I am very much confused.my husband wants me to make my eyebrows and become fashionable. i am very simple. when i said no to him he started liking othet women and make friendship with them. he wants me to change myself. What should i do. 
A) Explain to him that it is haraam to do so. Allah Ta`ala holds the breath of anyone. So fear Him. Do not disobey Allah Ta`ala. Be fearful to Him..He will provide you with everything including husband. Do 10 minutes Ta`leem at home.

Q) I have dreams where i'm having very bad arguments with my mom. there are some terrible feelings of fear and anger and darkness. meaning? 
A) Give sadaqah. Be steady with salaahs and do daily zikrullah: 100 times Astaghfirullah, 100 times Dourouds and 100 times soubhanallahi walhamdulillahi wa lailaaha illallahou wallahou Akbar. Do morning and same in afternoon.

Q) I dreamt that while travelling in the bus, i saw Allah's name written in the sky. What does it mean?
A) It means that you should remember Allah Ta'ala more and be more steadfast on salah.


Q) I am a muslim girl and want to marry a hindu guy. that guy also loves me but my parents are not accepting it. whta is the dua that i can pray so that my parents get ready and that the guy's parents are ready. 
A) Please cut all communications and all meeting with a hindu. Allah Ta`ala has prescribed us to abstain from such marriage: ''And do not marry men that are idol worshippers until they become muslims.'' (2:221). As such, abstain from such haraam love and insha Allah, Allah ta`ala will open your way later on.


Q) I'm a muslim sister who's just started to practice my deen but I have big problem as in jahiliya days I posted picture of me without hijab and they have been taken by an anonymous. I have tried contacting then begging them to take them off but they won't respond. I ask forgivness form ALLAH but I fear I still might be sinning as I feel guilty I really need a solution after begging the person she still won't remove them.
A) Take legal councelling on the matter. See if there is case for pursuit. Then, do not pursuit, but rather threaten the person to pursuit. Else give some sadaqahs everyday and make 100 times astaghfirullah as well.

Q) I am working in a private firm as a secretary. My job and working atmosphere is good. we have namaz arrangement also. My problem is that i have a guilt that i cannot spend much time with my duaghter. I have thought of doing something from home (work from home) but will it be like na-shukri to my present job? (i feel why to do experiment when Allah has given rozi) (I have to work due to financial isssues.). Pls advice. 
A) It is better to work from home. But if you can`t, then continue until you are financially better. 

Q) If a married women has sex with another man and she accepts her sin to her husband can her husband forgive her? 
A) No need to confess to the husband. Should have made a secret sincere tawbah to Allah Ta`ala and leave the sin. The zina does not affect the nikah with the husband. The husband may cohabit with the wife. Although zina is a very grave sin and we should always stay away from it at all times. 

Q) Im a muslim girl from a good muslim family, ive been involved with a guy for about a year.. we wanted to get married but my family kept refusing.. we then commited zina once.. i regret it n everyday i cry n i don't know what to do.. we broke up about a month ago coz he didn't know what to do.. i kept begging ma fam, i kept trying.. n nothing.. Now they brought another guy home for me, n i feel that i don't deserve to marry anyone coz im no longer a virgin.. i was always this good girl that never even kissed a guy before him..i don't know what to do.. i don't know if i can lie to him about me being a virgin.. coz obviously when we married he'll know the truth.. N i can't lie about something like that, he seems like a very good boy n islamic.. but all i think about is ny ex bf.. i love him n i don't know how to make my family approve.. what do i do? 
A) Hide your sin and hide your body. Get married to the man that your family brought and make tawakkul on Allah. If he ask you after marriage, tell him that you lost it in an accident. 


Q) I love a guy who is non muslim but converted into islam, we both want to marry each other but his parents are against him for accepting islam..Please tell me anything to make my parents agree and his too.. 
A) We suggest that you put this situation in front of alim of your area. You may call us also. +23057921333. 


Q) I have dreamt several times that my house is on fire. What does it mean? 
A) Give some sadaqah and make ta`lim at home. It means that your house is having too much sins and images that cause the fire. Be regular with salaah yourself and give order for salaah in the house. 

Q) I dreamt of my husband from whom I'm separated. I am hurting him n in return he is making me laugh. I was crying literally in my dream. what does it mean? 
A) From Shaitaan. Read a'ouzoubillahi minashaitaanir rajeem.

Q) Often my dreams are so realistic that I woke up crying literally ? Does it mean something?
A) Yes. It means that your heart are crystal clear. Keep the heart away from evil thoughts of others and talking bad of others. 

Q) I plan on getting engaged in two months with my partner, both muslim, my parents explained to me everything and would love to help make it happen, my partners parents keep telling him they are worried about the engagement because they believe my parents want him to 'support me' financially but i clearly explained to him that my parents do not ask for him to support me until we get married two years later, his father, keeps saying he's never heard of an arab muslim engagement where the man does not support the women his fiancé. I am right in this situation correct? I would still be living with my family while being engaged so if you could answer my question , muslim engagements do not require the man to support the women financially. He is 21 & i am 18. (They are worried because he has no money and is currently studying in university ) 
A) It is a fact that someone need not support financially a fiancé. But one should know that when a lady and a boy love each other, then they should perform nikah as soon as possible . Living in communication without nikah is haraam. 



Q) My husband is doing wrong things. we got married its been 3years and he lie a lot. please suggest something i can do.
A) You should consult an alim or someone trustworthy in the family to talk to you and him together. Else try to make him read salaah regularly. This will help insha Allahou Ta`ala. 

Q) I have a friend very close to me. we love each other. i want to ask is it allowed for us to kiss each others lips..and want to ask about my mistake...as we know that satr from women to women is from belly button to knee..once my friend played with my breast..we regret a lot afterwards was that a sin. and what shall we do for tawbah. 
A) Know that only in Nikah of a man and a woman that touching allowed. Else girls touching girl is zina and such a zina that is worst than zina between a boy and a girl. This friend is a destruction for your akhirah, so leave her. You need first to regret, then promise not to do again for tawbah. As such you need to leave such company that would pull you to such low and filthy act. 

Q) There was a sister who loved a boy before she get married, now after marriage, she still think of him, have all kind of though of him, she still talk to him, without ever meeting him, without doing any zina but she do has the intention to meet him one day. And both of them still love each other is it forbidden to talk to him? is it forbidden to meet him. even if they will meet like this, without zina, without touching, only meet .
A) Yes, haraam to talk, message or communicate with him. If she cut all communication, soon she will forget him. Else note that this will lead to divorce. So she better stop such haraam. You can`t eat from your husband and now longing for someone else. 


Q) Please give me zikar or wazifa to increase my rizkh and financial and to fullfill my family needs allah hafeez.
A) Keep steadfast with farzs salaahs and nafil salaahs. Then complete 1000 times Allahoummaghfirli daily. Also spend most of your free time, besides family time, in masjid. Try to start your work early in the morning. Avoid sins


Q) I am trying to have a baby for 1 year. But, failed. I am physically totally perfect to have a baby. Beside, I found some one cut my eye lashes, its been 4 times, I don't know what to do? Can you give me some doa to get protection from evils activity. 
A) Insha Allah you would have a baby. First you should read Manzil everyday. Then the couple should be regular in salaahs. Then they should do ta`leem everyday of Muntakhab Ahadiths for about 15 mins. Then they should go in jamaat for 40 days. When finished all this, then contact us for an specific dua. 


Q) I always dream of me and my school friends in a classroom.I don't miss them infact Im not in touch with everyone of them?does it have any meaning? 
A) One has to listen to the parents, elderly persons around one to achieve maturity in life. One should avoid wasting time in games and should do more salaah everyday. 

Q) I often dream of me being nude and trying to hide myself from everyone?what it means?
A) It means that you are wearing tight clothes. The holy prophet SAW described a person wearing tight clothes that the silhouette is visible as nude. (Muslim)


Q) I often dream of my father's death or something bad happening to him?what does it mean? Is he alive? 
A) Then inform him to give more sadaqahs, keep steadfast with salaahs and prepare more for Akhirat.

Q) I am a Muslim of 30 years old. I'm unmarried. I was raped by a powerful old man at the age of 15 or 16. My family doesn't know about it, we belong to a very poor family, I just kept it secret because I don't want my parents to face any difficulties in the society because of me, even nobody except my younger sister knows about it. My family tried a lot to find out someone for me to marry. Lots of people come to see me but unfortunately no one accept me. I'm a teacher of Quran. I always try to do zikar as much as I can but my bad luck that my desires of having a relationship with a man (sex) are increasing day by day. I know it's a gunnah but I can't control myself of thinking this. Even during namaz n fast. Please help me stop this sin.
A) Make sabr and keep fast even after Ramadhaan. Insha Allah, Allah Ta`ala will open way soon. Keep reading Allahoummaghfirli and laa ilaha illaa anta soubhanaka inni kountou minazzalimeen. But our advice is to inform your parents of your need to get married and of the rape history. 

Q) If a person is doing some sort of Gunnah but at the same time he is asking for forgiveness but still repeats that Gunnah and again asks for forgiveness and again repeats due to the influence of satan. What is the ruling for such a person?
A) According to ahadiths, Allah Ta`ala would forgive the person if he makes sincere tawbah each time. 


Q) I have dreamt of a bedroom with several door openings which remain open, in fact there are no doors in the entire house. I am lying on a bed covered with a sheet and people keep coming to ask me permission to use things or access parts of the house toilet, bath, food etc. Can you help me get the meaning. Is it about death?

A) You need to spend more on orphans (children without parents), give food to poor people and invite pious people and family to dine in your house. Try to be regular with Chaast Salaah: 2 nafil at 11am. Spend according to your capacit.

Q) Following my question : I dream of having a car accident frequently.. what does this mean ? No I am single. I am a student. Age: 21 years old.

A) Then you should give some sadaqah. Control your temperament as bad temperament lead to breaking friendship ties. Be polite and tolerant.

Q) I wore parda for many years but i now realise that i am keeping it on because i am scared of other people's thought on me. What must i do? 
A) Any good action started sincerely will be rewarded by Allah Ta`ala. Do not pay attention to people and keep wearing pardah, the model cloth of a muslim women. In fact a masla for villagers teaches us that in case we are going toilet in the forest, then we should cover ourselves away from people`s gaze. But during the night, one may sit anywhere nearby because no one may see us. As such you should cover your face because of strange man may see your face.

Q) When i breastfeed, i don't have any sexual desire, am even reluctant about it. I love to breastfeed and my husband want me to breastfeed because buying milk will be costly. But he told me it is ok, he will wait. What must be done?
A) The Quran prescribes mashwara and mutual consent on this issue: Et les mères, qui veulent donner un allaitement complet, allaiteront leurs bébés deux ans complets. Au père de l’enfant de les nourrir et vêtir de manière convenable. Nul ne doit supporter plus que ses moyens. La mère n’a pas à subir de dommage à cause de son enfant, ni le père, à cause de son enfant. Même obligation pour l’héritier. Et si, après s’être consultés, tous deux tombent d’accord pour décider le sevrage, nul grief à leur faire. Et si vous voulez mettre vos enfants en nourrice, nul grief à vous faire non plus, à condition que vous acquittiez la rétribution convenue, conformément à l’usage. Et craignez Allah, et sachez qu’Allah observe ce que vous faites.(2:233) 
Hence we suggest that you make consultation with your husband. Better to breastfeed baby and one may start giving him also powdered milk as one quarter of the feeding. 

Q) I dreamt that my grandmother (who is stiill alive) is dead and i'm reciting surah mulk for her..after some times i was writing the translation of surah mulk in my dream. Does this dream has any interpretation?
A) Tell your grand mother to read sourah mulk and to turn her attention more on aakhirah. You also read sourah mulk daily. 

Q) I often dream having relations with others, other than my husband. i heard its jinns. is ir true?
A) May be it is because of indecency when you walk on the street. When your clothes are tight and other eyes make zina, then you are also accountable to this zina. That`s may be indicating your dream.

Q) I dreamt several times that my husband is leaving me. Any meaning ? 
A) This indicate stubbornness from your part. You need to see the likings of your husband and then put it in you. 

Q) I talked to my Mother in law in a vulgar way (on phone) and told her that i wanted to kiss her and hold her breast to suck milk as a little baby. Since my childhood I didn't have mother. She died when I was only 6 years old. Every time I miss her a lot. So I respect my mother in law and love her like my real mother but I did this above mention for 3 nights on phone call not in real. I need to clarify some points please. 1. Is it unforgivable sin? 2. Is my wife Haram for me now? 3. Is there any Atonement or penalty?

A) 1. No. You may ask tawbah. 
2. If you did not do it in real, nor have you touched the mother in law with lust, then your wife is not haraam. But if you touch her with lust, then definitely your wife will become haraam. 
3. Sincere tawbah and keep distance from your mother in law. Talk seldom and when necessary.


Q) My husband often dreams that dogs are trying to attack him or he is chasing them away...what does this mean? what does fighting dogs in dreams mean? 
A) Enemies. One should take precaution and read protective duas against jealousy and enemies. Read 3 quls after maghrib, FAjr and before sleeping. See masnoon duas on the web please


Q) I had a dream where I was saying Ayatul Kursi to a person...What does that mean?
A) It means that you should try to improve your knowledge and then pass it on to others. 

Q) I dreamt that my nani (who is dead) called my mum to wish for her birthday. any meaning ? 
A) It means that you people are not doing much for isale sawaab of your nani. Read some quran everyday for her isale sawaab.

Q) I have been married for 11months. However my husband and i dont have intercourse often since i tend to focus on issues i am not happy about with his parents (live in same house). Any solution? 
A) It is better to live separate, in a nearby house. In case you both can afford a rented house/flat, then it is incumbent and obligatory on the husband to provide a separate accommodation for his wife. This will bring comfort, love and affection for the after Esha fondling. 

Q) My husband and his family dont realise that i dont have any duty towards his parents. I work and got my own things to do. This gives rise to disputes. Waht to do? 

A) Times to times, do please him also. Like 2 days in the week do whatever he like you to do for his parents.

Q) Can a lady make zikr without covering her head?
A) Yes.


Q) I often dream of breastfeeding a baby, the baby is unknown to me..what is the interpretation please? 

A) It can also mean the influence of a jinn on you. So read manzil daily and the 3 quls 3 times after Fajr, Maghrib and before sleeping. 

Q) What does dreaming often of toilet and urinating means?

A) It means dunya or worldly attachment. One should administrate his attention and time to akhirah as he dream of toilet. Give more time to masjid/mussalah and Qur-aan reading daily. Also go in jamaat so as to spend more time for akhirah. 

Q) I'm married but my husband is abroad. And i often feel so disturbed because i could not control myself when i mistakenly see a bad photos or pictures..My mind goes again and again to it. And at times i do bad to myself..how can i control this and what islam tells about this?
A) Keep fast constantly for weeks. Then inform your husband so as to meet him more frequently. Also read the 3 last sourahs when such things happen. Try to divert your attention to other things.

Q) I dreamt about white and black spiders coming after me. What is the interpretation of this dream please? 
A) Too much haraam food consumption annihilate the protection of good actions. Haraam food influence the person to do haraam deeds. One should take out some time for his deen everyday and every week. 

Q) I dreamt a little girl with penis..what does this dream means? 
A) Need more info on the person


Q) In my dream i recited ayat ul kursi. Any interpretation plz? 

A) You should recite it after every salaah time. It is an indication for you to read precautionary ayahs against evil eyes and spells.

Q) I dreamt that my uncle slit my belly and was removing blood with a syringe and when i cough i saw my intestine, after that my belley was sewed and i  was wondering whether to do a cesearean or not..what does this dream means? is it a bad dream? 
A) Your uncle means mamou or chacha or Khalou? What is the relationship between you and uncle lastly? 

Q) I shall be grateful if you could tell me whether it is permissible to give the name "Muhammad" to a baby boy without additional forenames. I have read that a child named Muhammad due to love for Rasoulullah Sallallahou Alayhi wa sallam will be blessed and be righteous and he along with his father will be made eventually to enter Jannah. I also read no person who are named Ibraheem and Muhammad will be protected from sins and won't be sent to Hell. Can you confirm the veracity of the above please? 

A) It is a laudable initiative and very virtuous to name someone Muhammad. But until now I did not read any hadith on the virtue of this. The last Imam mahdi will be named Muhammad also.

Q) What is the punishment for muslims who harm muslims with their actions and words? 

A) It is a grave sin and if not settled here, on the day of qiyamah the oppressed will take loads of sawaab from the oppressor.

Q) I have a friend who is unfortuantly addicted to marajuana (weed) he has been smoking this for some years now. he has been trying very hard to quit and he manages to for month but always goes back to the habit. the problem he is facing is that he will be making nikah in the next 40days and i have been trying to encourage him to quit . i am worried that his nikah will be null and void as he will still have the weed in his system. is this true does it make the nikah invalid?

A) No, not true. It does not invalidate the nikah. Marajuana is haraam. He needs to do tawbah sincerely and quit this habit. But this habit will not affect his nikah nor his dua`. If you know about this habit, then inform the in laws so that they may help him out of this bad habit.

Q) If a person is so old/sick that he cant perform wudhu or tayammum for salah, what must he do? 

A) One must help him to do his tayammum at least. Else he should read salaah like this. 

Q) Is it allowed to do plastic surgery on the face to please the husband? 

A) No, haraam.

Q) Can we make a duah for a good non-muslim friend for Allah to guide him into Islam? 

A) Yes, for a living person.

Q) Who was the Nabi whom Allah had kept asleep for 100 years and then he made him to wake up? 

A) Uzair a.s. 


Q) I suffer from continuous leaking of urine after urination. It takes me a lot of time to stop the urine after I go to the toilet. When I wake up for Fajr, I have to wake up 2 hours earlier to be able to stop the leak on time!!! Do you have a solution? 
A) You should consult a doctor or urologist first. Then know that you are a ma`zoor(a disabled) according to shariah. As such you may put some tissue or whatever suitable for you for the urine not to drop down to earth. Then make a wuzu for every azaan time. Hence you would continue salaah even if you are dripping during salaah. But renew your wuzu for every azaan time. The wuzu would expire at next azaan or at when going toilet, bleeding or sleeping,etc. It will not break with dripping.


Q) Is there any duah when someone has poor appetite? 
A) Yes read surah fatiha 7 times and then blow on water to drink. Then eat some kalounji (black seed) everyday. Take milk and dates during breakfast and drink soups. 


Q) I dreamt of a man with shaved hair and islamic beard wearing the while clothes which one wear during hajj, he was talking to me while standing in the corridor in my house but i could not figure what he was saying. interpretation please?
A) Good sign.

Q) Is it advisable for a child to learn his academic lessons after Assr prayers?
A) Permissible. Together one is recommended to do zikr Allah before sunset.

Q) I always dream of me and my school friends in a classroom.I don't miss them infact Im not in touch with everyone of them?does it have any meaning? 
A) One has to listen to the parents, elderly persons around one to achieve maturity in life. One should avoid wasting time in games and should do more salaah everyday. 

Q) I often dream of me being nude and trying to hide myself from everyone?what it means?
A) It means that you are wearing tight clothes. The holy prophet SAW described a person wearing tight clothes that the silhouette is visible as nude. (Muslim)


Q) I often dream of my father's death or something bad happening to him?what does it mean? Is he alive? 
A) Then inform him to give more sadaqahs, keep steadfast with salaahs and prepare more for Akhirat.


Q) What should someone do if he has hurt his mother badly? 
A) One should first ask her forgiveness and compensate with looking after her everyday, spending on her and if possible take her umrah. if she passed away, then keep good relations with the relatives of your mother.


Q) I loved a guy since 7 months.he told meevrything about his past.Actually he was comitting zinah and he got engaged.His engagement even broke up coz of a woman who cme to create rifts in their relationship.After dat he met me, he is nw a completely changed man,He practice his deen and even repent of wat he did in the past.He alwys tell the truth and b frank wid me.My parents is nt accepting the proposal due to his past behaviours.but i knw he is perfect for me.he nw is afraid of Allah's wrath a lot.please advice me or what can i read to make my parents accept him.
A) Since your parents are in your benefits since your birth, then you should be careful towards the new repented man. Put the issue in front of your parents and tell them that he repented. if they refuse and refuse you also towards the man. Nontheless if your relationship to him is now physical, then to prevent Zina, cut all communication and meeting with the man. But if he is committing Zina with you, then leave this man definitely.

Q) I love a boy & he loves me too, its official (family members knows about it) but the boy don't want to make nikkah, he asked me to wait for him. what should I do?
A) If you both are of mature age and the boy is financially sound, then there is no reason to wait. Love is a sickness without nikah. We suggest that you both consult an alim for your case. If your lover refuse, then do not wait for him.


Q) The boy i love, his mother does not like me. Why do i dream of her everyday that she like me and smile at me in my dream? 
A) Insha Allah you may look after her later.

Q) I am suffering from hormonal imbalance due to which my periods are irregular. almost whole month there is spotting except few days due to which I miss my salah?I have heard it is permitted to offer salah under this condition? what should I do? 
A) Please text your days on 57921333. Else haiz is when there is flowing of blood. Not spots. But if your have had a specific days, then it change everything. The spots in those days would be haiz. Do text us for clarification. 

Q) Can any scholar help in finding out truth if my husband has cheated on me? I have heard that there are some who help in this situation is it true? 
A) Our prophet SAW recommended to think good even in doubtful situation. Hence stay with him and forget the doubts. 

Q) I have been doing isthkara for long time but I am still not getting an answer? I am not sure whats going wrong? I do the procedure correct but still not getting any hint. 
A) Please follow the flow of the heart at this time. This is the result of the istikharah. Else wait for one two weeks.

Q) What do i do in situation where after doing istikhara, i feel nothing as to whether i should go forward with the decision or not. i do istikhara for things which require long term commitment, but i feel nothing. 
A) Redo the istikhara.

Q) My baby doesnt sleep and she cries non stop at night. Could you suggest a dua i could read for her to sleep?
A) See a doctor and give the child mother's milk. Read the following dua and blow on the child: 
Ou'eezouki bikalimaatillaahit tammaati min koulli shaitwaanin wa haammatin wa min koulli 'ainin laammatin.
Read it after fajr and maghrib and blow on the forehead.
Then also write the 3 last surahs on a piece of paper and fold it to put on the child. 
Do read 3 last surahs and blow on her especially every night.

Q) I often dream of toilets and this disturbs me mentally. What is the interpretation?
A) You have too much attention drawn on material and dunya. You need to increase time given to Masjid, salah, zikrullah, ta'leem and give attention to your family also.

Q) I have to take a loan. Is it allowed? I don't have any other choice.
A) Not allowed.

Q) I had the following dream. I was travelling by car with my parents. We passed by a mountain and I saw mud sliding / flowing down its slope. We continued our way when I saw a small rock falling from another mountain. As we got nearer to the mountain bigger rocks started falling. People were escaping trying to avoid the falling rocks. We were able to get to safety even after some rocks fell on our car. What is the meaning of this ? 
A) Gunah causes difficulty to one`s living-Hadith. One should avoid even sins considered as small. In fact accumulation of small gunas causes lots of difficulty to one`s living. 

Q) My husband smokes weed, also known as gandia, everyday and he smokes it becoz of stress. Is it permissible?
A) It is haraam for him to smoke this. Tell him to leave it slowly slowly. Wouzu breaks when he smoke it. And also know that he should continue salaah even in those days he smoked. He need only to have wouzu and be sober to pray. 

Q) I have married a woman 5.5 year back as my second marraige we consumed nikah within 3 month she went form me we nevr sopekn or met for 5.5 year is still our nikha alive. 
A) Nikah is still valid until talaaq given. 


Q) I am a married lady with a child and often I dream of having intimacy with women. I read my Kalimah and 4 quls and ayatulkursi before sleeping.
A) May be you go in Spas and open your satr in front of women. One should not open knees, thights and below navel in front of ladies also. Avoid talking about sex in front of other ladies also. 

Q) I met a brother 2months ago, we decided to go further with aqdun nikkah.my parents told me to invite him, and all they said was that he should wait for me till I am through with my masters in two years time. is it permissible to wait? 
A) Yes, if you both do not commit zina. Else it is recommended to perform nikah as quickly as possible when one found her pair.

Q) Several time, i dreamt of bad cats, white in colour, attacking me or trying to bite me. What is the interpretation please?
A) You should pay attention to upbringing of your children or your little ones. Take care of your food and family (halal food). Put your surrounding on salah.


Q) If a woman get depressed very often..she just can't and don't want to do anything during these depressed moments. What can be done?
A) Read the ruqya for depression in masnoon duas on the web at every salaah time. Take a 15 mins walk every day and know that everything has been written long ago and we need only to take full benefit of life.


Q) I am 32, ugly, poor with bad health and a lot of white hairs! No women wants to marry me!!! What dua can I read to make a beautiful woman fall in love with me? Please help me!! 
A) If you don`t have anyone in Mauritius, you may travel abroad to marry. There your beauty will be accepted insha Allah.


Q) I'm in a great problem,, i want to go and study in another country but my mom do not agree with me, what should i do so that she can acccpt my decision?
A) If you a girl, then we are in the same opinion as your mom.

Q) There was a time when I used to describe the physical appearance (using hurtful terms) for those I do not get along with. Today I regret a lot. Will Allah ever forgive me? Which duah can be read so that those persons as well forgive me? 
A) You may give sadaqah on their name and make tawbah.

Q) Dua to stop wasting money?
A) Visit orphans and homes so as to ponder upon their poverty.

Q) Under what conditions can a parent send his daughter for University education abroad? Is Malaysia a suitable destination?
A) Under no condition, distant learning may be an option.


Q) A man or woman who is not married yet is considered as a non-Muslim? Because there is an interpretation that says that the one who is not married is not from amongst the Muslims.
A) Yes they are Muslims if they believe in Allah and His Prophet (saw). If their aqidah is complete, then they are complete Muslims. Mariage is sunnat and is highly recommended for the one who has the means and maturity. And one who does not have these two things, the Prophet (saw) said he should fast.

Q) My mother is hindu and shes been having dreams of (ganesh) telling her that i am god,worship me. and also my mom told me that since some days she stopped praying,but after her dream she will pray again.can you explain this please? 
A) This is shaitaan that came and inciting her to shirk. One should read lot of A'ouzoubillahi minashaitaanira jeem. Shaitaan has vowed to deviate man from straight path. 

Q) I have only one brother, (no sister), and my husband is very jealous of my brother. He hates him so much that he does not want 'our children to come in his shadow'. Is this attitude permissible in islam? 
A) No, unless with reasons. If your brother is a drug addict or a sexually obsessed, then I may understand his stand to protect his children. But without any reason, he should not express his jealousy like that. But this is a good sign for you. He loves you and want to possess you completely and want to protect his children. Tell him to express himself to Mufti Mackoojee, so as to confirm his stand. We amy advise as suitable insha Allah. 


Q) What does it mean if someone dreams of his marhoom father in law who ate some food and left some of the food. The dreamer was eating the rest of the food but not all the food.
A) It means that the inheritance of the father in law would benefit the son and insha Allah the grand son also. 

Q) I dreamt last night that I am having intercourse with my husband and during that he gave me a bowl of urine to drink. What does this mean? 
A) This indicate that you are practicing oral sex with your husband. Oral sex is makrooh tahreemi. By you putting the penis of your husband in the mouth, he is making you swallowing impure residues found there: semen, lubricated secretion, urine remained in there, etc. As such you both should make tawbah and istighfaar on this action. Try to get rid of it as soon as possible. If difficult, then try to decrease the time for it. some ulamas said that oral sex lead to impotency and decrease sexual power after some time. As such, after licking over the body(except private parts), then as quickly as possible do penetration intercourse. 
It is difficult to get rid of a bad habit, but you both should talk over it and refrain from such evil action. Should you continue drinking urine, if ever you had this bad habit for years? Knowing that urine damge your body health and poison your blood. Then make tawbah and istighfaar before this evil act of oral sex poison your marital life and your relationship with Allah Ta`ala. Give some sadaqahs as this evil act has spilled over its boundaries.

Q) I desperately lack self confidence and i am full of all sort of negativity and fears. I always compare myself to others and find myself very little. Please give me any dua or wazifa to help me gain confidence & be more at peace with myself...precise when to read?
A) Wake up for Tahajud daily. In your tahajud, during your ruku`, after 7 times soubhanarabiyal azeem, read SoubhanakAllahoumma rabbana wa bihambika Allahoummaghfirli 7 times. Do same in Sajdah after Soubhanarabbiyal A`laa. Be humble and repent as if you had done a big mistake. Then do all your 5 times daily salaah on time. 

Q) What does it mean if someone dreams of flying white horses? 
A) It means lot of khair will come in that person`s life. 

Q) Which taveez can be use against ants?
A) Read this verse and blow on them and by their holes:
يَا أَيُّهَا النَّمْلُ ادْخُلُوا مَسَاكِنَكُمْ لَا يَحْطِمَنَّكُمْ سُلَيْمَانُ وَجُنُودُهُ وَهُمْ لَا يَشْعُرُونَ


Yaa ayyahunnamlud khoulou masakinakoum laa yahtimannakoum soulaimanou wa jounoudouhou wa houm laa yash `ouroun. (27:18)

You may contact Mowlana Noorani Gooman of Masjid Derby Curepipe for this issue. If not resolved, then we may help inshallah.

Q) A boy/girl fall in love with someonr but thair parents have objection with this relationship. The boy/girl is having difficulties to forget the lover. What can he/she do to forget the lover.
A) Read the dua of ''Ruqya for Depression'' available on web in masnoon duas.

Q) Is there any specific dua that can be read for Allah to accept our wishes?
A) You may use the names of Allah. Find the 99 names in masnoon duas. You may read: Ya Allah, Ayatul Qursi and Allahu laa ilaaha illaa hou. Wa `anatil woujouhou lil hayyil Qayyoum.

Q) I often dream of swimming in deep water. In the last dream my mother was besides me and we were watching a big rock and waves were coming towards us till the water level reached our chest. Any interpretation for this dream? The person is in the thirties, ambition: be a laywer, fight for peace for countries at war and be one of the ulamas. the person is already a professional. 
A) This is a good dream. Insha Allah he/she will become a alim/a. Sea water is pure, interactive and provide food also. Ilm or deeni education has all these qualities. Insha Allah your mother may benefit from such an initiative. One should take the path of ilm when seeing such dream. This is a call from Allah Ta`ala.


Q) What is the dua against laziness?
A) Dua against laziness and other important issues:


 

 

أَللّهُمَّ إِنِّىْ أَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ عِلْمٍ لاَّ يَنْفَعُ وَقَلْبٍ لاَّ يَخْشَعُ وَدُعَاءٍ لاَّ يُسْمَعُ وَنَفْسٍ لاَّ تَشْبَعُ وَمِنَ الْجُوْعِ فَإِنَّه بِئْسَ الضَّجِيْعُ وَمِنَ الْخِيَانَةِ فَإِنَّهَا بِئْسَتِ الْبِطَانَةُ وَمِنَ الْكَسَلِ وَالْبُخْلِ وَالْجُبْنِ وَمِنَ الْهَرَمِ وَمِنْ أَنْ أُرَدَّ إِلى أَرْذَلِ الْعُمُرِ وَمِنْ فِتْنَةِ الدَّجَّالِ وَعَذَابِ الْقَبْرِ وَفِتْنَةِ الْمَحْيَا وَالْمَمَاتِ، أَللّهُمَّ إِنَّا نَسْئَلُكَ قُلُوْبًا أَوَّاهَةً مُّخْبِتَةً مُّنِيْبَةً فِىْ سَبِيْلِكَ، أَللّهُمَّ إِنَّا نَسْئَلُكَ عَزَائِمَ مَغْفِرَتِكَ وَمُنْجِيَاتِ أَمْرِكَ وَالسَّلاَمَةَ مِنْ كُلِّ إِثْمٍ وَالْغَنِيْمَةَ مِنْ كُلِّ بِرٍّ وَّالْفَوْزَ بِالْجَنَّةِ وَالنَّجَاةَ مِنَ النَّار


Allahoumma inni a’ouzou bika min ‘ilmin laa yanfa’ou, wa qalbin laa yakhsha’ou, wa dou’aain laa yousma’ou, wa nafsin laa tashba’ou, wa minal jou‘e, fa innahou bi’sal dajee’ou, wa minal khiyaanati fa innahaa bi’satil bitwaanatou, wa minal kasli wal boukhli wal joubni, wa minal harami, wa min an ouradda ilaa arzalil ‘oumouri, wa min fitanatid dajjaali, wa ‘azaabil qabri, wa fitanil maHyaa, wal mamaati. Allahoumma innaa nas alouka qoulooban aw waahatan, moukhbitatan, mouneebatan fee sabeelika. Allahoumma innaa nas alouka ‘azaa ima maghfiratika, wa mounjiyaati amrika, was salaamata min kulli ithmin, wal ghaneemata min kulli birrin, wal fawza bil jannati, wan najaata minan naari. (Mustadrak Hakim)

O Allah! Mo pe demande Toi protection conte connaisance qui pas beneficial, et le coeur qui pas peur (Toi), et du’a qui pas etre accepter, et desir/nafs qui pas satisfait, et conte faim intense, parcequi li ene mauvais compagnon, et conte malhonnetete, parcequi sa (montrer) ene mauvais nature, et conte paresse, et l’avarice, et lachete, et conte extra vieux l’age et conte ene l’age cot mo vine unitule (mohtaaj), et conte dajjal so corruption, et punition qabar, et banne (mauvais) epreuve de la vie et la mort. O Allah! Nous pe demande Toi ene le coeur qui humilier, obeissant et incliner vers To chemin. O Allah! Accorde moi To pardon absolu, et deliverance conte tous banne difficultes, et assurance contre tous banne peches, et ene grand part de banne bon actions et reussite par jannat et deliverance conte du feu l’enfer.

Q) A woman wants to give birth in a clinic but her husband wants her to go to a hospital; not because of financial problem, don't know for what reason. What she do?
A) If the husband is well off, than it is better for him to look for female gynocologist and nurses in a clinic, so that to avoid other men from seeing the private part of his wife. But if the husband cannot aford it, than he'll be obliged to take her to the hospital.

Q) I took money from my family once, without their permission. Now i'm regretting a lot and i don't have courage to tell them.What should i do?
A) Give them the money as a gift, but make intention that you are returning the money you took before. It is necessary to return them that money, unless you ask for maaf and they forgive you.

Q) Is there a special dua for someone who often has miscarriages?
A) Read sourah Maryam often. Then eat dates and drink milk.

Q) I dreamt that i'm reading manzil. What does this mean please? 

A) It means that you should be always protected by those ayats of protection. 

Q) During intercourse with my wife, if baby wakes up, can my wife feed him or ghusal is necessary first? 

A) Ghusl will be necessary in any case of penetration from the husband`s side. Ghusl will be on both. It is not ethical to feed the baby during intercourse. This is reprehensible. Ghusal not required when feeding baby.

Q) I love a girl so much and she also love me her mother and my mother only knows that i love her but not that she also loves me her mother says that if in my future i get a permanent job and love her the same way as i do presently she will be ready for our marriage but i am having problem that in what earnings her family will be ready to give her hand in my hand and i am also very nervous in talking with her family that will they accept me or not is there any dua or anything to do so they accept me in what i earn in future or whatever i earn in future as i want to become a teacher so i will not get more than 20000 to 25000 a month so please help me.
A) Keep steady with the 5 salaats, wake up for tahajud and make dua. Soon the family will accept you Insha Allah. 

Q) A pious woman is regularly being sodomized by her husband. This disgustful act is being done while she is deeply asleep and is powerless towards her husband. She still loves her husband and doesn't want to leave him. Please advice what can be done. 
A) Do collective ta`lim at home of muntakhab ahadeeths, encourage husband to read 5 times daily salaat and encourage husband to fast on Monday and Thursday. Read lot of laa ilaaha illaa anta soubhanaka inni kountou minaza limeen.

Q) I often dream toilet..interpretation of dream? 
A) Dunya and money will come to you. 

Q) Dreamt of feaces and toilets. any meaning ? 
A) Same as above.

Q) Shrouding an alive baby in my dream....what is the interpretation? 
A) Will need more detail on your particulars. Please phone on 57921333 to give the details and more precision for this dream. 

Q) Is it permissible to change my name in case i don't like the name my parents gave me?
A) Permissible, but it is sunnah to keep the name your parents gave you.


Q) I'm in a great trouble so what should i do to remove this problem on me?
A) Read lot of Astaghfirullah and Allahoummaghfirli.

Q) Can i have a dua to read..as my hair falls a lot?
A) Apply olive oil. Read the 3 last sourahs and blow on hands, then pass over hair. You may consult a doctor to see what may improve them. 

Q) A dua to marry the boy of our choice and make family agree with it?
A) Allahoumma khirli wakhtar li

Q) I feel desperate. I'm so afraid of dying. Can you plz help me by giving me a dua to overcome such feelings?
A) Allahoumma barik li filmaut wa fima ba`dal maut.

Q) What can i do so that the parents of the guy i love accepts me?
A) Read lot of allahoummaghfirlee at tahajud time and during the day.

Q) I love a boy but i'm afraid to tell my parents about this because they might not like it. What can i do or read in order for my parents to accept without any problems?
A) Love is a sickness without Nikah. The decent way that shariah prescribe for a girl to proceed for nikah is through her parents or guardian. If your lover is the right pair, then one should not wait to go through informing parents on the issue since the prophet prohibited time consuming on nikah. Remember that two over three love are fancies and does not endure married life later on. As such cut all communication from your lover, make istikhara and inform your parents. Make this dua: O Allah give me happiness in this life and in the hereafter. Your parents may consider your choice and you may appreciate their choice for you.

Q) I stopped eating beef and chicken and eat fish only. What's your opinion?
A) We request that you continue eat fish and add only meat to that. Beef meat is a sunnah and good for the body. Else you may refrain from chicken since they are not healthy. 


Q) What dua shoud parents read for their children to obey them?
A) Parents should first of all themselves be good role model for their children. Regular salaat and qur-aan of the parents would contribute that the children follow the same steps. Then the parents should give proper time to the children and correct them slowly with wisdom. Regular assessment of the child and explaining to them the benefit of being truthful, honest, pious and abstaining from sins would contribute to their wellness and progress during their lifetime. Be polite to them so that they may take politeness from you. Be honest to them so that they may be honest to you. When the boys grow up, send them for a 3 days jamaat scout. This 3 days jamaat will construct in them respect, responsibility and self respect. Girls may accompany their mother and father to jamaat also. This bring one in a pious environment and fruitful company that may model our future generation. Else do make dua in tahajud time and after farz namaz: Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa zurriyatina qurrata a`youn waj `alna lil mutaqina imama.

Q) I know a muslim boy. He loves a hindu girl. They are together for almost 1year now. They know that whatever they are doing are not right and they are trying they full best to break this relationship but in vain. They have been attached too much to each other thats why. So i really need your advice in this..
A) At this stage, we recommend that the boy persuade the girl to convert into Islam and then make nikah with her.

Q) Why can't we sometimes control our sexual desires though we try our best?
A) Keeping nafil roza continuously may help to keep oneself from overwhelming sexual desires. Human nature is made to have a life partner. As such one may look for a wife so as to better control sexual desires.

Q) I am a married woman and i frequently dream that i am having sex with a boy that i loved before. And whenever i have such dream i fight with my husband. Can you plz help. 
A) This is bad thoughts from Shaitaan and one should read lot a'ouzoubillhi minashaitaani rajeem. When you make such a dream, follow the following procedure found in the masnoon duas on the web. 

When having a bad dream :
1. Pretend to spit on your left side three times.
2. Read a'ouzoubillah hi minash shaitwaanir rajeem.
3. Change position.
4. Do not tell everyone about the dream.
5. Wake up and read namaz.
6. Look for someone who has knowledge of deen so that he may tell you it's interpretation. 
7. Some dreams have good meanong while others bad. 


Q) My partner smokes. What can i do to make him stop it and also how to encourage him read his namaz?
A) This advice is when nikah partner is meant by the question: Give him a miswaak as a gift. Then tell him that you feel nauseas when you smell a smoking mouth. Encourage him to perform at least maghrib salaah everyday. Else, tell him that today no maghrib, then no good food for dinner. But when he perform his maghrib, then please him in every way. Progressively bring him on 2 salaahs, so that one day he performs 5 times daily salaahs.

Q) What to do if one's husband gets pleasure in chatting with other ladies online?
A) Try to attract him to the bed almost every night. Take care of make ups and whatever he likes every night. When someone eats at home, he won`t feel hungry for outside junk food. Make dua in tahajud and do ta`leem of muntakhab ahadiths at home.

Q) What du'a can a child recite daily in order for him to remember his lessons?
A) Rabbi zidni `ilmaa. Put oil on the head and eat 7 badam without skin everyday, and one full spoon of honey and use miswaak.

Q) Please give a dua for a person to have raham on people.
A) Give food to poor people with your own hands and sponsor some orphans. Cajole children and read Allahoummaj `alni raheeman wadooudan.

Q) Is there any dua to become beautiful and get rid of pimples?
A) Stay with wuzu, read the 5 times salaah, read laailaha lot. And do cupping, drink olive oil and apply olive oil on the skin. Read the masnoon dua while looking in the mirror.

Q) One of my dearest person is sick....plz tell me some dua's i could recite for his wellness.
A) Read this du`a: Allahoumma rabban naas, laa shafi illa shifa ouka, ishfihi shifa an laa youghadirou saqaman.

Q) Any duah / way to forget / get over hurtful past and experiences with others to be able to move in life? 
A) After salaah read the foolowing dua: Bismillahillazi laa ilaaha illaa houwar rahmanuraheem allahoumma azhib `annil hamma wal houzna.


Q) What can I do to get rid of hypocrisy from within myself ?
A) First of all always speak the truth, fulfil your promises and do not fear but Allah. Read this dua and stay away from music and haraam or doubtful food or money.

وأعوذ بك من الفقر والكفر ، والفسوق ، والشقاق ، والنفاق والسمعة ، والرياء

Q) Can i please know the dua to have a baby boy?
A) Allah Ta`ala alone decide on that issue. But if one wishes to have a baby boy, then a few actions may be observed and then the du`a may be effective insha Allah:
1. First go every 3 months in 3 days jamaat with your husband/wife.
2. Wake up tahajjud both and supplicate Allah Ta`ala to have a pious son.
3. Read a lot of Rabbi habli minas swaaliheen.
4. Thank Allah Ta`ala on whatever child Allah Ta`ala gave you.

Q) I have been doing istikhara for about 2 days now and I had a dream today, in my dream I saw a very very beautiful scenery of mountains and I kept saying subhan'Allah and couldn't resist not to. After a while I looked around and saw the kabah (from a height) then I was just about to make dua to Allah about my intention and the reason why I'm doing the istikhara for. When I was just about to, people start shooting and I get scared and start wondering what's happening. Then I woke up. Can you kindly please tell me about what this dream means and if it has any relation with my istikhara? I am doing my isitikhara for a spouse which I like. To see if he is better and good for me in my religion, my life and my end (akhira) so please let me know. 
A) It is a negative sign for the spouse you are looking at. May be your family would not accept the spouse and this would cause upset in your life. 

Q) I previously had my haiz for 5-6 days. After my third delivery and cesarian, doctor tied my Fallopian tube. Ever since, now five yrs almost, each month I bleed for 5-6 days normally then till the 9-11 days I got brownish spots once or twice daily. It always happens that during the 7th to 11 th days, I stay dry for nearly 24hrs then again one brownish spot. Doctor says it is normal when fallopian tube is attached. Kindly advise when ghousl should be done since i am confused. 

A) Haiz is the continuous bleeding of minimum 3 days for every cycle of 15 days or more. Hence you should bath when the ''perle blanche'' comes white on the 6th day. The other occasional spots after that are negligible and only wouzou would be necessary when it comes out.

Q) When my husband does swalaat at home, he recommends us to do duahs through the 'sadqa of Holy Prophet saw' and he explained to me that Allah has promised his nabi saw that all his wishes will be granted and we should ask our duahs through this promise and not direct to Allah SWT. From childhood, I have been taught to address my duahs to Allah alone. Am I right to disagree with him? 

A) Your husband is wrong in this matter. You should not follow him in this respect.

Q) What does seeing oneself pregnant in dream means? 
A) There may be effect of jinnaat on you. Read manzil daily and the 3 quls and blow on hands to pass on the body: 3 times at three different occasions: Fajr, Maghrib and before sleeping. 

Q) In my dream, i replied the salaam of my marhoom grandfather? What does it means? 

A) This dream indicates that your grand father is in good conditions in qabr, insha Allah.

Q) I dreamt a weird dream I dreamt that I was pregnant by the man I love before marriage but my parents were supporting me. I was in the hospital's toliet and the water broke. I was searching for my doctor, i don't know how I ended up on the sugery chair and the baby was coming out with out pain or yelling a baby boy and the man I love kept on disappearing but he was there. I went to his dad in his house on my own to show them his grandchild. he mentioned that return the money first and I was like what money. I felt so rejected and that his son dint tell them and then I woke up. What does that mean ? I'm not married. We do talk and see each other !!! His dad knows about me but my parents don't know anything about him. we r serious about each other !! 
A) The dream shows a negative sign on that man and his family. I suggest that you finish your illegal relationship because this may ruin your life. Tell your parents to look for someone for you to marry.

Q) I saw a dream that i am remarrying to my husband in our new house and our house is full of our relatives and friends i am wearing red colored bride dress the same one which i wore in my first wedding. 
A) Good dream. You need to look at what are the expectations of your husband and be obedient. Set up a quran/ zikr time daily. 


Q) Please give me a dua or wazifa to become successful in my new tijarat [business] and become loved by my families and my parents and cousin.
A) Read tahajjud, read lot of istighfaar, open early in the morning and read 4 rakaats ishraaq 15 mins after sunrise.

Q) I dreamt that my Hindu friend told me that from his scriptures, he could see that he would be the father of one son. In real life, he already has a son...In my dream, I replied to him that from Quran, I cannot see such things for me. Interpretation plz. 
A) You should distant yourself from non muslim`s invitation, sitting with and talking freely with them. 

Q) I dreamt of a muslim man having the red thread that hindus wear around their wrist on his wrist.what does this mean? 
A) One should preserve one`s imaan and read kalimah a lot daily. Keep distance from non muslims. Be polite, diplomatic but not close friends.

Q) I dreamt that i'm pulling out a roll of plastic bag from mouth but it wouldn't end.
A) One should control the wordings that one pronounces. Backbiting and accusations, lies should be avoided.


Q) I dreamt of the Kabaa. With the black cloth and golden arabic writings on it. Does it mean anything? 
A) Yes. Insha Allah Ta`ala you will go for Hajj.

Q) I dreamt of a black snake coming towards me. What does that mean? 
A) Enemy. Read the protection duas and give some sadaqahs.

Q) I dreamt that my mum is to perform umrah in very few days? I felt very happy coz my mum is a widow and has no sons and is waiting for a mahram. she has with great difficulty saved a lot of money to perform hajj one day. how do you interpret this?
A) Insha Allah she will go for hajj soon. 

Q) I dreamt that while she was frying something my mother's 2 fingers were cut and were literally fried. can you please interprete this for me as i'm really scared. 
A) Give sadaqah. Give sadaqah. Give sadaqah. Indeed May Allah save your family from pains and sudden death. Ameen. 

Q) I dreamt that all my teeth were falling out. What does that mean? 
A) Aging and physical weakness. Take natural physical boosters.

Q) What is the meaning of dreaming cleaning the house?
A) You should read more Qur-aan, absolutely avoid gossips or hearing gossips and finally read manzil in that house.


Q) I love a muslim boy and we love each other very much and we both want to get married after just 2 years; when he gets a job and settles down. But there is a problem in his sex. His sex pains all the time and the dr. said that pain goes if u have sex. Is it permissable to have sex in this case?
A) No. Haraam. Completely haraam. Only after nikah.

Q) I finished my Nikah in Last Month. She is living with her parents and the wedding will be in August 2016. My issue is that i saw my wife before my Nikah and i spoke with her. After nikah, when i saw her, she is not like the lady which i saw before my Nikah. Completely different from her speaking, behavior, her face. After two days, i express my problem with my sister and she felt the same what i felt. I tried a lot to convince me that she is your wife and i have to love here and take care very well. But, i could not accept all these things and i feel too much pain in mind. My wife is liking me too much and she is interested on me very well. Please help me what i will do on this subject. I completely changed a lot, i cannot sleep very well and very lazy in all my subject. 
A) After nikah, shaitaan makes effort to dispel happiness of the couple. But you need to perform 5 daily prayers and keep faith in Allah and try to look after the wife. Shaitaan always shows haraam as beautiful and halaal as ugly.


Q) One of my mother's friend dreamt that my mother was wearing a white dress but with some brown spots. Can you interpret plz? 
A) Your mother should avoid public gosips and talks. Be brief in talking and be more at home.

Q) My father tried to rape my sister. What should I do? Can i leave him?
A)You should try to look for a safe place to live. Go to your grand mother mother`s side. Or to your mother.



Q) I dreamt that a couple of jinns in a room were going to harm and I was scared....then I remembered that I can recite 1st Kalima & was no more scared. Plz interpret. 
A) Read Qur-aan aloud in that place.

Q) I dreamt that my parents were talking against me and heard my brother saying they should get me engaged to the boy whom he knows. 
A) You should be more in house and less communicative to outside world. Restrict your chats to only your girl cousins and your mahrams.

Q) I am married to a man who has got four children. They are all adults and two are married. I want to know my duty and my rights towards them. 
A) They are your mahrams and you cannot marry them. There is no obligation on you towards them. They need to respect you as a mother in law

Q) I'm married. I was having problems with my husband. During that time i was supported by a male colleague who is married as well. We started to become very close and have feeling for each other. We did istikarah to know whether we may be together. I did for me and my husband and on the first day i dreamt of my husband with a white shirt, on second day i dreamt of a green object. I did namaaz for me and the person and on first day i dreamt about a red object, second day i saw a girl dressed in black crying as she was unhappy, third day i dreamt of a red object, forth day of a white car and fifth day of red object. The person also did istikarah and he saw me in a white dress and a white room, then on other days he saw black things. Can u please interprete the dreams we saw and guide us.
A) You shoud stay with your husband. Leave and distant yourself from the other guy. If possible change dept in your work. 

Q) I dreamt my husband is having an affair with another women. Can you please interprete.
A) From shaitaan. Read Arouzoubillahi...

Q) I had a nightmare where my cousin confessed that she had strangled her sister in a fit of anger. i found myself in a fix whether i should expose her. Meaning?
A) It means that there may be family discords coming. So give sadaqah and live without great comments with family ties.

Q) I dreamt that a beautiful girl in her early twenties with pale skin was telling me each time that she is my mother. I told her that my mom is older etc but she insisted that she is my mom. Interpretation please. 
A) Should be more careful and obedient to parents even after marriage.

Q) I dreamt I was walking nude in public...Then when I realised this, I went to hide under a table....Could you please interpret?
A) It means that your clothing are too tight and you should also wear under clothing.


Q) I have semen leakage problem, plz if you have some solution plz help me. 
A) Do consult a doctor or an urologist for that medical problem. We advise that you bring your food consumption on natural and raw food. Eat ''Gramme'' daily and do physical exercise for 30 minutes everyday. Else on a masla point of view, wuzu break on abnormal semen dripping. If it drips continuously, then do a wuzu on every azaan time. The wouzou will not break if it drips between that salaah time (e.g. Zohr salaah time). But one need to redo wouzou for the next salaah time. One may read salaah with drippings in the underwear or tissues while suffering medically. 


Q) Mo ena 1 problem avec mo etude ki a chaque foi mo comoposer mo pa passer, mo faire maximum mo capave et plus mo lire mo banne doa mai mo return back., i dnt no wat to do. this yr is the lst 1 so plz help me..
A) Pas tous dimoune briller dans tous secteurs. Ou capave douer dans les zotes kitsozes. Donc essayer sa l`annee la, sinon essaye pou devellope banne les zotes profession qui ena trait avec la pratique.

Q) I commit a sin called zina. Every time i commit this sin i regret afterwards and make tawbah. After some time i do it again, regret and ask tawbah again. What should i do to stop this sinful act?
A) Fast continuously. Go out for four months jamat. At least, during this period of time you'll stay away from this sin and your environment will improve. Many people, who were committing this sin, changed through jamat.

Q) Dreaming much often of toilet, seeing oneself (faire besoin) in toilet. Please give me its significance.
A) This means that you will become richer and dunya will come to you. But you should now focus more time and money for your investment in aakhirat since you will be well off. Too much time in toilet is not good. Take a rest from dunya and go for 40 days jamaat and stay for whole Ramadhaan I`tiqaaf is a good pause for your spiritual health. 

Q) What does it mean if you dream someone frequently? 
A) Depends in what circumstances you are dreaming of him/her. More details should be given.

Q) I dreamt all my teeth are falling out. Many times I have had such dreams, Any interpretation? 
A) One should take care of one`s spiritual and physical health. In fact teeth falling out is an indication that one`s diet and way of living is causing ill effect on the body. Then one should not talk bad of others since this is detrimental to spirituality. After wuzu, stand up and drink from the tap of water. 

Q) I dream of having a car accident frequently.. what does this mean ? 
A) Are you married? what work do you do?

Q) I am being oppressed by my boy friend's family.. what should i do ? My boyfriend was beaten up by his father and he kept him locked inside the house. His father even threatened to kill us if we meet .. 
A) We advise that you follow your parents wish. Still your dua to meet your boy friend also is not acceptable since it is haraam to meet outside nikah. Since the situation is deplorable, then step back and inshA Allah you will have another one as your pair. Read 5 times daily salaats and tahajuds. 

Q) Is it advisable to let an unused house to a non-muslim? 
A) Permissible. Put these clauses in the contract: 
No construction of idols on the property. 
No right to sell liquor. 
No right to use as temple. 
No right to sublet.
No right to cause disturbance to neighbour or any distortion in the use of property.
No right to perform religious activities on the property.
Should you contravene these clause, then consider this contract null and void. 

Q) Is it permissible for men to remove chest hair (permanently) till belly? 
A) Not advisable. 

Q) My husband had a bad dream about my little daughter of 3 years last night. The next morning she voimitted for about 2 hours. what do you advise us? 
A) Read the duas for protection on the child every morming and blow on her. Ou'eezouki bikalimatilla..... 

Q) I saw a scorpion in my bathroom last week then today i dreamt of a scorpion walking on me. any meaning ? 
A) Scorpion is ennemy. Read the last 3 surahs frequently for protection.

Q) Is thinking of doing something wrong a sin, just like you did it?
A) No. Evil thoughts are not sins normally. But thinking bad of a person or having evil thoughts of someone, then istighfaar should be done. Because the Qur-aan says that some thoughts are sins. The hadith of Muslim shareef says that ''It is sufficient as a sin to think low of your muslim brother.'' As such, thoughts are sins. 

Q) My mother in law had the following dream. She took my six year old son to some place (actually a house where a deceased family used to live long ago) and she went inside leaving him outside. She thought he would be ok and know his way. Then while inside she realised it was a mistake and went to fetch him. But he had disappeared and she searched for him in vain. Any meaning to this nightmare?
A) She should be spending more time in making zikr and salaah. Tell her to read at least one quarter parah daily and read the following zikr: 100 times Allahoummaghfirli in the morning and at night 100 times. Dourouds in the morning and at night 100 times. Soubhanallahi wal Hamdoulillahi walaa ilaaha illallahou Allahou Akbar in the morning and at night.


Q) I am a girl and i have a lot of pimples, spots, scars on my face, i used so mny things but there's no change until now, so what can i do and read in order to have great satisfaction,..because im ashamed to go out and face people as my face is too ugly with this..
A) First of all do not be ashamed of something that is not sinful. The prescription of the holy prophet (saw) to anybody sick is sabr and patience. It is said that any pain or bodily sickness wash away sins until one becomes sinless. But do note that sinful is to expose one`s face in front of non mahrams. Take it as a call from Allah Ta`ala to veil yourself. Nonetheless, note that olive oil is used to apply on face and whole body. Do cupping on your back and as per prescribed. A lady only may do cupping on you. Smell the scent of Oud. And also do drink Parafin oil or Tepson salts to cleanse stomach. Else do not miss to read the last 3 sourahs (Ahad, Falaq and Naas) and blow on your hands and then pass them on your face and body. Do it 3 times after Fajr, Maghrib and before sleeping. You may continue even if your are not reading salaah.

Q) I have an uncle. He is extremely jealous and he insults me very often in public to humiliate me. How should I deal with such person?
A) Stay silent and smile. Then talk of another conversation. 

Q) What should I do if my duas during Ramadan are not answered? Even when I pray during Laylatul Qadr, the duas are not answered!!
A) Be hopeful, insha Allah they will be answered soon. Should you have sowed a tree, how much patience is observed to have fruits? 


Q) Mone faire ene reve ki mone enfermer dans ene place ki noir et la porte la ine ferme lors mo li pied et en realite dans mo lasam ena ene la table. Mo lipied in rentre enba la table la et mo pas pe capave tire li. Alors mo frere in tende tapaz lin vin getter. Couma lin rentre dans mo lasam mo someil in casser et lin demand moi kin arrier. Mone racont li mo reve. mo ti envie conner ki sa reve la pe dire.
A) Manque imaan et ibaadat. Sorti dans jamaat augmente imaan et ibadat. 

Q) A boy i knew from my tertiary course sent a wedding proposal as he likes me and i like him as well, his family also seems to like me. the boy came to see me at my house and talked to my parents. following that, we went to their place recently and my parents did not like it much there, they feel i wont be happy due to distance from my place which is quite far and the environment at his place is very different from mine, our cultures are very different. i performed the ishtikaara namaz and the response i got was a scary feeling which persisted since beginning despite the fact that i do like the boy, and from my parent's reaction, i can say tht they still feel reluctant and hesitant about it. they asked for some time from the boy's side before giving an answer. i'm in a dilemma, i dont know exactly what to do, i do not want to break anyones heart, the boy insisted with his parents that he wants to get married to me and they are fed up waiting for an answer from my parents side. the boy and i sort of know each other for a whole year now. we do like each other although we have been having some kind of misunderstanding problem often which seem to sort out later on after much patience and time! on the other hand, my parents feel all of this is a bad idea, and i do not wanna go against them, i insisted a lot that they consider his proposal because i know the boy but i will never go against my parents final decision. i do not wanna hurt the boy's parents nor him, nor my parents feelings in all this. please advise me!
A) You will need to make a decision that will be in your favour. You cannot decide for someone else's favour while causing harm to yourself. So refuse the marriage proposal. Because istikharah was negative. And your parents know you better than yourself. 

Q) I am losing my hair and I am not yet married....Is there someting islamic I can do to make my hair re-grow ?? 
A) Put oil and do massage of the head. Read 3 last sourahs and blow on hands to put on head. 


Q) I saw a dream that people were digging. After digging deeply, hard rocks were there. Some people were saying: we think in previous years some people were staying here. Please interprete the dream. 
A) You should obey your elders in issues pertaining to you. 

 

 
Chapter Of Nikah
Q) If a woman has accepted islam but not her husband, what should she do? Can she continue living with him?
A) She should encourage him to accept islam and warn him that his refusal will cancel their marriage. Then if he refused, then inform MFC to terminate the marriage. Then after 3 haizs she may remarry a muslim.

Q) Can a Hanafi girl marry a maliki boy?
A) Permissible.

Q) Can an orphan woman make her friend's husband her wali for her nikkah? If family is not around. 
A) Yes, permissible if she is 15 years old or more.

Q) If i kiss my wife on her lips for more than an hour, is it haram?
A) No.

Q) Is the date, time and place of nikah predetermined before birth?
A) Yes. 

Q) Is the life partner predetermined before our birth?
A) Yes

Q) Is it true that a husband cannot look at his wife nude? 
A) Not true. Permissible.

Q) Is it allowed in islam to do nikkah for sexual purposes and then break the nikkah ? Can a muslim person do that ? Even if both partners agree on it ? 
A) Permissible if nikah done normally without time framework

Q) Is it farz for a girl to get married when she is a baligh?is it farz for her and her parents to get her married as soon as possible after she becomes a baligh?
A) No. She should be mature enough to be able to manage a house, look after a family, etc. Because our physical and mental constitution are now getting weaker, we find that the mature age for marriage for a girl is 19 years old.

Q) Is anal sex permissible in islaam for a wedded couple? Can my husband penetrate my anus and ejaculate when im having haiz? 
A) No. This is completely haraam and prohibited.

Q) Can a wife prevent her husband from kissing her private parts if he likes to do so. Some ulemas say that this is allowed.
A) Should prevent.

Q) I would like to know that if a boy has promised a girl to do nikah with her by using Allah's name and some years later they broke up.. is the promise still valid?
A) Promise if unaccomplished, then kaffarah should be given. Rs 750 as at December 2015.

Q) Is it allowed in islam to have a nikah (private) done between a girl and a boy so that they can keep contact, then after a few months have them have another nikah where all relatives will be invited? 
A) Permissible. 

Q) Can husband and wife bath together?
A) Yes.. 




Q) How to increase sexual appetite between husband and wife ? 
A) Oud, dates, meat and rest are the ingredients. One need to know the member part of the upper part of the body that enhance excitement to the partner. The husband may finger the wife. Caress and kiss are the first steps to excitement. 

Q) Can we perform nikah after consuming alcohol?
A) Yes.

Q) Can we kiss wife private parts and also she can kiss my penis?
A) This is makrooh tahrimi and not permissible to kiss each other`s private part. Our tongue is meant to read the Qur-aan, kalimas, etc and should not be down trodden 


Q) What do you think about a second nikah ?

A) It is sunnah. But Allah Ta`ala advises us to keep only one when fear of injustice.

Q) A dua to make parents approve their son's choice to marry the girl he loves. 
A) Read tahajjud and read the dua of Hajah found on web.


Q) What dua to read to reconcile between a couple, who are staying seperate?
A) Read verse 64 of Surah 8 and blow on the food they eat.

Q) A muslim girl is willing to get married to a non muslim. Apparently the boy doesn't want to convert to islam. How can i advise the girl?
A) Allat Ta'ala created us and He creates love between spouses. He will not last those Muslilms love towards non-Muslims. One should be afraid of being thrown in hell, because this relationship implies zina, shirk and maybe consumption of pork and alcohol.


Q) Must a married woman pour water on her entire hair everyday for the Janaba bath if her husband meets her everyday? 
A) Yes, obligatory. unless she has sinus problems, then you may contact us on 57921333.

Q) I am a sunni muslim and i love a suni guy who is not from the same country as i am. we are living away from our parents and want to do a nikkah but I don't want to tell my parents about the my nikkah yet as the guy is still a student and not fully established? we plan on telling my parents after he graduates and gets a good job. is the nikkah permissable? 
A) If you are baligha or adult, then permissible.


Q) Je suis une croyante et je dois renouveler ma carte d'identite j'ai deja fait le nikah mais pour le mariage civile laquelle vous me conseillez; le separation ou le coree du bien?
A) Vous pouvez proceder avec votre nikah nama sans le marriage civile. Sinon faites la separation du bien.


Q) If a husband has sexual relationship with another woman, does his nikah break? 
A) No. 


Q) Can a Sunni Muslim marry get married with a Shia muslim ? I am a Sunni muslim and I have the intention to ask a Shia muslim for nikaah. I pray 5 times daily, I do tahajjud once a week and I ask lots of Duah so that I can guide her to the right path with the help of Allah. Any more suggestion about this ?
A) Not permissible. We do not advise on such errands.


Q) Can a Sunni Muslim get married with a Shia muslim ?
A) No.

Q) Does the husband have to support his family affter he is married?
A) It is the husband who has the responsibility towards his family.

Q) Is nikah accepted when the girl has her menses?
A) Yes.

Q) What is meant by nikah qubool?
A) Accept the proposition of nikaah.


Q) I was going to marry a girl who is a Non -Muslim but, is ready to convert to Islam.But, the problem is that lately I came to know that she had Physical relationship with someone else and he too was a Non-Muslim. When I came to know about all this, I dropped the idea of Marrying her. but, still there is a guilt in my mind that what I did was not right. Thus, I would request you to kindly suggest me that what I did was right or should I Marry her even after knowing that she had physical relations in the past with a Non-Muslim guy.
A) It is your feelings towards her that may drive for a good decision. If you cannot digest the ''betrayal'' and it washed most of your feelings, then do not marry her. especially if she lied to you. But if your feelings towards her is still strong and you cannot go without her, then forgive her and marry her.

Q) If a husband is already in 1 nikah and insist of making a second nikah is it allowed?
A) Allowed. But better look after one family as the Qur'an recommends.

Q) I asked a girl to marry me and she refused because I am poor. What can I do to become rich? Are there any duas to become rich quickly?
A) Read astaghfirullah a lot and read 5 times daily salaats.

Q) Can a husband kiss (without sucking) his wife's private part?
A) No.

Q) If a girl made istikharah for marriage and she got a positive answer but the boy got a negative, should they get married or not. (the girl is still in her first nikah and waiting for divorce so as to marry him).
A) Both should redo istikharah AFTER the lady got the divorce and after iddah.


Q) If one partner does shirk, is the nikaah still valid? By shirk i mean going to dargas or to imaams to ask them to do duas for them or reciting the prayers of the kufaar but without truly believing in it.
A) Nikah is no more valid if one partner did shirk.

Q) If a couple contracts nikah and comsummate their nikah a year after, is the nikah stil valid?
A) Yes, valid.


Q) Is it permissible a couple engage in sexual relationship during pregnancy?
A) Permissible. The holy prophet SAW did not stop the sahabas on that issue.

Q) A man lives with his wife in his parents house in one room, and a small part as her kitchen. The wife finds her uncomfortable and she always ask her husband to build a house. And the man is not financially stable. What does the husband have to do?
A) We suggest that the husband rent a house so as to give the complete right of the wife. In this way, the children also may have space to sleep and live.

Q) Is a man allowed to finger his wife if she want it this way. if yes, does she have to do ghusl?
A) Yes, recommended. No, unless she experienced orgasm and ejaculate.

Q) I'm a baaligh girl. i've made nikah in presence of only two witnesses (one being my husband's father and the other is his cousin (male and mature). Is the nikah counted?
A) Nikah is counted.

Q) Can i perform nikah with my cousin (my mother's sister's daughter)?
A) Yes, it is permissible to perform nikah with one's cousin. Of course, the condition of mutual consent of the girl is essential for the nikah. Read more about nikah on http://islam-qna.org/Articles.asp?LN=FR&QID=18


Q) I want to ask, if at the time of nikaah the girl's parents did not give their consent but no shariah compliant reason was there, will it be a trouble for both the bride and the groom to be together in jannah? 
A) You need to describe how the nikah was done? You were present? Or the father was there? What did he say? What the witnesses said? Tell me these details first. 

Q) I would like to know what is the difference between Nikkah and ruksathi. And if Nikhha already done not Ruksathi and girl living with parents who is responsible for girl expenses.
A) Nikah is the contract of marriage according to shariah whereby there is consent proposal on one side and acceptance on the other side, in front of minimum 2 muslim men (read article on the subject on the web). Rukhsati is the departing of the girl from her home to the husband`s home. Rukhsati can be made long after nikah as arranged.
After nikah, it is the husband who should take the expenses of the wife. If the girl is not stopping the husband to cohabit with her or to touch her, then the expenses is definitely on the husband. But if the wife is holding herself from touching her or kissing her, then the husband may refuse for the expenses.
Before nikah, the parents are responsible. And after nikah, husband is responsible.

Q) Can two persons who love each other a lot have nikah, but never have sexual contact because they do not like it?
A) Permissible in front of two male muslim witnesses.

Q) Can a nikah be valid after conversion into Islam, BUT before circumcision?
A) Valid.

Q) My sister loves a boy and wants to perfom the nikkah soon in the halaal way but she can't tell our parents because of fear. What should she do?
A) We should be ready for their refusal and follow their wish. Because they know better for our future and better pair. The shariah promote a spirit of equilibrium society whereby we know who is the wife of who. Secret nikahs complicate a recognition in the Islamic society. Although permissible, secret nikahs are against the spirit of the Qur-aan. In fact Allah Ta`ala said that we should take the wife with the permission of the family:''So marry them with the permission of their responsible parties and give them their due compensation according to what is acceptable. [They should be] chaste, neither [of] those who commit unlawful intercourse randomly nor those who take [secret] lovers.''(4:25) This ayat clearly indicate that it is against the spirit of Nikah to keep a secret relationship. That is why the holy prophet ordered us to make i`laan of nikah in masjids:''Announce the Nikah and do it in Masjids..''(Tirmizi) As such it is either you proceed to the enduring and sunnah way to inform the parents or take the secret underground cul de sac. Inform your parents and follow their councelling.

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَعْلِنُوا هَذَا النِّكَاحَ وَاجْعَلُوهُ فِي الْمَسَاجِدِ وَاضْرِبُوا عَلَيْهِ بِالدُّفُوفِ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ حَسَنٌ فِي هَذَا الْبَابِ وَعِيسَى بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ الْأَنْصَارِيُّ يُضَعَّفُ فِي الْحَدِيثِ وَعِيسَى بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ الَّذِي يَرْوِي عَنْ ابْنِ أَبِي نَجِيحٍ التَّفْسِيرَ هُوَ ثِقَةٌ

Q) I know a couple who are in nikah but live separately. Sometimes the boy goes to meet the girl but have not yet comsumed nikah for four years. Now they are doing nikah again and this time the boy will take the girl at his place. is this nikah allowed in islam?
A) Nikah is permissible, but in fact not necessary since already done. But the couple may make intention of tajdeed nikah or renewal of nikah which is recommended.

Q) My husband often asks me for sodomie which i always refuse. Last time i got so angry when he asked me again, that i called him kafir without knowing it is very sinful to call a muslim kafir. I regret a lot for saying this word. Is my nikah still valid ? 
A) Your nikah is still valid. In fact the holy prophet SAW has warned sodomists as ''Kafir''. As such you have not sinned. But still, the one who practice such act is not kafir by aqeedah, but kafir on the words of the holy prophet SAW. Do read on the subject in the articles on the web. 

Q) Is it true that we should not read Quran 1/2 an hour before the magrib azaan? Or is there any specific time when quran should not be read? What is best time for wazifas (like if want to read 500 times darud or kul)? 
A) Not true. No such time. Best time for wazifah is after sehri, at the time of fajr, before sun rise. And also before sunset, after assr. 


Q) Is it true that a person's life partner is written by Allah when he/ she is of three months in his/her mother's womb? 
A) Yes, 4 months old baby. In fact all destiny is unrolled that time. Although destiny was written 50 000 years before creation of Adam a.s.

Q) Is it true that people can send jinns on others? can it affect intimate relations between husband and wife? 
A) Witch, yes. They may do ill magic to affect couple`s relationship. 


Q) I am married since 2 years. i dream of having babies frequently where i cannot handle..any meaning ? i heard its jinn.. is it true ?
A) Possible. You should have a test on it. may be you will have a baby insha Allah. 

Q) Is there any problem in keeping 3 nikkahs same day?
A) No. 

Q) Is it necessary to make physical relationship after nikah...if women don't want to have.
A) Not necessary to have physical relationship. One may convene rukhsati after Nikah. After Rukhsati, physical relation may be established and then one may do walimah. The holy prophet SAW did nikah and consumed the nikah only after 2 years with Hazrat Aisha r.a. 

Q) What is mehr fatimi? 
A) The value mehr that Hazrat Fatimah r.a. asked hazrat Ali r.a. at times of marriage.

Q) Does a married man need written consent from his first wife for second marriage? As per islamic law in Indian law.
A) No. No written consent needed. 


Q) Is it a sin to not get married?
A) Not sunnah. It may be permissible to stay bachelor to serve the deen of Allah TA`ala like Imam Nawawi(r.a.) or Hazrat Yahya(a.s.). But still it is not on the beloved way traced by the holy prophet peace be upon him. Allah Ta`ala has preferred the way of the sunnah and has proclaimed: ''Only if you follow him, then will you achieve true guidance.''(24:54) Because of the danger of zina, Allah TA`ala ordered us to marry and also the holy prophet SAW clearly said:''O you the Youth! Those of you who can get married should get married.''(Bukhari)And those who cannot get married because of finance or any other reason, then they should keep fast(roza). As such the ideal sunnah is to get married to preserve one`s chastity and staying bachelor without any valid reason is reprehensible.

Q) What is the responsibility of a husband to his wife after nikaah?
A) To look after her with care and finance, providing her with a house, food , clothing and make ups.


Q) Can a lady who follows the hanafi fiqh get married to a man who follows the tawheed group? 
A) Permissible although not advisable. 

Q) Does merely saying you cant stay with someone nullifies the nikah? 
A) No. 

 Q) Can a guy do nikkah without his father's approval? In fact at first the father gave his consent then he started thinking about age gap and he his money minded. Can the guy do nikah? He works also.
A) Permissible, but the boy should be independent financially and can provide for a house for the wife.

Q) How to know whether the person you are about to marry is indeed the right person made for you while problems keep on cropping up as the wedding is nearing and doubts cropping up now ?
A) The istikharah can help in this issue.

Q) What if a wife doesnt allow the husband to ejaculate outside her vagina?
A) That is her right. Then it is makrooh to oppose her right.

Q) Can somebody marry two sisters of same blood relationship and live with both ? Is such a nikah ( both) valid? Are the persons concerned commiting sins? What does the shariah recommends in such a situation?
A) Not permissible to marry two sisters at the same time. Yes on is committing zina with the second one. The first nikah to the first sister is valid, but the second one would never be valid during the nikah of the first one. One can only perform nikah with one sister only. Unless one wish to divorce the first one and then after iddah, one may marry the second one.

Q) I am in love with a woman who has slept with a lot of her past boyfriends outside of marriage. I am a virgin. Am I allowed to marry her?
A) Permissible.

Q) Is it true on the day of nikkah someone has to hold the quran for the bride?
A) No.

Q) Is it allowed for a 75 yrs old man to keep a woman at home to help him look after his wife who is suffering from Alzheimer or should he do nikah with her first?
A) No. Yes, he may perform nikah, then permissible.


Q) When is one allowed to do nikah secretly?
A) Nikah can be performed in the presence of two witnesses. But it is highly recommended to take permission form the girls’s parents for an official nikah.

Q) Can a non-muslim father stand as wakeel for his muslim daughter for her nikah? Is the nikah acceptable?
A) No, not acceptable.

Q) Is civil marriage permissible in islam?
A) Permissible when necessary under the policy of ''separation du bien''.

Q) I'm 23 and i love a muslim boy age 25, he is independent.. we are suppose to get married next year. by the permission of both our parents. in order to avoid zina, can we get married secretly? he is unable to control his desires.. we want to do it in a halal way.
A) Permissible, not advisable. Permissible to perform nikah in front of two male muslim with proposition and acceptance in the past tense. But what if your engagement break? Then you will be a woman already and yet, not officially married. That is why it is not advisable.


Q) Is it permissible to give mehr in other form than money? e.g gold, pocessions, premisses...etc? 

A) Permissible to give mehr in other assets form. There is a minimum mehr, though. Find it on the web.


Q) I wanted to know what are the responsibilities of the husband in the house. In what way should he bring help to his wife concerning the household tasks as well as caring after the children?
A) The husband should look after the financial matters of the home. He should spare time for the children upbringing and also to the wife. He should look after the wife satisfying her psychologically and physically.

Q) If a woman does not want her husband to perform second nikah. Can she say that in the wedding contract?
A) Yes, one may mention this in the nikah contract. This clause would be considered as a ''promise'' clause and treated as such.

Q) Concerning marriage, If a boy is pious and has a good character but the girl is not physically attracted by him, what does islam say about it?
A) Nikah is not advisable. Physical attraction and appreciation is important for a nikah duration.
Q) If a boy and a girl have already agreed to get married, can they talk on the phone before nikah?
A) No, it is haraam to speak, sms or mail each other unless a nikah is performed.

Q) What are the rights of a boy who wants to get married to a muslim without the permission of his dad?
A) First of all, it not advisable to marry without the consent of the parents. But still it is permissible for adult muslims to decide on their marital choice on their own. The rights of any couple are fully distributed as per shar`ee rulings. In brief the husband should cater the expenses and house of the wife. The wife should answer the husband when called to intimacy and look after the house. You may read on web the different rights of husband and wife on web.

Q) Is it right for a Muslim girl to use the surname of her fiance before nikkah? 
A) No. Not permissible to do proximity with Fiancée without nikah.


Q) Is nikah valid if a girl gets married without the consent of her father, the boy being a muslim and the parents of the girl previously agreed and then refuse to get the daughter married to the boy?
A) The nikah will be valid if the lady is adult (got her menses). But if the father claim for a dissolution, he has the right to do so because it has affected his reputaion. But dissolution are accepted on a religious mismatch only.

Q) If my mother-in-law says things that hurts, can my husband and i go stay somewhere else?
A) If a husband has the means, he should provide a separate quarter for her wife to stay. Therefore, it is good if the husband separates the wife and the mother according to shariah.

Q) I want to know about the duty a husband should accomplish towards the wife and children. Does it mean that the wife has to obey and look after the in-laws and forget her parents?
A) The wife has no responsibility towards the inlaws.

Q) Est-qui nous gagne droit marier civil? Si oui, Ki facon? Core ou core et bien.
A) Marriage civile li complique possession du bien dans la vie et aussi distribution heritage apres la mort. Donc tanque possible evite marriage civile. Mais si bien bizin alors marier avec separation du bien. Mais si finne marier corps et bien, donc lerla prepare ene testament cote ene notaire pou faire distribution heritage selon:'' Mohammedan law of Inheritance.'' Ou capave renseigner lor web lor distribution de ou du bien comment pou faire selon Islam.

Q) The Quran mentions that it is permissible to marry people of the book (christian and jews). Is this still valid? If yes, does it not contradict the verse that says "... today I have perfected your religion. No other religion will be accepted except islam ..." If not, would that mean we are rejecting a quranic verse?
A) Note that the permission for a muslim male to marry a jew or a Christian woman is a Coranic permission which have conditions attached to that. Ulamas have discouraged such practice since children upbringing and halaal diet would be washed away in such cases.

Q) What must the wife do if her husband no longer wants to have sex with her? The wife always embellishes herself infront of her husband but to no avail?
A) There are 2 reasons that may be: first the husband may be having affair besides his wife. And secondly may be the husband is sick. See the in and out of the husband if he is having sex elsewhere and try to stop him. Else if he is sick, then see a doctor to strengthen him physically.

Q) Can your husband look at your body after performing wudhu?
A) Yes.

Q) What is the importance of Mehr Faatimi? Can a person give it later after Nikah, even if a lower amount was mentioned in Nikah? 
A) Mehr of Hazrat Fatimah (ra). If already set then no need to adjust mehr.


Q) For how long is nikah valid without rukhsati and at what condition it becomes invalid?
A) No timing. Only Talaq.

Q) Is it a sin to drink from the same glass of your future husband?
A) Yes. 


Q) Can a girl and a boy do nikah in presence of only 2 witnesses?
A) Permissible, but not to be done.

Q) I am a woman, Is it permissible to marry my daughter to the son of my khala?
A) Permissible.

Q) I have a fight with my wife and after that she went home with her father and its 6 months now and she is still staying there. I tried to convinc her but now she doesn't want to live in my family as she wants me to leave my mom and dad and then only we can stay together. She is working in a school now without asking me . Can u please advise me. Is there anything like the Nikaah will be Haram or something?
A) Nikah is valid. We suggest that you both summon MFC for a solution by muslim scholars: 2128667. 

Q) Engaged for 3 years, parents plan to get us married when guy is in med school, we want a nikkah as soon as possible due to possibility of zina. We talked to our parents they said wait, what should we do? 
A) We advise that you cut all relation with him because nikah has to be celebrated officially. The Qur-aan advise us strongly to take the girl by the permission of the parents. Allah Ta`ala says: '' . Et épousez-les avec l’autorisation de leurs maîtres (Waliy) et donnez-leur un mahr convenable; (épousez-les) étant vertueuses et non pas livrées à la débauche ni ayant des amants clandestins.''(4:25) 
You should be aware that a nikah in front of two muslim friends: I have given myself in your nikah for Rs 2000 and the boy says I have accepted you in my nikah is totally valid, but not recommended and not advisable. This is because, there is no responsibility of marriage in such nikahs. It is done to save the couple from sex in haraam or zina and also to stay as boy friend and girl friend as such. Such nikahs done on a basis of boy friend and girl friend is against the spirit of nikaah as the Qur-aan says: '' ni ayant des amants clandestins.'' 
Although in front of the society they are not married yet, although they are. But the couple may separate tomorrow and the girl would be no more a virgin. Be aware that the boy would be more free and less responsible in such conditions to play or abuse of the girl`s future. He may take advantage to have sex with the girl and then later on leave her, as boy friend do with girl friends. That is why the holy prophet SAW prescribed nikah only on those youths who can take responsibility of marriage. Clearly mentioned in Bukhari, the holy prophet SAW said:''O you the youths! Those who can afford to marry, do get married. And those who cannot afford should fast. Hence if your future husband is not ready to house you, spend on you and stay with you as a husband should do, then he should fast. The sunnah prescription in such circumstances is fasting and not perform secret nikah. We have witnessed such secret nikahs ending badly for the young girl. She is not a virgin and yet seems unmarried and expected to be so. Furthermore, the sunnah order us to make i`laan and announce publicly the nikah in masjid. So that no difficulty happens that when you would propose an unmarried girl, she may be in the nikah of someone else, without anybody knowing. Not even the parents. 
So take your responsibility and wait for the official marriage so as both of you may take real couple responsibility. And also cut all connection and phoning in the meantime. This is more secure for you and your future. Until then you both should fast. 

Q) I just wanted to ask i recently had my nikkah done. However i know i did my wudu wrong and missed some parts of it out. Does that mean my nikkah has not been accepted. I did not touch a Quran but did repeat words from the molvi. im just really worried. 
A) Nikah ok even without wuzou. 


Q) During the periods of the wife if the couple got engaged in sexual relation will it be considered as a sin? what can be done if this was done in the past?
A) It is a major sin to have sexual relation during menses. In fact the ahadiths condemned severely the couple who penetrate through menses. One should repent and make sincere tawbah if this happened. On top of that one may give sadaqah also.

Q) Est ce que le nikaah est toujours valide si un couple s'est separe pendant 3 ans sans aucune relation maritale et que apres il decide de revivre ensemble. Jamais il n'a prononcer le mot talaak.
A) Oui toujours valide. Vous pouvez consommer sans renouveler le nikah.

Q) How to proceed to nuptial night according to sunnah? 
A) The husband hold the hair of the wife and read the dua u’a quand fine fek marier 
1. Faire 2 rakats namaz nafil ensemble : madame deboute completement derriere et suivre dulha dans namaz. Et puis faire duas et faire sa du`a la :

اَللهُمَ بَارِكْ فِي أَهْلِي وَبَارِكْ لَهُمْ فِيَّ وَارْزُقْنِيْ مِنْهُمْ وَارْزُقْهُمْ مِنِيْ ، وَاللهُمَ اجْمَعْ بَيْنَنَا مَا جُمِعَتْ ، وَفَرِقْ بَيْنَنَا مَا فُرِقَتْ إِلى خَيْرٍ
 

Allahoumma baarik fi ahli wa baarik lahoum fiyya warzouqni minhoum warzouqhoum minni wallahoummaj m'a bainana maa joummi`at wa farriq bainana ma fourriqat ilaa khairin. (Durre mansoor) 

O Allah met barkat dans mo madame et accorde mo madame barkat dans moi, et accorde moi rizq avec zote et accorde zote rizq avec moi et reuni en nous ceki ena de bien pou reuni et separe nous de banne kitsoze ki bizoin separer pou amene nous vers bienfait. 

2. Et puis garson attrape cheveux devant de la fille et lire sa du`a la :

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ 

Allahoumma inni as alouka khairahaa wa khaira ma jabaltaha `alaihi wa a'ouzou bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jabaltaha `alaihi.(Abu Dawood)

Oh Allah mo dimane toi meilleur de sa fille la et meileur de so nature et mo dimanne toi protection contre le mal de sa fille la et le mal de so temperament. 

Du`a avant alle dans menage :

بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا 

Bismillahi Allahoumma jannibnash shaitwaana wa jannibish shaitwaana maa razaqtanaa. (Bukhari) 

Mo commencer par le nom d`Allah, Oh Allah eloigne nous contre shaitaan et eloigne shaitaan avec ce ki To pou donne nous (zenfant).

Q) After nikah, in how many days should the couple consume their nikah, taking into consideration that the husband and wife are not living togetherbut in same country and intend to live together a few months later.
A) Any number of days that is mutually agreed.

Q) Although I am married, I commit many sins linked to sexuality because my wife cannot satisfy me sexually? What is the solution?
A) Your wife may masturbate you if necessary. We will need more details on the matter. Another option may be a second wife. You may phone on 7921333 to give your marital insatisfaction details.

Q) Duah to get a good boy for nikah?
A) First you need to be a good girl and pious. Because Qur-aan talks of good pious boys are liable to good pious girls. Sinful boys are linked to sinful girls: Le fornicateur n’épousera qu’une fornicatrice ou une associatrice. Et la fornicatrice ne sera épousée que par un fornicateur ou un associateur;(Sourah Nur: 3) Furthermore Allah Ta`ala says in the same sourah: Les mauvaises [femmes] aux mauvais [hommes], et les mauvais [hommes] aux mauvaises [femmes]. De même, les bonnes [femmes] aux bons [hommes], et les bons [hommes] aux bonnes [femmes].(3:26) You may read also in tahajjud times and after daily 5 salaahs: Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa zurriyatina qurrata a`youn waj`alna lilmutaqeena imama.

Q) Can a wife do masturbation for her husband until he ejaculates?
A) Yes.

Q) Mo madame donne ti baba du lait. Eski mo gagne droit boire lait mo madame?
A) Non, li makrooh tahreemi et haraam.

Q) Is a girl allowed to make a condition before getting married that her husband should not take a second wife as long as she's alive? If already married, can this be asked?
A) Yes this condition is acceptable between parties.

Q) My parents are refusing to accept the girl whom I love. For reasons, she is divorced and older than me. I have performed the Istikhara prayer several times and dreamed of masjid each times. If I marry her, will I commit a sin against my parents?
A) No. You may marry her.

Q) If a husband calls his wife to his bed and she refuses the angels will curse her. But if sometimes she doesn't want to have sexual relation so can't she refuse his husband?
A) The core explanation is that one should accomplish the right of each other in Nikah. The opening to Zina, adultery, extra marital affairs may be linked to lazy sexual habit between married couples. As such shariah close the door to all these mess by compelling the wife to respond to the halaal husband. Else make the husband happy by other means and words before sleeping. Because the hadith also mentions that the husband being unhappy.

Q) A man has 2 wifes but the first wife does not accept the nikah, is the nikah accepted and I want to know the rules.
A) The nikah is accepted. The man should share nights between the two wives according to sunnah, unless the wife forgo her rights like Hazrat Sawda (ra)

Q) Is it a crime to look for a good man in view to marriage for my daughter?
A) It is not a crime to look for a pious man for your daughter. Rather the man folk of the family should look for a pious husband for the girl

Q) If a female gets into physical relation with any other man, does her nikaah get dissolved automatically or still she is in Nikaah?
A) No. The nikah is still valid. But she will need to secretly make tawbah sincerely not to redo again. She should hide this grave sin and repent for not redoing it. she does not have to say it to the husband also. 

Q) It's been one year since I've done nikah with my wife in a masjid on a Friday. However, we recently found out that our marriage might not be valid. Girl's parents didn't have an Islamic reason to reject me, other than I wasn't of their ethnicity (Afghan). I'm from Kazakhstan. Hence, we have done the nikah by ourselves with 2 witnesses and a wali who is an imam (in the masjid).The problem here is that the wali of the girl, as we recently found out, is a Sufi imam. And we are sunni muslims. Now, we're 90% sure our marriage is probably not valid since Sufis do a lot of bidah (inventions) in Islam. Our concern is also that we are not sure what to do now regarding the following: 
1) Should my "wife" now cover herself up when in my presence? 
2) Do we have to stay far away from each other for now until the nikah? We live in the same house and I can go somewhere else until the proper nikah is done. 
The imam said that he is following the Ahl al Sunna wa Jama'a but we think he is sufi due to his clothes and also because the masjid itself is known as a sufi mazjid in our area. But we didn't know at the time of course. We thought it didn't matter. We also don't know any other name for Sufi (so not sure if it's from the Barelvi area of India) but we do know that the vast majority of that masjid consist of people from Surinam and Pakistan. 
My wife was indeed present, yes. There were 2 witnesses (both practicing Muslims), an imam, my wife and I in the room, so 5 people in total. The imam first asked my wife if she notified her parents that it is her nikah today. The imam knew that he was my wife's wali and he knew the reason (due to her parents' rejection of me). The imam then asked my wife 3 times if she wanted to marry me and she answered "I do" 3 times. My wife wanted to have the minimum mahr and the imam calculated how much the minimum requirement would be in euros. Imam said 50 euros. And the imam asked me also after my wife 3 times and I accepted the marriage. The imam pronounced our full names and our fathers full names before asking us if we accept the marriage. At the end he made a dua to ALLAH swt for us to have a blessed marriage. 
A) Since your wife was present and she is adult, then her proposal of nikah is sufficient and we do not need any wali in between for the validation of the nikah. It seems to me that the imaam was qualified to perform the nikah since he did take the couple`s father`s name. The nikah seems valid provided that these type of proposal was done: Wife: ‘’I have given myself in your marriage for 50 Euros.’’ Husband: ‘’I have accepted’’. If you are in doubt, then do this declarations in front of two muslims. This process is called tajdeed nikah or revalidation of the nikah which is recommended nowadays for all. Because sometimes one may say kufr words unknowingly that invalidate the nikah. Sufis are muslims.

Q) Is it permissible for a girl who is divorced and completed idah to perform a second nikah with another boy without informing him about the previous nikak in fear of rejection? 

A) She should inform him. The aspect of whether she is virgin or not is a main difference in shariah and its application. A rejection after marriage would be worst than informing him before marriage. In fact in shariah, such rejection would be accountable on such issues. 


Q) Is it sunnat for men to kiss there wife when they come home?
A) You may read the sunnah duas found in Masnoon Duas. Bismillah, salaam, and good words are sunnah. But time to time it is sunnah to kiss before leaving home.

Q) Is it true marrying cousins is makrooh?
A) No. In fact the prophet did marry his cousins.

Q) Is it lawful for the husband to play with his wife's both private parts using hands and vice versa?
A) It is lawful to caress with hands only the vagina and not the anus. The wife may use oil, etc to caress the penis part of the husband and not the anus.

Q) Does islam allows the husband to beat his wife?
A) No. Husband has no right to beat the wife. He may take a miswaak stick and lightly hit her, when necessary. And that also should not be hard stick beat. But light beat. Nothing more. This is permissible and not an order. The beloved prophet SAW never hit anyone or anything.

Q) Any suggestion for husband who take too long to ejaculate? (even wife is pleasant and beautiful). Is there anything to eaten or drink? 
A) There are places over his body that you will have to caress that he would ejaculate quicker. So during intercourse, look for that and then caress there or kiss there.

Q) When should nikah be held, before walimah or after it? 
A) Before.

Q) When making love with my wife, a liquid comes out from her vagina. Does this break Wudhu or Ghusl? 
A) With penetration, ghusl break.

Q) If a hindou couple accepted Islam, do they need to perform/renew nikah?
A) No. If they accepted islam together, they'll be husband and wife in Islam. No need to perform nikah.

Q) During intercourse, by mistake my penis went inside my wife's anus. Is my nikah broken? 
A) No. Nikah did not break. Do tawbah and istighfaar.

Q) Is it permissible to kiss my wife (on mouth) and put the chewed food from my mouth into hers?
A) Persmissible, if your wife accept it. 

Q) What is the dua to get married soon?
A) Read Allahoummaghfir li 360 times at sehri time.


Q) I need your advise regarding my nikah. My nikah was done on papers. i mean only one witness came to me and advise where i have to sign on nikah contract. verbally i was not asked about my consent so is my nikah valid? Same day i informed my mom that y didnt wakeel or witness asked me about my consent. why proper islamic procedure was not followed?? She simply smiled and said nikah process was conducted. please clarify in accordance to the light of sunni muslim islam say in this regard? Few months later me and my husband had arguments on phone. He was extremely angry and he gave me 3 divorces on phone before ruksati .. later he told me that he was not aware about 3 divorce considered 3 for girl who has no physical relation with husband. he thought three talaq at one time is considered as one divorce. So kindly advise if my marriage is over. Can i remarry my husband without halala? Me and my husband really dont want to end our marriage. 
Note: We didn't spend any time together (in a closed room), not even ten minutes.
His exact words were: mein talaq deta houn. He said this 4 to 5 times
A) Ok, given the information that you have not consumed your marriage and that your husband said ‘’I am giving you talaaq’’ a few times, then you have separated with your husband with only one Talaaq ba-in. Only one talaaq has taken effect. The rest is null and void since you have not consumed your marriage yet. Furthermore, you had no iddah for this talaaq. Since you want to continue with your husband, then you will absolutely need to do nikah again in front of two witnesses. This time, be sure that you have given your permission for nikah. Know that one talaaq out of 3 has taken effect. 2 talaaq remaining to make you two haraam completely. So do not pronounce talaaq before long term consultation and final decision. Shami, Bahr

Q) I am a christian by birth. I loved an islamic boy. He taught me about islam and made me to understand about islam i really accepted islam and talked to the boy's parent. They accepted me because now by heartly i was islamic girl. I am following all islamic conditions. The problem is my parents are not accepting our marriage. I need my parents too accept. please suggest me some sura my parents should turn to my favor. 
A) Your religion and deen is more important than the wish of your parents. You should rather follow the path of Islam and get married as soon as possible. The blessings of Allah is more important than anything.

Q) Can a virgin marry a man who has committed adultery? 

A) Permissible if the man made tawbah.

Q) Can husband and wife swallow each other's saliva while kissing?
A) Yes.


Q) What is Mehr Faatimi? Please elaborate on minimum mehr.
A) Mehr Faatimi is the mehr that Hazrat Fatima (ra) requested for her nikah. A lady has a value in Islam. At her offer of wedding she has the right to ask for a mehr. The Qur-aan has given the democracy to women to ask whatever they wish. But a minimum limit is 10 dirhams (hadith) and its value nowadays is Rs 1800.

Q) How much monthly expense in terms of money should a husband gives his wife?
A) The money that the husband spend on his family depends on the financial condition of the husband. Allah Ta`ala says: Let him (the husband) who has abundance spend out of his abundance and whoever has his means of subsistence straitened to him, let him spend out of that which Allah has given him; Allah does not lay on any soul a burden except to the extent to which He has granted it; Allah brings about ease after difficulty. (7:65) As such the husband may spend how he can averagely from Rs 3000 to Rs 10000.

Q) Mem si ene missie fini tire so ration du moi li bisin don so madam n somme pou so personal monthly expense? et si madam la travaille?
A) Selon moyen, ene missier donne so madame ene pocket money pou permette li acheter ou garder pou li. Meme si madame travail, li bizin accorde li.

Q) Is using a condom halal in islam? As we are not ready to have children.
A) Permissible with the consent of the partner. Although the main objective of marriage is to increase progeny (Qur-aan). The holy prophet (saw) encouraged us to have more children so as to increase the ummah. (Hadith)

Q) Can a wife take her husband's last name after marriage...can she keep her father's last name adding her husband's to that? is it haraam?
A) All this is permissible as far as the names have good meanings.

Q) Is it permissible to suck my wife?
A) It is makrouh tahreemi and haraam to practice oral sex.

Q) What is the dua to get married soon?
A) Read Allahoummaghfir li 360 times at sehri time.


Q) If a wife is not adapting herself in the environment of her husband and asks the latter to move out, shoulh he do so??
A) No. We should try to resolve the matter by dialogue, passive actions, else refer the case to someone you both trust. Else Muslim Family Council is a neutral platform that may be chosen as a last card.

Q) Apres ene la geurre entre couple li vinne dificile pou ene madam satisfaire so mari physiquement, puisque mari la in blesse so dinite...b eski dan sa cas la madam la gagne gunnah si li pa p satisfaire so mari sexuellement?
A) Blessure ki finne gagner, bizin essaye gueri li. Lire l`article ';Les ingredients de l`amour et les ingredients de la haine.'' Sur le web. Sa couple la bizin essaye pou choisir banne paroles et actions ki pou amene l`amour dans zote couple.

Q) Is the use of contraception (Condom etc) permissible according to shariat for newly married couple so that they can know each other better?
A) If there is genuine necessity qualified by pious doctor, then permissible with permission of the partner.

Q) Is it permissible to get married without parental consent? Is it a sin for having marrying someone whereby parents have been refusing?
A) Permissible for a baaligh girl, but this practice is reprehensible and definitely not advisable.

Q) What is the right of a wife against her husband?
A) To be fed, housed and be kept comfortable as per his means. To have intimacy with her at least once every four month. To act with politeness and gentleness towards her. Spending the night with her when the husband is around and has no other commitments. 


Q) Does those people who practice goon are from shia community? can we get married to them?
A) It depends on their creed. If their creed is same like ours, their azaan and qiblah are same like ours, then you may get married to them. But if their creed on prophecy, their stand of Abu Bakr and Umar as better than Ali differs, then you cannot marry them.

Q) I just found out my husband is having an affair with one of his ex-students, i'm so shocked. Please help. I found out their chat logs. A) Islam teaches on the first instance dialogue. You need to choose a time to talk to your husband alone. Ask him the truth and evaluate how far this ‘’affair’’ reached. If he says that it is only chatting, then inform him that it is haraam what he is doing. Else if he admit that there is a physical relation already established, then know that it is still haraam without nikah. Then you may evaluate your feelings towards him having a second wife. Know that sabr and patience will bring fruit in these circumstances. Although not recommended, but in most circumstances wives submit one divorce/talaaq request if the husband insist on 2nd nikah. But we need to bear in mind that if we have children, then turn towards Allah to give you the necessary sabr to go through this trauma. All this may be a scenario of an affair issue. But best is to talk and act with wisdom and do not haste. Particularly if you have children, then your husband is the best father for your child. Dua and patience is best food during such circumstances. You may inform us time to time for advice.

Q) Can a man marry a second wife without informing his first wife?
A) Permissible, although undignified.

Q) If a baaligh girl is in parda and her parent are looking for a boy to marry her, how will the boy see her when he will come home or can you suggest the step to proceed for the boy?
A) She will dress decently and unveil the face for that time that the boy will visit her in front of the parents.

Q) What is the appropriate dua to read so that my family accept the girl i love and get us married?
A) Be regular with your 5 times daily salaah and make dua after salaahs. Wake up for tahajud and cry or else make like crying asking Allah TA`ala for help. Else make istikhara again since the parents` reluctance should be considered for our own benefit. Read lot of rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa zurriyatina qurrata a`youn waj`alna lil mutaqeena imama.

Q) Is it necessary to consumate the marriage before the reception ?
A) Not necessary. In fact reception (walima) may be done after nikah and before consumption of the nikah. Although the prevailing sunnah is to do reception (walima) after consumption.

Q) Can one marry his own cousin?
A) Yes. Nabi (saw) got married to his cousin too.

Q) What should be done if the husband cannot give his wife her rights to have a seperate quarters not because of financial problems but because of his parents?
A) It is incumbent upon any well off husband to accommodate his wife in a separate home. Accommodation is compulsory for a husband towards his wife. The holy prophet(saw) said : ‘’Fear Allah concerning for women, …their rights on you is that you have to feed them and house them decently..’’ (Muslim). As such, even if the parents object for accommodating the wife, the husband should still give a separate house to the wife. The parent should be attended separately at different times and the wife should be attended separately particularly after Maghrib and at night. The wife may sue the husband in the court of Allah on the day of Qayamah on this issue. As such the husband should give the rights of the wife as prescribed by the shariah.

Q) Is it permissible to ejaculate outside so that my wife doesn’t fall pregnant?
A) Permissible, with the permission of the wife.

Q) Can a woman have intercourse with her husband at the end of her changes, before taking ghusal?
A) If your aadat (no. of days you normally get your changes) is of ten days, then at the end of those ten days, you can have intercourse without taking ghusal. But if your aadat is less than ten days, then you must take a ghusal first or you must wait until one salaah time passes.

Q) I had sex with my husband at night and took ghusal straight after having relationship. When I woke up for fajar I saw some liquid coming out from my vagina. Is this sperm? Must I repeat my ghusal? 
A) No need to repeat ghusl. This is called vaginal humidity and same as perle blanche and hence pure and does not break nor wouzu nor ghusl.

Q) Is it true that the duas of married people are more easily accepted than the duas of people who are single? 
A) Yes. It is true. 

Q) My wife dont want to have sex,cause she dont like it.what can I do now ? 
A) Consult a doctor. It is important to know her libido so as to enhance your couple life. You need to find out on her body that would excite her libido.

Q) Is ghusl wajib on both husband and wife if the husband had intercourse without ejaculation?
A) Yes. Ghusl wajib on both.


Q) Is it true marrying cousins is makrooh?
A) No. In fact the prophet did marry his cousins.

Q) Is a husband permitted to drink his wife's milk?
A) No. Makrooh tahreemi.

Q) Is a walimah offered before the consummation of marriage haraam?
A) No. Walimah done after nikah before consummation is also sunnah.

Q) I performed my own nikah with a woman without any witness. This is because, the country where i'm actually staying in has no masjid and no alim or Muslim to stand as witness. Is my nikah counted?
A) No, nikah without witness is not counted. Must find two Muslim man. The woman should say in front of them: i gave myself in your nikah for mahr Rs 5000. The man must reply immediately in front of the witnesses: i have accepted you in my nikah..  

Q) Are husband and wife allowed to suck each other's private part in islam?
A) This act is makrouh and disgusting (Fatawa Hindiya). Such acts are shameful and against Haya and ‘’pudeur’’. The example of the prophetic life, which is meant to be followed, is such that Hazrat `Aisha (r.a.) said that she never saw the intimacy of the prophet (saw). (Shamail Tirmizi).
The mouth is a respectful part of a human body. We have been prescribed to keep the mouth clean and pure since the mouth is used in reading qur-aan. The tongue is to pronounce the Mubarak name of Allah. As such to below one`s mouth to such an extent that to swallow impurities (mazi or semen) is not permissible. Yes the prophet recommended caress with hands and kissing before relationship. But the mouth should not used on intimacy parts. Wallahou a`lam.

Q) Does sugar water have any importance in nikah?
A) No. This practice has no source in shari’ah.


Q) Is it necessary for a lady to say infront of two witnesses that she has accepted to get married to a man or can she just tell it in front of one witness and her future husband? 
A) No. Two witnesses besides her husband. That is there should be 4 persons: bridegroom, bride and 2 witnesses.

Q) I'm in a great trouble. My family got me married to a guy at home. Nikkah nama was not present there. Just only a simple man came with him. From my side my whole family was there but i was not happy for this marriage. i was weeping that time. My father said qubool hai 3 times not me. The guy who is reading nikkah is not right. He just took 2 minutes and said ameen nikkah done. After that my parents sent me with him. l stayed with him 1 month. He left me. He was not a good guy. I hate him. After 1 year he came back and asked to go with him. I refused. Is the nikkah still valid ? 
A) If you did not say yes or approve at the time of nikah, then this nikah may be broken by your mere saying that you did not approve at all this nikah. Say it in front of the parents and all those present at that nikah. 

Q) How many types of nikah are there? Some people do a nikah during the engagement and than redo the nikah when performing the wedding reception.
A) There is only one type of nikah. But there is Tajdeede Nikah (renewall of nikah). In the engagement, perform a nikah. And when performing the wedding reception, renew the nikah. It is recommended to perform the nikah in the masjid and announce the nikah. And if renewing the nikah, one should announce before the nikah: this is a renewal of the nikah. 

Q) I madly love a girl, so the girl also but it's too early to marry so what should we do?
A) Keep fasting for consecutive days and stay away from communicating with her.

Q) I need help on knowing if i should get a nikkah with my fiancé of 3 years without our parents approval because they want to wait for him to be settled first. They are accepting of our marriage but at the right timing.
A) Permissible if the girl is above 15 years, islamically. 

Q) I am in my early thirties, can I get married to a man who is in his early sixties? I have heard that it should not be done. 

A) Permissible. But see if the person is physically fit. You may marry and keep a choice of talaaq that you would hold.


Q) I just found out i had had sex with the sister of my fiancee in the past can our marriage still go on please?
A) On a shariat perspective, your nikah will still be valid with your fiancée. But tawbah and istighfaar should be made to wash away those sins. The liberal attitude of parents is responsible for such complications. These messes may complicate a couple`s life because of irreparable past mistakes. That is why the shariah condemned zina. The prophet(saw) stressed on immediate nikah after both parties have mutually agreed for marriage. Else ponder also if this will not complicate your relationship with your future wife if she happen to know about this issue.

Q) During Nikah, if both parties along with the witness agrees not to disclose the amount of Mahr given publicly, and say that, "an amount agreed by both parties", is this valid? 
A) Valid. 

Q) One should not contract civil marriages as it complicate things later on, if, a divorce takes place. But after Nikah, what should the name of the wife be? Mrs (name) (surname) .. The surname will be that of the father, or the husband? 

A) Better to keep one`s name as it is. Civil marriages complicate ownership during lifetime and also inheritance distribution after death. 

Q) I was abt to get married in September. However, in March, my fiance broke our engagement of 1 and a half year and said he does not know why but he does not love me anymore. His family also want him to marry me but he is refusing now. I am still hoping him to come back. Should I make istikhara to know if I should wait for him? 
A) We suggest that you find out whether he is going out with someone else. Then accordingly forget him.

Q) Is an adult girl allowed to marry without the permission of her parents? 

A) Permissible, but strongly not advisable. The Qur-aan prescribe marriage from the permission of responsible parties. Marriages done without permission of parents does not last since there is no duas of parents for this couple.

Q) I have a boyfriend. We are together since 1 year now. He told his friend to tell me that he no longer loves me. I asked his sister to ask him if he loves me, he said yes. But each time he sees me, he tries to avoid me. I'm totally shattered and heartbroken. I tried to stop loving him but could not. His mom knows about us but my parents dont know anything. His mom is thinking to get us married when we will be of an age where we can perform nikah. How do i confirm if he loves me or not? 

A) That relationship was haraam and cannot endure. Better wait when at nikah age, then ponder on your choices. But do not take a step without your parents` consent.


Q) Eski ene missier bizin prend permission avec so madame pou li faire ene deuxieme nikah et si li gagne ene refus ki deen islam dire lor la?
A) Li pas ‘bizin’ prend permission, mais humainement li capave informe li. Madame la ena so droit d`expression pou refuser, mais shariat laisse le choix libre a le mari pou faire ene deuxieme nikah ou bien non. Lire nous l`article ‘’Le contrat du marriage : nikah’’ sur le web cote la fin le prophete finne empesse so zendre faire ene deuxieme nikah. Le Saint Prophète (saw) avait défendu à son gendre Ali de prendre une deuxième épouse afin de préserver l’équilibre conjugal. L`equilibre conjugale li important pou developpement zenfant et prosperite de ene couple.

Q) I have been rejected by many girls for mariage and I am 39 already. I pray 5 times per day + tahajuud but still I do not get any girls. Is it haram if I do not marry? 
A) Not haraam if you don`t have a pair. But haraam to practice sins like masturbation, adultery,etc. We request that you go India and import a muslim spouse from there.

Q) If a man married more than once, who will be his wife in jannat? 

A) If the wives had only one husband, then all of them will be his wives in jannah. If the wives had another husband(died or given talaaq) before their nikah to him, then the wife will choose the one who was more polite to her between her husbands that she had. 

Q) If a husband calls his wife by "maman" like how his children does, is it a sin?
A) Permissible. Better will be to say "mother of so and so", meaning Umme (the child's name), e.g. Umme Luqmaan.

Q) I have been married since 23 years. It was a nikaah that was performed. We do not have any proof or paper to certify it except photographs. Now we have to give evidence to the ministry that we are married. Can you please tell me if somebody can help me to get a nikaah paper as the imam who performed our nikaah is no more. Do you know if we qualify for the muslim personal law . 
A) I suggest that you contact muslim Family council on this issue on 212 8667. For the time being, find two muslim witnesses that are responsible in your masjid that may witness your nikah.

Q) Is it necessary to drink 'sugar water' to accomplish a nikah? 
A) No. This is an innovation and bid`ah.

Q) My sister is a divorcee and the guy is a bachelor, they got engaged but fear that the relation that they are in and waiting for my parent to decide when to fix nikah date might leave them to stay in a haraam relationship, is it permitted for them to do a nikah in secret just to be sure that they are in a halaal relationship and renew the nikah when our parents decide the date? 
A) Permissible. Should do if fear of sins.

Q) I am marrying a girl who want to apply some conditions before Nikkah. What are the proceedures?? 
A) Conditions are allowed in Islam and should be honoured after marriage. Provided that these conditions are tolerable by the shariah. What are the conditions?

Q) If a girl is pregnant before nikah. Now a days pregnancy 6 month complete but both agree upon nikah. Is nikah allowed before delivery? 
A) If the girl is convinced of the boy who made her pregnant, then she should contract nikah with him as quickly as possible. So as to deliver at least 6 months after nikah. If less than that, then the child is illegitimate and would be attached only to the mother.


Q) I love a boy and the boy's mother and his family does not accept me. plz give me a dua that will help me make place in his mother and family's  heart.
A) Do your parents accept the boy? If yes, then tell them to look for him or someone else for your marriage. If they don`t know, then there is no khair in this kind of relationship. 

Q) Mo ti envi conner ki veut dire mehr. Combien mehr bizin donner et eski capave donne li en forme bijoux?
A) Mehr c`est le prix ki ene madame demander comme dotte en marriage. Minimum de Rs1600 et pena maximum. Li bon demande Rs 10000 mehr. Oui ou capave demande en bijou.

Q) Can two people make nikah only for intercource with no other obligations and with intention that at anytime they can divorce when they want to for different personal reason like the one might now find a partner to make nikah with on all aspects of nikah?
A) Permissible if done in front of two muslim male witnesses. 

Q) Is it okay to pray for a boy for marriage who is already been engaged with his cousin as decided by family. can I contact for some more questions answer on email.
A) Prayer is permissible. But nothing more. The holy prophet SAW said: ''A lady should not act such a way that take out from the plate of another lady to serve her own plate.'' That is one should not cause divorce or severe the already engaged persons to have oneself engaged to him or to marry him. Yes, if you only want a place in his life without severing your relation to them, then permissible. But this is nowadays rare... 

Q) I'm in love with a boy and we want to perform our nikah but i dont want to stay with him after the nikah immediately beacuse we are still studying. So can the nikah be performed? 
A) Can be performed in front of two male mulim witnesses. 


Q) I am getting marriage after few days and i do not have any idea of nikah, namaz, dua and how to behave with wife on first night. So please explain me.  
A) While alone, on the first opportunity, read 2 rakaats of salaah, putting the wife at the back completely, following you. 
Then read the following dua that :

اَللهُمَ بَارِكْ فِي أَهْلِي وَبَارِكْ لَهُمْ فِيَّ وَارْزُقْنِيْ مِنْهُمْ وَارْزُقْهُمْ مِنِيْ ، وَاللهُمَ اجْمَعْ بَيْنَنَا مَا جُمِعَتْ ، وَفَرِقْ بَيْنَنَا مَا فُرِقَتْ إِلى خَيْرٍ 

Allahoumma baarik fi ahli wa baarik lahoum fiyya warzouqni minhoum warzouqhoum minni wallahoummaj m'a bainana maa joummi`at wa farriq bainana ma fourriqat ilaa khairin. (Durre mansoor) 

2. Then hold the hair of the forehead of the girl and read this du`a :

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ 

Allahoumma inni as alouka khairahaa wa khaira ma jabaltaha `alaihi wa a'ouzou bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jabaltaha `alaihi.(Abu Dawood) 

Keep talking to the girl...keep her distract and then when she is ready, you may proceed for intercourse.. 

Before intercourse, read:

  بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا 

Bismillahi Allahoumma jannibnash shaitwaana wa jannibish shaitwaana maa razaqtanaa. (Bukhari) 

Act kindly and with honour. 
You may gift her, not sunnah though.

Q) I am 21, I want to see my future life partner, i don't like any girl nor want to marry anyone but just have wish to see who will be my life partner in future?
A) Sorry? No one knows the future. Only Allah Ta`ala knows the future. But Allah Ta`ala has prescribed good pairs for good people. So be good, be regular with salaahs and be chaste, insha Allah, you will have a good partner.


Q) Can a woman perform second nikah before sitting for iddat of her first nikah?
A) No, not allowed to perform second nikah until the iddat is not completed. Iddat is a period of three full haiz (menstruation) which she got after the talaaq. If she performed nikah in iddat, the nikah is void and she is committing zina. 
 
Chapter Of Talaaq
Q) A person commits a sin, the latter has an option to repent to Allah, by asking forgiveness. If a husband gave 2 talaak to his ife, can the latter repent / ask forgiveness to Allah SWT about this kind of act?
A) Tawbah yes. But the talaaq will still count

Q) A divorcee woman contracts a secret nikah with a married man since 11 years from now. the husband continues to live with his first wife & the divorcee woman lives with her son alone. Not after 11 years, the woman wish to make Doah that she gets a husband who will accept her & her son in front of the society. There's no problem between her & her secret husband. They were happy like this. but now the woman feels lonely & cannot handle her son alone. She even informed her secret husband abt her intention to do nikah. The husband accept to free her if she get someone good & responsible. Is it permissible for her to ask such Doah to Allah Taala? 
A) Yes, permissible.

Q) My sister is seperated from her husband since 10 months, Now her husband gave her talaaq. Does she need to wait 3 periods months more before she starts to search for another man? What we need to do if she gets marriage proposal during the 3 months?
A) Yes, 3 full menses before looking or talking on marriage. It is haraam to look for a man during that time. Postpone the proposal if it comes before that. 

Q) I have a sister and she has been given all her talaaqs. Wanted to know if they can reconcile? 
A) Cannot reconcile if have given 3 talaaqs. She should marry someone else.

Q) If a husband has given his wife two talaak and they live separetely since three years. Can the husband remarry her? 
A) Yes, can return but should redo nikah in front of 2 male witnesses. Our answer to talaaq is only valid for the given version. 

Q) My husband gave me one talaq-e-baa'in in a letter by post. What should i do now?
A) You need to sit for iddat for 3 haiz period. If you got the talaq while you were in your haiz, then you must count three seperate haiz (not counting the haiz in which you got the haiz). You can still reconcile if both of you 


Q) In what circumstances can talaq be given and what's a valid reason to put an end to nikah?

A) Incompatibility, physical inability, insufficient finance, etc. MFC is there to analyse all these complaints.


Q) The husband of my daughter wants to give her talaak. he expressed his view clearly and wants me (his mother in law) to know his decision. on the other hand my daughter has fallen in love with another man when she is still in nikkah with her husband. the fact that her husband wants to divorce her is arranging her situation so that she can get settled with the other man as soon. so i wonder after her husband is giving her talak, is it obligatory that she keeps 3months 10 days iddaat still as in her case she is doing zinnah and i really dont think that during this iddaat days she is stay without having any connections with the man. its importance to note that for several months she is not having any maritial relationship with her husband. knowing the actual situtaion we want to maary her as soon as possible to avoid her falling deeper in zinaa. please advise your comments.
A) It is compulsory for her to observe the iddah period of 3 haizs (menstruations). If she got the talaaq during a haiz, then she should observe three other haizs as iddah. In fact the shariah forbade to talk about another marriage before iddah finishes. But here I am reading something very filthy and shameful happening. As parents you should stop your daughter to have extra marital relationships. Tawbah should be made and come on pure Islam. One may fast consecutive days and wake up for tahajjud for help to come out of the sins. We have noted that those who contravened the iddah period does not have a successful married life.

Q) My question is can I get back with my ex husband? I asked him 4 a divorce in which case he refused then he asked for his mehr and wedding ring back which I had given him and he sent my belongings with a letter in which he states that he grants me my talaaq bain-e.. Its been almost 2years and recently he contacted me and wants to get back together and he says the ullama he has spoken to says we can get back together.. I would like to clearify if this is true and how do we go about it? 
A) Permissible if he gave one or two talaaqs ba-in. But you will need to redo nikah again. 

Q) Can I wear my Ex husband ' s jewellery after divorcing him? and does my new husband have a right to stop me from wearing that jewellery which is mine now? 
A) Yes. No. But since it is annoying to remind him of your previous husband, it is requested that you sell these to buy new ones.


Q) Sometimes if we have a dispute my husband tells me to ask my dad to come and take me, is talaaq applicable here? 
A) No. Unless when saying you to go, he made intention of talaaq.


Q) Three years ago, i was going to make a second nikah but my first wife did not agree with it. During a dispute, she asked me to give her talaaq and i gave her one talaaq. After that i made nikah with another woman and i got separated with my first wife. Now my first wife is pretending that she is still in my nikah and that i only said talaaq once. Is it true that she is still in my nikah?
A) If you did not have sexual intercourse with her (the first wife) after giving her talaaq, then she is separated from you. This one talaaq is sufficient to separate between you and her


Q) Is it possible for a man to give talaq through letter?
A) Permissible. If you are giving, then give only one talaaq-e-ba in.

Q) If a husband says he gives talak to his wife in his heart and does not pronounce it, does it count as talak? 
A) No. As far as talaaq is not pronounced, it is not counted. 

Q) Can a man who divorced his wife, visit his mother in law and stay there till late. sometimes they stay alone and sometimes the man stay with his sister in law..! 
A) No, this is not permissible.


Q) During a dispute on phone with my wife, i asked her if she wanted talaaq. I said the word thrice, did our nikah break?
A) No, but word did you use?

Q) My sister asked for divorce from her husband (1 year ago), and the husband gave 1 twalaaq, now he is asking for half the mehr back.
A) 0ne talaaq was sufficient to separate between your sister and her husband. If the nikah was consumed, i.e. they had sexual relationship, then the husband has no right to ask for the mehr. But if the nikah was not consumed and they never had an intimate time alone for 10 mins, then the husband has the right to ask for half mehr. In the case that there was consumption of the nikah, then it would be a major sin to ask for the mehr, since the money is already for the wife and the husband has absolutely no right to ask for it.
The Qur-aan condemns this: Que vous ayez donné à l’une un enorme richesse, n’en reprenez rien. Quoi! Le reprendriez-vous par injustice et péché manifeste? Comment oseriez-vous le reprendre, après que l’union la plus intime vous ait associés l’un à l’autre et qu’elles aient obtenu de vous un engagement solennel? (4:20-21)

Q) Pls advise in a case, where a husband decides to stay away from his wife during 4/5yrs but still living under same roof?
A) This couple should refer their discord to a alim or to the muslim family council.

Q) Is one allowed to leave her husband because the latter did not respect the conditions made before wedding- eg. to have a separate house after wedding?
A) No. But there may councelling by an `alim on these issues.

Q) If someone gave his first Talaaq to his wife, does the husband still has responsibilty towards the wife on foods and needfull staff. Also what if the wife left his house after the first talaaq was given, does the husband still do has to provide foods n needs meaning about food n staff??? 
A) If the wife left the conjugal roof, then there is no expenses due on the husband. But if she return, then the husband need to provide for her roof, food and living expenses during her iddah. Bahr ur Ra-iq:

وَفِيهَا أَيْضًا الْمُعْتَدَّةُ إذَا خَرَجَتْ مِنْ بَيْتِ الْعِدَّةِ تَسْقُطُ نَفَقَتُهَا مَا دَامَتْ عَلَى النُّشُوزِ فَإِنْ عَادَتْ إلَى بَيْتِ الزَّوْجِ كَانَ لَهَا النَّفَقَةُ وَالسُّكْنَى



Q) Si 1 couple ki in vivre deux mois en separation- sakene vivre kot so parent- pan garde contact ditou et aster kan madame la p dmane misier la so decision: msiier la repone: madame in lib aster li kpv fer cki li envi, et ki li pu vivre kuma etranzer ek madame et li confirmer ki li nepli bzin madame la aster. ki ou conseille mwa dans sa cas la?
A) Bizin demande missier la: eski li finne faire l`intention talaaq quand li finne dire ''Libre et faire ceki li envi''? Si li finne faire l`intention talaaq, alors talaaq finne porter. Si li finne dire sa sans l`intention talaaq, alors pena talaaq. Ou encore dans so nikah.


Q) Is it permissible for a woman wearing niqaab to live under same roof with her husband when talaaq had alreay been pronounced?
A) If iddat has finished, then it is not permissible for her to live in the same house with an strange man. In fact with talaaq, the husband is now an strange man to his wife. ``if 3 talaaqs have not been pronounced, then you may redo nikah with your husband. But after 3 talaaqs, then you will not become halal to your husband but after halaalah.

Q) Talaaq fini prononcer, pou refaire nikkah avec premier missier,madame la bizin faire lautre nikkah et talaaq. Eski li bizin consomme so deuxieme nikah avant li done talaaq
A) Mo comprend ici ki ene missier li finne donne so madame talaaq(3) et li pe envie retourne ek so madame. Donc pe demander si pou organise nikah madame la et apres sa deuxieme missier donne li talaaq. Sa appelle sa pe organise halala et li pas permissible pou faire sa. Ena Allah so malediction pou celui pres pou faire halaala et celui pou kip e faire halaala. (Abu Dawood)

قَالَ إِسْمَعِيلُ وَأُرَاهُ قَدْ رَفَعَهُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ لَعَنَ اللَّهُ الْمُحَلِّلَ وَالْمُحَلَّلَ لَهُ

Q) Can a woman leave her husband because he made a 2nd Nikkah?
A) No, this is not a shar`ee reason.

Q) May Allah forgive me but my mom is very hot tempered and likes to spends money on useless things. Earlier my mom and dad both were working. My dad used to give all his earnings to my mom which she never saved. Now the problem is both are retired however my mom gets pension whereas my dad has nothing. He even have some problem in his leg due to which he cannot walk much. She keeps on yelling at him. She told him talaq 3 times left the house and came to my house for 1 night to stay. I somehow managed to send her home next day but the situation remains the same. Someone told me that it is kind of khula and it also affects the children (a kind of manusihat) comes on the well being and prosperity of children. Is this true. Pls advice. 
A) A woman cannot give talaaq to her husband. It is not khula. Until the husband does not pronounce Talaaq, the wife will stay in the nikah of the husband. Not true that separation of parents would affect as mentioned. If you can help your parents financially, that may improve situation. It is said that whatever a child have should be at the disposal of the parents. 

Q) I got to know my husband has been cheating on me with a non muslim. i really dont know what to do. 
A) Talk to him. Forgive him and try to hide the issue. Else you may put the case in MFC 2128667. 

Q) Do i have to give my ex-wife a talaaq, who went to another country and didn't return? She did nikah with someone else, so did i. It's been 20 years since our separation.
A) If you never gave her a talaaq, then give her one talaaq-e-ba'in to separate from her. Inform her about it so that she may validate her nikah after 3 months or after 3 haizs since the talaaq was given.

Q) What is khula?
A) Khula is the proposition on the wife`s side of a valuable (jewelry, money,etc ) to the husband in exchange of her talaaq. The husband may accept or refuse the khula` proposition. In case he accepts the offered money, then she would automatically have her talaaq. Care should be taken in formulation of the khula in front of the husband: ''I have done khula with you with the jewelry that you offered me.''

Q) A man gave talaaq to his wife, must he inform two witnesses about this?
A) No, but he should inform the wife.

Q) I separated from my husband 14 months back since he cheated on me.I m depressed a lot n often dream of him.recently I dreamt that he is telling me that is doing second marriage for his parents and crying pleading not guilty.what it's mean? 
A) Do put an alim between you to see what can be done to save your marriage. If talaaq pronounced, then how much? Phone on 57921333 for precise info on the issue of whether can return or not. 

  
Q) Is it a sin to make dua to bring back a person who says his wife is back even after saying 3 times talaaq. We loved each other but due to misunderstanding he stopped talking to me. i want him back
A) It is a sin to live together after 3 talaaqs. One should encourage such couple to stay separate and make their way to a new life with new pairs. 

Q) I want to give my wife Talaaq. i want to know how to proceed.
A) Do consult a learned person to evaluate your situation vis a vis your wife. Then only you may pronounce ''One Talaaq Bain'' by words or may send a message also. No need to give 3 talaaqs because this will close all doors almost forever. 

Q) My husband gave me one Talaq-e-Baa'in but now we are deciding to reconcile. If my iddat is completed, can i reconcile or not?
A) Must perform the nikah again with 2 witnesses. In all cases need to redo nikkah


Q) If a girl accepts to perform nikah because of her parent's emotional black mailing but now she cant take it anymore. And the husband doesn't want to give her talaq. The wife doesn't want to go for khula. Is there any other way for seperation?
A) No. Muslim family council may help. 

Q) I married a man who was already married. It was his second marriage. I had intention of halala while according to him, he had intention of marriage. On the day of nikkah the marriage was consumated. And later he went to another city where he was posted and I came back to my home. The marriage was secret and undeclared. I got influenced by the nikkah and it became difficult for me to demand divorce, although I did many times. But whenever I did so, he stopped replying me and taking my calls. And when I wanted to talk to him normal and casual he didnt attend me. Before nikkah he showed great interest in me. Then whenever I complained that he doesnt talk to me, doesnt give me time, he would say he was busy and then again disappeared. Finally, I upset and disturbed, asked him if he wanted to carry on this nikkah, he told me as long as I wanted and had no problem. But he refused to declare our marriage and told me that he would ask me to leave in case I ask him to do so. I only asked to check him though. During the two and half months of our nikkah he emphasized that he would not divorce me unless I see him once more for sex. But it was not acceptable to me as he never treated me as his wife, seldom talked to me, and if I was not given the rights of a wife , then why should I be responsible for fulfilling his sexual needs. I was distressed and tortured by his indifferent behaviour. I refused to see him and got divorce. Did I commit a sin by not seeing him?
A) First of all it seems that there was a kind of mutual arrangement from thebeginning you two for him not to give you your full rights as a wife. Thatis that you two would see each other from times to times only. Then in thatcase the husband did not fail in his rights. But he is wrong to seldom talkto you and ignored you completely.But in your case, you refused him to meet you for cohabitation which wasnot right. But know that such secret nikahs does not last and finish likeyours. It was a sin though from your side to make halala because organizinga halala is wrathful. The holy prophet cursed the one who purposely marryfor halala purposes. Furthermore the holy prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said that Makeannouncement of nikah in masjid. That is a bond of marriage is to be madepublic and known and then live like normal couples in the society. Thesunnah of nikah endures and enhance any nikah. This is the general rule thatwould prevail until the end of the world.

Q) A woman works and her husband passed away. Can she go to work even if her iddat has not ended? If no, then in one case can she go out?
A) If it's necessary for her to go work to earn a living, then it is permissible during the day only.

Q) Mo fine tender ki si mo dir mo madame "to le dos pareil kuma le dos mo mama"sa veut dire ki mo fine donne li talaq.est ce que li vrai sa kozer la? 
A) Si ou finne dire sa avec niyat talaaq, alors ene talaaq ba-in pou porter. Si ou pas finne ouler separer ar ou madame par sa parole la, alors pena narien. Si ou pas finne ouler talaaq, mais ou finne envie faire haraam lor ou sa madame la sans ki casse nikah, alors li pou haraam lor ou tanque ki pas paye kaffarah. Kaffarah li valeur 10 sadaqatul fitr ou Rs 700.


Q) I married a man. The man is a good person. I married him only because he wanted to marry me. Deep inside, I don't have love for him. Since he wanted to marry me, I tried to marry and see what it gives. After staying sometimes with him, I'm not feeling okk at all. As a woman, since I don't love him, it's difficult for me to engage in sexual relationship. I'm getting depressed, I can't continue to live like this, I know he won't give me talaaq. Sometimes, in depression, I tend to think things like suicide so on. Plz, help me, What can I do ? I can't continue to live like this ?
A) You may contact MFC if you are in Mauritius-2128667. Else contact an official office of your country. They may listen to both of you.

Q) Someone said to his wife: ‘’We will go on different ways’’ and the husband insisted that he meant talaaq. Does talaaq occur? 
A) Acording to Fatawa hindiyah, one talaaq ba-in occurred by the wording ‘’We will go on different ways’’. Because the word road and way is used in kinayah or wording that people normally use to separate with their wives or meaning talaaq. 

Q) Me and my wife have been living separately in 2 different bed since nearly 11/2 years but under the same roof. Actually this was caused by a familial problem and my wife thought I was culprit.In fact I asked her forgiveness in front of my whole family and 2 sons but still she is adamant to become as before and the distances and clash continues. I asked the interference of Imam and Mutawali but no change. After these lonely moments, I have started developing no feelings and love towards her and since the beginning we do not talk to each other. We are not attracted to each other in any way may it be mutually or sexually. One day when we had an argue she told me I am free and I can go search for someone else and she wants to live her life and search for someone else too. Is our nikaah still on? Can I perform another nikaah as I have met someone and we want to get married and perform nikaah. Is my wife still in nikaah with me? I still carry my duties as a husband and give her all her needs. I am 40 and my wife 36. The one I have met is 21 but still she wants to marry me.What must i do in this case as we both are aware that her parents will not accept for this nikaah because of our age difference. But still we want to live together and even rent a house for this purpose. 
A) You will need to decide on your continuous relationship with the wife. She is still your wife. Since you have 2 kids, we recommend that you try to mend a last time on the issue. If failed, then give her only one talaaq and separate with her. she will not stay in the same house, as she will be a stranger. Else keep her in nikah. Then only you may consider to take another one. But if you are doing zina already with the girl, then nikah is the immediate cure. 

Q) I am living separately from my husband for about a year. He had not pronounced talaq verbally in front of anyone then. But recently I got to know that he's saying we are divorced and he had given talaq. Does it ends our marriage?does it counts as talaq? 
A) No. But you need to ascertain this declaration in front of two muslim witnesses.

Q) If a muslim couple shows theire privates parts before nikkah what law and rule in islam for that? 
A) This is completely haraam and sinful. A nikah needs only 2 persons to hear the proposal and acceptance of the couple. 


Q) A sister has left her husband due to domestic violence and is still in nikah. She wants to know whether she needs to seek for his permission in regard to her movement especially as far as her child is concerned.
A) If the husband is providing for the monthly expenses, then because she is still in her nikah, then she will need to seek permission. But if the latter no more spend on her, then she may go out even if he refuses. As far as the child is concerned, if he is spending on him, then he has right over the child. But if he does not spend on the child, then the mother may upbring the child as wishes, but should inform the husband if ever she is emigrating. Should she wish to be free, then she should ask for talaaq. She may put the case to muslim family council. 


Q) According to Islam can a woman divorce her husband? I live in Bangladesh, according to the law of the land of Bangladesh, I have the right to divorce my husband. But I would like to hear from you, what is the right procedure of divorce for a muslima as I do not want to by far the Islamic Shariah law.
A) A woman can ask for divorce on valid shar`ee grounds only. Some valid shar`ee grouds are violence, impotency and drug addiction or anything that may cause direct harm to the wife. But she may approach the Muslim Family Council of Mauritius for Mauritian cases so as to scrutinise the reasons of divorce. Else she may propose the husband a khula`. As such she may say: I have done khula` with the jewels that you offered me. But know that khula` will only take place if the husband accept to take the jewels. Then she would be divorced.

Q) A woman is divorced and has a daughter. The woman did a second nikah now, is the second husband a mahram for the daughter?
A) Yes, he is a mahram for her.


Q) I need to know the following about a case where talaaq was given: First talaaq was given 10 yrs ago and then the couple was together again (the next day they resumed together). Now two talaaqs have been given at the same time. Does this mean that the marriage has been cancelled?
A) Unfortunately all 3 talaaqs are counted. They can`t stay together unfortunately.

Q) My wife and i are already divorced according to law. I need to give her the talak's now. What is the best solution in doing so? Can i sent it written to her?
A) Give only one talaaq ba-in. This would be enough to separate between you and your wife. It is better that you come to Muslim Family Council to officialise this talaaq. Else write it in front of two witnesses and then read it infront of them.

Q) If someone says that there is no such thing that a lady should sit in iddat, does that person become a kafir? Does her/his nikah breaks?
A) Yes. Should reread kalimah and redo nikah. 


Q) Is it a form of talaaq when a husband tells his wife to leave home because he no longer needs her in his life? 
A) No. But still we need to ask the husband if ever he has done intention of talaaq. If ever he did intention of talaaq with these words, then it is a talaaq ba-in.

Q) If a man betrays his wife, the wife can leave him but without giving talak does the nikkah continues ?
A) Nikah is still valid and continues until and unless talaaq is pronounced. But a suspended woman that her husband is reluctant to give her talaaq may approach the Muslim Family Council for a plaint. The Jurist there may judge the talaaq case.

Q) Is Halaalah allowed in Islam or is it a sin? Some ulama say it is permissible to make a second nikah with the intention to ask for divorce so as to return with the first husband.
A) It is not permissible to organise halaalah. According to one hadith of Abu Dawood, Allah's curse is on that person who does halaalah deliberately and also on that person for whom the halaalah is been made. Halaalah is something that should happen naturally, in a way that if the woman did nikah with another person and it so happened that he also gave her talaaq (without the intention of making her halaal for the first husband).

 
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ حَدَّثَنِي إِسْمَعِيلُ عَنْ عَامِرٍ عَنْ الْحَارِثِ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ إِسْمَعِيلُ وَأُرَاهُ قَدْ رَفَعَهُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ لَعَنَ اللَّهُ الْمُحَلِّلَ وَالْمُحَلَّلَ لَهُ

Q) What is the difference in the consequences of giving one or three talaaq?
A) After one talaaq, one may recontract nikah with that person later on. But after 3 talaaqs, one cannot recontract nikah with that wife.

Q) Is it true that if a divorced woman remarries, she loses custody of her children?
A) Yes it is true. She should give the child to the father. Note that from baby to 6 years the child should stay by the mother. But as from 7 years the child should be in the custody of the father according to shariah.

Q) Si un homme prononce le mot talaq a sa femme trois fois dans un moment extreme colere sans intention,est-ce que le divorce conte?
A) Oui. Et le couple ne pourra pas cohabiter ensemble a vie.

Q) If a man in a moment of anger has given his wife 3 talaak, does it count as one talaak and are they allowed to stay together or not? What should they do? 
A) 3 talaaqs given is counted as 3. Hence the couple cannot live together. They should choose to spend the life with another halaal life partner. They should forget each other.


Q) Does telling one's wife to go away while angry breaks the nikah?
A) No, except when intention of talaaq was made.

Q) A lady is divorced but does not want to be with her ex husband in jannah, she wants to be with someone else in jannah, is it possible? She does not want to hear from her ex husband neither in dunya nor in akhirah. 
A) Possible. She may remarry a better person. Then She will choose.

Q) What is the hukm of a woman being divorce while breast feeding and in addition, she doesn't menstruate till after she weed the baby, can she get married during this time? 
A) No, unless she menstruate 3 full menses. One may take medication for that.

Q) I have khula in 2013 December 9th and did not stay back in house and completed my idaat for 40 days... i am finding it difficult to find a good proposal now. what should i do now.
A) Iddah is 3 full menses. If you are older than 55 years, then 90 days. Tell your parents to look around and talk about you in front of others. Also you may look for someone pious and that would look after you. May Allah Ta`ala open your way. Wake up for tahajud and read 360 times Allahoummagh firli at sehri time.


Q) A couple is having lots of problems regarding peace between husband and wife, and daughter- in law with mother in law and father in law.... My question is: how to know if the couple is affected by evil eyes or djinn and what and how to find solutions through Hadith and quran?
A) You should contact a serious `amil to detect whether it is an exterior evil or a mere inadaptation. A serious amil is M Noorani, masjid Derby Curepipe. We suggest that the husband should rent a house nearby and separate his wife from the mother in law and father in law. Then they may meet up every week or so.

Q) I need to know if a girl left her husband because she has fallen in love with someone else and she is pregnant now but she wants this to be in proper halal way of nikkah can you kindly give me a soultion to that. Do i need to have an abortion? Can i not marry this person ?
A) First she will need to have talaaq from the husband. If he refuses, then she may approach the marital office of her area to dissolve her marriage. If she happens to have talaaq, then she will observe a iddah until she delivers the baby. Only then she may marry the other person. In a whole, the baby if after birth is rejected by the first husband, then the baby will be called and linked to the mother only. But if the husband approve the baby, then the cost of living of the child will be under the father. The mother will look after him until 7 years old. After 7 years old, the father will look after him. This is the shariah ruling on the issue. You may communicate us intermediaryly to have circumstantial maslas.

Q) I would like to know what happens to divorced women when they will enter janah? Will there be a companion for divorced women who do not re marry, in janah? 
A) Yes, she would choose there from the different husbands that she had over here. That is why the holy prophet SAW prescribed men to act gently towards the wife, so that she may choose us up there. Else know that your husband would be a changed person in Jannah.

Q) Can a man give talaq to a woman when she is pregnant? 
A) Yes, permissible. And know that the child will be in the custody of the husband unless he denies him as his child.

Q) I've been separated from my husband since 5 months because he was having an affair with another woman. now he's not willing to give me divorce although he is still after the other woman and I do not want to return back to him. What should I do?
A) You may approach the Muslim Family council for that issue. I suggest that you may forgive him if he is sincere. Else, you may propose him to accept a sum of money in exchange of talaaq. This is called Khula`. 

Q) A man had a dispute with his wife and since then the couple are staying separately, each by their respective parents. Can the husband take the jeweleries back from his wife which he had given to her?
A) If he had given it as gift or mahar, then it is not permissible for him to take them back. The wife has the right to keep the jeweleries even after divorce.

Q) Is Allah's curse on a person who gives talaaq to his wife?
A) No. Allah's curse is not on such a person. Our prophet Muhammad (saw) did give talaaq. And in certain conditions, after a reunion in Muslim Family Council, talaaq becomes inevitable

Q) A couple is having some problems in their marriage, so they staying separate. Each one of them is staying by their parents. Should the husband send the monthly expenses to his wife? Or is it not necessary, because the wife works?
A) If the husband asks the wife to come back but she refuses, than she does not deserve the expenses. But if the wife wants to come back and the husband is refusing, than she is deserving of the expenses. The fact that the wife works does not absolve the husband from his responsibility of giving expenses. According to shariah, even if a woman is rich, the husband should give her the necessary expenses.

Q) My wife andi had an argument and i have said to her "here is your car keys and your house keys bye bye " meaning i left you" but i dont think my intention was clear and firm of divorce brother. i think i just said these words without thinking about it. i think i was just angry and wanted to punish her or make her worry and i don't really know what my intention was when i said these words. i left the house but came back after 20 minutes when my anger was cooled and we said sorry to each other and continued normal, and we never had anything like that again. i don't think i was ready to divorce her but i was angry with her and i am having doubts of my intentions when i said these words. i'am just confused this happened 8 months ago and now she is pregnant. please help having known these words could be considered divorce i am 100% sure i wouldn't have said it. i love my wife and i think the reason why i said these words is because i wanted her to stop this arguments.
A) Without intention of divorce, no talaaq occurred. 

Q) If a wife has left her husband and stay at her parents house and then ask her husband to give talaq because she doesn't want to go back to him. When the husband came to give talaq the mother of the wife doesn't allow the husband to give talaq and made an emotional blackmail to her daughter by saying she will leave the house and stay in a convent if she take the talaq. In this case what happens?
A) If talaaq was not pronounced verbally or not already written, then the lady is still in the Nikah of the husband. But if already written in a letter or already said, then even if the lady refuses to take the letter or refuses verbally, she still would be separated from the husband. 

Q) I want to ask about halala. My ex-husband want to re marry me for our child's future. So in islam does the pre plan halala nikah permisible? If yes, then how long i have to stay in 2nd marriage? And in the second mrriage is phisycal relationship nessesary? and what is the iddat period after divorce from 2nd marriage?
A) Pre-organized halala is not permissible. In Abu Dawood, the holy prophet SAW said that Allah sends His wrath upon the one who organize to perform a halala and also for whom the halala is objectively done. (Abu Dawood)

أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ لَعَنَ اللَّهُ الْمُحَلِّلَ وَالْمُحَلَّلَ لَهُ 

But you may find someone to perform a sincere nikah, with the normal procedures of a nikah respected. You may hide inside you that you would ask for talaaq later on. And in no case should this be mentioned to the nikah party. If mentioned, then it is preorganized. 

At least one penetration of the penis inside the vagina is necessary for the nikah is said to be consumed. Only after that, then you may ask him for talaaq. This is on him to accept your request or refuse.

If talaaq was given, then you will have to observe 3 haizs or 3 full menses as iddah. During these 3 haizs, you cannot perform nikah, nor talk about nikah. Only after that iddah that you may perform a nikah with your ex husband. 

Q) I would like to know if, during her iddah period, can a widow go and spend a few days at her married daughter's place to avoid being too much alone, of course provided that she remains in the house, does not go out in public and correctly observes the rules of iddah. 
A) Not permissible unless getting sick or medical purposes.

Q) Is it ok if i stay with my husband only because of my children? We are married since 15 years and have 3 kids. But my husband and i are not happy together.
A) If three talaaqs are not been pronounced or you are not seperated due to a talaaq, than you may stay with your husband. Even if you are not happy together, but because nikah is still valid between you two, you may stay together; even if you are not sleeping together. 

Q) If a wife has been given one talaaq , should the couple re do nikah before living together again?
A) If the iddah (3 menses) have elapsed after the talaaq, then definitely, the couple should redo nikah in front of 2 witnesses. If during iddah and the Talaaq was given in direct words (i.e. I gave you talaaq), then the husband need only to say: ''I have taken you back in my nikah''. Then they may cohabit together without nikah. 

Q) What is the duty of the husband towards the wife and kids after a divorce? Is it true that the husband has to pay everything for his ex wife (house, food & expenses)?
A) No. The husband needs to only pay for the expenses of the kids. Except that if the wife is breastfeeding the child that she may charge for that. Else the father need to house, pay expenses, feed and cloth the children promptly.

Q) I married a person who did not give me mehr...He persuaded me that there is something called mehr fatimi and that mehr can be cancelled if i say mehr huwa. And i did so because he forced me to say so after the nikkah. Our marriage did not work because he sexually abused me several times. I left him and came to my parents for almost 2 years. After that i asked for a divorce and he just said that u are free from this marriage and u may contract another one anytime u want....Now alhamdulillah i am married again but my former husband who did not give me mehr did not pronounce the word talak and this bothers me...Can u help by giving me advices.
A) You were divorced by his words ''you are free..''. But still you needed to wait for three haiz or menses before contracting another nikah. From your version, the mehr fatimi is still due on your former husband.

Q) Is divorce permissible if a husband cannot give his wife her rights and cannot keep her happy?
A) Divorce is permissible whenever marital life becomes impracticable. Although the couple may undergo difficult times, they may find themselves in happy times later. Since every case is diffirent from the other, it is prudent to present your case in front of the Muslim Family Council.

Q) My wife left me since mid last december, but i didn't give her any talaaq and I have no intention of doing so because all I want is her to come back. Since how long may i consider her to still be in my nikah?
A) She would be in your nikah until and unless you give her talaaq. But she may consider to summon a demand for talaaq in the Muslim Family Council who will judge according to shariah. Else if this is not coming right, then we suggest that you free her with peace and such both may end this nikah without causing difficulty to each other.

Q) If a couple sign a legal divorse paper, but did not say 3 times talaq,is the divorce accepted in shariah?
A) The signature on a divorce paper does not nullify the nikah. Hence a talaaq should be given to separate the couple. Very important to note that one talaaq is Sufficient to separate the couple. Three talaaqs is a harm and irreparrable.

Q) While my husband and i were having a dispute, he told me to go and find another husband? Did talaaq take place?
A) If the husband had meant talaaq by this phrase, then one talaaq-e-baa’in will fall. If he had not made any intention, then nothing will fall. However, it’s quite dangerous to play with these kind words. Read our book “Pour l`amour d`Allah, ne prononce pas talaaq.’’

Q) A couple stayed away from each other for more than two years and didn’t have any marital relationship during this time. If now they want to start their lives together again, will they have to make nikah again?
A) No. The nikah is valid as long as talaaq didn’t take place.

Q) A man gave his wife three talaaqs at once. Can the couple reconcile later ?
A) No. The three talaaqs has fallen, thus the couple will not be able to reconcile.

Q) A woman had sex with someone else beside her husband. Is her nikah with her husband broken?
A) No. But she should make lots of tawbah and ask Allah for repentance for this sinful act.

Q) Comment divorcer avec sa femme ?
R) La shariah a prescrit plusieurs étapes avant le divorce : 1. Dialogue entre couple. 2. Action passive et active de la part de l`époux envers l`épouse. 3. Mettre un arbitre neutre et sincère pour essayer de sauver le couple. 4. Et si les étapes franchies n`ont pas été réussies, alors le mari prononcera seulement un talaaq ba-in pour rompre leur relation nuptiale. Mais après ils peuvent refaire le nikah pour revivre leur vie conjugale. Mais au cas où il a prononcé trois talaaqs, alors ils ne pourront pas contracter le nikah. Chacun doit chercher plutôt un moyen halaal pour vivre.

Q) If a woman was given a talaaq today, when can she perform another nikah with another man?
A) The iddat or the period of time which a divorced woman should respect before making nikah with someone else is of three haiz (menstruation). During this period, she should stay at home, and she should not wear make-up, beautiful clothes and perfumes.

Q) My husband sent sms to my father, sister and brother not 2 me but he used 3 talaaq words with my name, did talaaq occur? i am in kuwait. Nikah also was performed here. Kuwait law said it is considered as a 1 talaaq. What is your opinion? 
A) You have had 3 talaaqs even if he did not write to you. This law that 3 equals 3 talaaqs is from whence hazrat umar r.a. and there is ijma and concensus on the issue. 

Q) I dont want to be with my husband he abused me mentally and physically I want to get out of this marriage and now I love someone else and want to get marry to him. My husband knows this but still just to harase me he is not giving me talaaq. If someone has changed his or her religion still nikaah will remain or it will get dissolved automatically?
A) If someone went out of Islam even for a second, the nikah is dissolved. May Allah Ta`ala protect us from such a grave step that may lead to eternal hell fire. If one pass away in such a state, then would go straight in jahannam. Put your case in MFC for your khula`: phone on 212 8667.

Q) I am married and have two kids and now when my kids are of 17 and 18 yrs , my husband has left three of us, it has been six months although we stay in same city. My husband doesnot either call us or even meet us. how can this marriage be defined now, can we meet him and try to convince each other to stay under one roof. or will this marriage be considered a case of divorce..? 
A) Your marriage would be still valid until talaaq is pronounced. You cannot marry another one until talaaq not given, and iddat be observed. Try to convince him to follow the pathway of the noble sunnah to have a family life. Else contact the nearest Islamic organisation to remedy the situation between you and your husband.. 


Q) For how long should a woman, whose husband has past away, sit for iddat?
A) The iddat is of four months and ten days or 130 days. If the husband died on the first of a hijri month, then she will sit for iddat for the four months that follows together with ten days from the fifth month.  

Q) I am not able to take decision of my talaq. inspite of doing isthkara for many days can I ask any of my well wisher or any pious person to do it for me? can I count on their decision after them doing it? 
A) Yes, you may do so. Choose an alim that you trust to perform this operation.

Q) I have been living at my parents place for last 10months. Since then my husband never contacted me or provided a single rupee to me and my daughter. Now I am asking for talaq. Whose responsibility is it to help us financially during this period? 
A) Your husband should provide you with all expenses until talaaq pronounced. Else your close relative or zawil arhaam should help you, if they are rich. Starting with your parents, brother, uncle and cousins, whoever is rich. 

Q) I don't have any contacts with my husband for the past two years.. He has not provided me and my child a single rupee since he left abroad,, now I have asked for divorce and I'm to get it,, should I stay iddah in this case since I have to look after my daughter
A) No. You will have to contact an official office that deal with these issues. These ulamas will look into in the issue to break the nikah. Remember that without talaaq or faskh through this office, you will not be free from this nikah. If you are in Mauritius, then phone Muslim Family Council 2128667. 

Q) I don't want to go back to my husband since I believe he cheated on me. but I also don't want talaq coz I still love him and also I don't have any strong proof to prove my point. what can I do? can I stay away whole life from my husband without talaq? 
A) No. You will need to clarify and decide. Our councel is that you go to your husband since at this time, he has the authority of shariah to call you by him. But you may contact the MFC on 2128667 if you are unwilling to return or want clarification on the issue

Q) If a woman has her menes and husband sends letter giving talaak, is talaak counted?
A) Talaaq will count.


Q) If I tell my wife if you continue to pursue in such and such direction: "I'll give you talaaq" Does it count as a talaak? 
A) No. Talaaq is counted in present or past tense, except if attached to a future condition. 

Q) If I tell her to go or leave the house does it count as Talaak. In my mind I had no intention of giving Talaak to her in both cases. 
A) No, it is not counted as talaaq unless purpose intention is made.
 
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A) Visit graveyards, Talk about Akhirah and think of death

Q) What are the fardh things in salaat?
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Q) Balocco wafer,products of germany contain milk derived whey powder,i want to know if they are halaal or not?
A) Suitable.

Q) What is the best work of deen to do if one stays in a non muslim area?
A) To keep good ties with everyone and present them the beliefs of islam.

Q) Can we make dua for a person who hanged himself, like he committed suicide?
A) Yes.

Q) I know salah is farz and i know its rewards and i perfomed it but can't having the love and doing sunnah in salaah,just praying because its farz.
A) Keep doing it as an obligation until it becomes a pleasure.

Q) Is it permissible to close our eyes in salaah for concentration
A) Not advisable. Against Sunnah.

Q) What is the best thing to teach our teenagers in madrasa?
A) Haya, simplicity, purity, keeping away from opposite gender and lowering gaze.

Q) Is caprylyl alcohol halaal? if its in liquid lipstick?
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Q) Huda beauty liquid lipstick's ingredients says just ALCOHOL. Can we use it?
A) No

Q) Is it sunnat to wear white judba only?
A) Best Sunnag is white yes. But other colours permissible.

Q) Can i listen the tafseer of Nouman Ali Khan?
A) He is not a scholar. Rather listen to scholars graduated from Darul uloom.

Q) Eski Sarbon at GrandBay halaal?
A) Avoid if no certificate displayed.

Q) Is hollywood chewing gum halaal?

A) Avoid.

Q) Eski ban zafer kouma peer gagn droit en islam sa?
A) Ene dimoune li capave vine ene guide spirituel comme peer. Mais pas capave prend responsabilite pou beneficier ou du tort dimoune.

Q) My wife had a miscarriage,the conditions after that is same as nifaas? Must she wait for forty days to be able to do namaaz again?
A) If child born with body formation like fingers, face, etc then nifaas. If only clots then haiz: Maximum 10 days. Else after months Nifaas.

Q) From which age will my son be my mahram for me to travel with him?
A) If well build up, 14 years old ok. If physically not yet strong to fight protect you the 16 years old.

Q) Is it wrong if i just want to be with my husband and all the times i want to consume with him. I just feel i can't stay without him and i envy him every single times/
A) Nothing wrong if all salaahs observed. But keep your appetite in control to upgrade your stamina throughout your life long couple. Possessiveness may harm couple's relationship.

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Q) Is belle france green tea menthe or other flavour can be consumed?
A) Yes.

Q) Is there any ayat in quran where Allah says ' whatever good happen to you is from me and whatever problems test difficulty comes to you is none except from you(sins)? Does it mean if you having some problems in life is because of your sins? Or any other tafseer? If a person is raped so does it mean its her actions that cause this happen?
A) Not always harm happens as such, rather believe in taqdeer while it is true that sins cause much difficulties in life.

Q) Mo frer kan li dormi li graince so ledent boku et li pa cone rien? Ki kapav fer?
A) Consulter docteur. faire deep breathing.

Q) I'm married woman i have a weak bladder i urinate most of the time when i sneeze or cough and also had miscarriage. what can i do or read? Please keep me and my family in your du'a.
A) Wash and pray. keep a pad such that easy to wash and throw away the pad.


Q) Is mannat permissible in islam? What is the definition of mannat? If it is permissible, what is the best way to make mannat with our creator?

A) Permissible, not advisable. Sadaqah is better.
Definition; To set an action or a donation in case of accomplishment of your targeted ambition. If attained then wajb for donation or action set.
Better give sadaqah first, then make duas that Allah Ta'ala give you the ambition.

Q) How to apply for halaal certificate?
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Q) When giving ghusl to deceased woman how many times must we wash her private parts and rub her stomach? please mention how to give her a ghusl mayyat?
A) 3 Times, you may read that is normal ghusl.

Q) Can i be jealous of my husband?
A) Permissible for you to be jealous for him so that he stays yours. But this jealousy should be moderate and should not be extreme possiveness. Shariah allows a man to remarry and allows also extremely jealous women to ask for talaaq in that case. But tolerance towards polygamy is beneficial for the family, our society and akhirat.

Q) I read istikhara for 2-3 times in order to decide whether should i resign from my current job or not, however i am still confused over the result and i am not able to take a decision for the past month,and i also decided to stay in my current job however i am uncomfotable with this idea and vice versa, thus im not able to take a decision, therefore can you please advise what should be done in that case?
A) Stay in your current job, the decision taken was after istikharah on heart tebdency and hence appointed.

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A) We have certified halaal only Dairy Vale yogurts.

Q) A woman can be washed by her son,if no female to wash her?
A) No. Not permissible. 


Q) Gostaria de saber o ruqiya para aomentar meus conhecimento nos estudo

A) Translation: I would like to know ruqiya to increase my knowledge in the study.

Read lot of Rabbi zidni `ilma, wake up tahajjud, use miswaak, eat almonds, put oil on head, keep fast and control gaze and sexual activity. 

Q) Regarding the hadith a person will be with the person he loves, can i make dua that we all inshaAllah be together?
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Q) If a person joins jamaat in 3rd rakaat how he should complete his salat?
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A) Yes, those that will benefit intellect and mental health.

Q
) Can one make dua in sajda in farz namaz,like saying ya muqallibal qulub etc, can we say in sajda faraz namaz or nafil only?
A) Not in farz. Nafil permissible only arabic.

Q) What to do if my own family making mix gathering wedding, should i attend with niyat of keeping family ties or don't go at all?
A) Don't go, Else do go at the house of the family in the morning and give them glad tidings.

Q) Is it prohibited to eat divali cakes whether prayers have been offered or not on such cakes?
A) Yes, Prohibited.

Q) If a woman does ghusl after being with her husband and after ghusl maybe 10 hours she sees and felt something from her vagina, is she obligated to do ghusl again because she is really in pressure and she is confused after seeing that things and does ghusl again and again.
A) Nothing breaks, Wudhu and ghusl ok.

Q) Can you please explain how to do taleem at home?
A) Take a muntakhab ahadith book and read 10 minutes at home. Next day take fazail book and read 10 minutes. Try to give whole family opportunity to read themselves.


Q) Should a girl marry a guy whose family has asked from another than Allah and has repented a lot?

A) Avoid, unless sincerely repented.

Q) Is working as a horse jockey halaal?
A) No

Q) Is l'arabica halal?  
A) Not listed

Q) There are some nazam or nasheed said ' YA rasullallah' is it permisible to say such. many people in qasida they say YA rasullallah.

A) Permissible as a rhetoric expression.

Q) In bagatelle and many food places are not certified by Jum or Mufti Saheb, can we buy chips only from kfc?
A) Avoid

Q) Where i can send my kids in mauritius to become hafiz or hafiza?
A) At your closest most compassionate alim.

Q) Does Mufti Saheb organise hajj or umra? hopefully atleast umra inshaAllah.
A) Will try Insha Allah.

Q) Is it fine to consume snacks which has like crab prawns etcc flavour?
A) Avoid

Q) C'est quoi la valeur du meher d'aujourdhui? Est-ce vrai que la fille doit pouvoir vibre avec cet argent là pendant 3 mois et 10 jours au cas ou il se passe qulq chose?
A) Minimum Rs 1600. No maximum. Mehr Fatimi: Rs 75000.
Faux 3 mois...

Q) Is this sunnah when waking up to drink water?
A) Sunnah to drink water after wouzu of tahajjud

Q) In Qurbani times in Saudi Arabia do they use the method of mechanical slaughtering? as there’s lot of animals.
A) No. All are hand slaughtered

Q) I did ishtikhara and asked Allah for sign if someone is good for me, I got good dreams and good feelings but recently we did not get in contact for 5 days. Does this means an indication he is not mine?
A) Having contact before nikah is haraam. Negative sign

Q) Can one consume Nando's sauce that sell in supermarket
A) Yes.

Q) I ask for a sign and dream that i went shopping with my mum.It rained heavily for about a few secs. We bought things and i even got hurt on my knee when i was entering a shop. A boy was looking sadly at me and it was silent.Then i went from there. Meaning
A) Negative

Q) I perfomed one umra. now keeping money to go umra by palestine. because maybe in 6 years my name will come out for hajj is that ok.? So i rather go palestine then will go for hajj. advise please.
A) Ok.

Q) How to perform sajda sahw? What is this?
A) Sajdas added by one salaam at the end of salaah,when major mistake is done.

Q) Is it true If a girl is not getting married and she wishes to get married, she should take ghusl (bath) with water in which surah TA HA has been dissolved and by the will of Allah (s.w.t.) she will get married.
A) Not to my knowledge. Rather wake up tahajjud and read 360 times Allahoummaghfirli

Q) I’m 30 yr old muslim married woman i did a premarital sex sin before marriage. I’m hiding this sin to my husband and i’m  very much tensed please tell me what to do?
A) Hide it until death. No words or confessions in Islam. Make sincere tawbah and do istighfaar suffice to delete this sin completely in your account book. Do good deeds to cover up.

Q) May Mufti saheb please advise how to make my wasiyat, i own a house given by my dad, some jewellery i possess, no kid, no civil marriage, so how do i make my wasiyat, and on which thing i should make wasiyat
A) Describe your inheritors: Brothers, sisters, husband, father, mother, paternal uncles, etc. From there, we may set the obligatory distribution of your estate according to shariah. You have an option to give up to 33.33% of your estate in charity, Lillah, masjid, madrassah or a non heir.

Q) My husband dreamt that me and him riding on the beach then visiting aquarium lots of fishes..etc meaning please
A) Fruitful life coming Insha Allah

Q) What should we read when a woman is in labour to ease her pain.
A) May read surah Maryam

Q)  May Mufti sahib please mention the ayat of where step siblings inherit? 

A) You should describe the whole inheritance scenario. In the absence of same father n mother siblings, step siblings from same father or mother inherit

Q) I have a bad discharge due to watching an indecent scene from a movie. What is the liquid? I feature us that it did not gysh
A) If male, then wouzu only broke. But should wash that impurity.
If female, then wouzu and ghusl both ok. Do tawbah and istighfaar on both.  

Q) Is there any ayat in quran reg step siblings inherit from their own father?
A) Yes

Q) Can one wear brand puma adidas crocs?
A) Permissible if hide the image. As it is makrooh to read salaah in those.  

Q) Are we allow to kill ants in islam?
A) Yes, if they are nuisance.

Q) Can we consumed brand Casino like chips veggies etccc
A) Need ingredients.

Q) In hot summer days is it ok to wear only a kaftan without trousers with a burkha on top to read namaz?
A) Yes, if thick enough and covers everywhere properly.

Q) Is it fair to put Quran over the head of a muslim bride during ruksati in islam?
A) No

Q) I asked a sign and i dreamt that i was out with my friends and dad saw me and called me and i went to him,my friends asked me who it was and said was someone i know,After returning home i said to dad to wear proper clothes to go out and he smiled. Meaning?
A) No sign

Q) Are we allow to watch cartoons,whats the side effects,and many people allow their kids to watch it?
A) Not advisable

Q) My mother married my step father, my mother owned everything in the house but it happen my mother passed away then my step father,and i have 2 step sisters from that step father, will i inherit?
A) Yes.

Q) The halal certified restaurants is it still halaal?

A) Yes.

Q) Can i replace zohr prayer after assr but before magrib?

A) Yes.

Q) Is that hadith authentic ' Do not criticised as you will not die unless you experience what you criticised'
A) Yes.

Q) Is it permissible for a woman to visit kabrastan or even enter the kabrastan with no intention to ask duas for the person in the grave?
A) No.

Q) If a person is not an alim or mufti and he gives fatwa,like he tells somebody you in zina while that person made nikka,is it called Kufr?
A) No.

Q) Does mufti saheb allows to take bay'at (pledge) to mufti saheb?
A) Bay'at is done to someone who is qualified to do so.

Q) I asked for a sign and i dreamt i was sitting with my family,my brother who does not like me let me sit on his sofa,then i sat near my sister on bed and watched t.v,later mum came and we were together. Meaning?
A) Negative sign.

Q) Theres lot of black ants in my house, whats the meaning?
A) Read this ayat on the ants'hole ; 

ادْخُلُوا مَسَاكِنَكُمْ لَا يَحْطِمَنَّكُمْ سُلَيْمَانُ وَجُنُودُهُ وَهُمْ لَا يَشْعُرُونَ
Udkhulu masaakinakum, laa yahtimannakoum Sulaymanu wa junuduhou wa houm laa yash`ouroun.

Q) Mufti saheb till today this web never ever took fault of any person, May Allah grant myself the humility of Mufti saheb, i don’t understand why our own ulama speaks like that for mufti saheb and there is more which our ulama speaks OPENLY. What should i say if somebody says something wrong on mufti saheb, I follow all muftis but i hate critism.
A) Yes, 
do keep good ties to every Ulamas. This is childish from some to openly take pen without thinking that they themselves told the public on their web that the issue of sending Zakaat abroad: ‘’Valeur du jour li pas Makrooh.’’ They wrote also on paper that not Makrooh. Then afterwards, it took them 5 years to realise their mistake and then they would only state on WhatsApp that it is in fact Makrooh to send abroad unless family or more needy abroad. Conclusion that these have these qualities with their education: shame, childish and poor of etiquettes. I have more mistakes of them in my memory file, but i will not write them. Because I am not childish and poor of etiquettes Alhamdulillah. There are other work of khair to be done in life. 

Q) After reading tashahud and durood in namaz, is it correct to do salam and raise hand and read '' Rabbana atina fid dunya hasana''?

A) Recommended and Sunnah to do duas after Salaah. And raising hand is sunnah during duas.

 

Q) Is there an age limit to get married?

A) No, But should be prepared to be a couple mate.

 

Q) I asked a sign and i dreamt about everyone going in different county for work and i was worried if there will be guests when i get married. Meaning?

A) Negative sign.

 

Q) There was a man who used to pray tahajud everyday, one day after praying he felt a cold air behind him and someone could touching him. He got scared. Meaning of this cold air?

A) Maybe a cold wind or may be farishtas.

 

Q) Can a sick man use plastic chair in the masjid?

A) Yes.

 

Q) What should two people who truly love each other and if the boy is not financially stable and both are the age to marry and the boy is refusing due to this reason. What should be done in this situation?

A) Keep fast and stay distant.

Q) Can we fast ONLY the day of Ashura that will be on Sunday the 1st Oct?
A) Makrooh Tanzihi. Not advisable. Not sinful though.

Q) I asked a sign if a certain boy is my pair and I dreamt that I was in a different house sleeping next to my mum and there was something like spirit in next room, I was scared and hug my mum to sleep and read ayatul kursi and dua, what does this mean?
A) Negative sign. 

Q) Is casino Apple cider vinegar halaal?
A) Yes.

Q) Is it true doing majilis regarding event of Karbala and Imaam Hasan (RA) Etc during Muharram is like imitating Shia?
A) Yes. Prohibited to do as such by many Ulamas. 

 Q) ''Zina destroys the life and beauty of a man or a woman''. Does it apply when one has regret and ask for forgiveness?
A) A sincerely repented person is as if he never sinned(Hadith). The beloved prophet Swalallahou Alaihi Wasallam recommended that we follow good actions over evil ones. So purposely excell in good actions to cover up. 

Q) Is plucking eyes-brows permissible?
A) No, Haraam. The beloved prophet Swalallahou alaihi wasallam cursed such person.

Q) I asked for sign and i dreamt that a cruise ship was sinking in the ocean but we were rescued, a boy went in the cruise and i also joined him but the cruise sink and we were rescued by dolphins, and we friends went in to the sea and started laughing, meaning?
A) Negative results.

Q) Can hanafis use oyster sauce?
A) No. Oyster not permissible for hanafis.

Q) Please help me in deciding what should i do if someone rejected me and then comes back after one year and want to remain forever. Should i accept him as i always asked du'a to make him return, i also did isthikhara.
A) Yes, through your parents approval. 

Q) In meriiboy there is E471 can we consume it?
A) Avoid.

Q) Allah says in the Qur'an shareef that He descends to the lowest heaven in the last third of the night and during that period, He forgives, accepts duas etc. Is this the best time to ask for forgiveness?
A) Yes.

Q) What is a wasiyat and on which thing should a person make wasiyat. Secondly I own a house n some jewellery and clothing, should i make wasiyat on that?
A) Wasiyat is a will to be executed after your death. You should send us your heir`s scenario and we may advise how to proceed with the wasiyat
.

Q) Can one read Quran shareef in qabrastaan?
A) Can read in qabrastaan, no problem.

Q) I want to know the kaffara for disrespecting my parents, Upon some mistake of my father for qatarahemi i scolded my father twice in a week which i never mind that i will do this to my father, But later on i am feeling very guilty for my rude behaviour and praying to Allah to forgive me in this duniya and akhirat.
A) If he is alive, look after him well and spend over him. If he is no more, then send sadaqahs on his name, keep good ties with his relatives and friends, spend over them and look after them.

Q) Cure for eczema for one year old baby girl? Once she started scratching, it bleeds even in her private part.
A) Read 3 last surah and blow over olive oil and pass over body. Do this twice daily. Else do consult a skin doctor

Q) When a mother curses her child it is sure to happen sooner or later. this is what i have learn, But what about if the child is not at fault the curse is sure to happen but what about the mother, will she get punishment from Allah?
A) If the child caused trouble to the mother, then fear of some of the cursing may take effect. But not at fault at all, then should not worry. The mother at fault should make tawbah and istighfaar. Women cursing for nothing lead to punishment in hell fire.

Q) If somebody dreams about blood? can it be a good sign? or only bad sign? JazakAllah.
A) Negative sign

Q) Can a son in law give zakaat to his mother in law?
A) Yes, if she has no nisaab.

Q) Is working for 'FOREVER LIVING permissible?
A) 
According to info made available to us, some of the products are not halaal suitable. The scheme said also does not conform to shariah.

Q) My daughter had a dream that i gave birth to twin boys. Any meaning?
A) Read manzil daily

Q) As you are aware in Mauritius we have not a proper islamic finance institute that can help us start a business. In this case is it permisible for us to take a loan from the bank to start our own business?
A) No.

Q) How should i make someone forget about my past? Any dua? As this is becoming a huge hurdle in my path..
A) Give him gifts and please him in the halal way.

Q) Having done istikharah and asking sign from Allah and getting positive sign and feelings, so should i consider all these as taking things forward?
A) Yes, through your parents. 

Q) Asalamu'alaykum, Someone collected zakaat for treatment and operation. Now he went for Hadj. I don't know which money he used. Is it fair please?
A) Wa Alaikoumous salaam, his fairness and Acceptance is between the hands of ALLAH.

Q) Can a non-muslim read durood shareef?
A) Yes

Q) Suppose a boy and a girl wants to consumate as they are hiding their wedding from their parents.Can they consumate in a "chambre a louer"?
A) No, this can be detrimental for both. Do everything officially. Else wait. 

Q) Is Golecha instant henna permissible?
A) Yes.

Q) For how long can a girl stay at her parent house after Nikah if the boy is not financially ready to take her responsibilities and expenses?A) Can stay for years.

 Q) I was abused when i was young with my male cousin brother in laws especially, I made sincere tawbah even for them of what they did to me but till today this always make me sick n sad..i cried a lot thinking of these things, i spoke to Allah that please take all these things from my mind..please advise me mufti saheb..DjazakAllah..
A) After salaah, put your right palm on your forehead and read; '' Bismillahillazi laa ilaaha illaa houwar rahmanur raheem Allahoumma azhib 'annil hamma wal huzna. Read 3 times. You should tell your parents because else this can cause you harm internally. 

Q) In society, there are a lot of fake people. They are your friends only when they need you & when they don't need you, they don't even talk to you. Can one refuse to help such people since they "use" you?
A) Permissible, Although Sunnah teaches us to be gentle with everyone

Q) Can we use nivea's man cream?
A) Yes

Q) I asked a sign if he is my pair and dream about my marriage with him, I was dressed in white gown and went outside i covered my head and my 2 brother held my hand to take me to sit, I was happy and I met my family before entering the car..Meaning?
A) Good Sign

Q) Is pizza panarotti halaal safe?
A) Ok with displayed halaal certificate

Q) After performing salaah can one imagine that the cloth was dirty on the basis of shariah?
A) Imagination No, If impurities found, then should clean and redo salaah

Q) Is president products halal?
A) They are ok, but do read the ingredients

Q) Are L'chear products halaal?
A) Avoid

Q) Husband gave one divorce (talaaq) by saying '' I am giving you one divorce but he said it twice'' It will count 1 divorce or 2?
A) 1 Talaaq Ba-in

Q) I dreamt that i was getting married to the boy i love but due to something which happened i got married to my friend who is a girl. And upon realizing this, i annulled the marriage and got married to the right guy. What does this mean?
A) Redo istikharah

Q) All my dreams was indicating happiness and marriage proposal and recently the one who i always loved and always asked Allah for, came in my life suddenly. Should i assume that he is the 1 whom i have been getting good signs?
A) yes

Q) Is Sufism allow in Islam?
A) yes, the one on Sunnah

Q) Can a boy and a girl do court marriage as they want to marry then later do nikkah with family consent?
A) No

Q) I read istikharah dua and dreamt about having family moments with dad mum and tasting coranssol fruit for first time and smiling and forgot the rest.. Meaning?
A) Positive Meaning

Q) I ask a sign and i dream attending wedding..A man asked mum if she will go mehendi and agree..He insulted her about the dressing..A lady insulted her..I took her side.The man told me i like reply back i said no i took my mum side..Meaning?
A) Negative sign

Q) One year before i was rejected and a few days back the boy told me that he wants me back in his life..Since he went i always asked Allah to make him back and i had no interest in accepting other proposal..Should i accept him back as we have done zina?
A) Can accept after informing parents

Q) Can we read ''allahumagfirli warhami wahdini warzukni wa afini '' between 2 prostration in farz salah?
A) Yes

Q)What does this mean ''sins is causing pain in life'' ? 
A)Bad actions have bad repercussions. But tawbah and istighfaar annihilate these effects

Q)What dua to read to become pregnant? 
A)Allahoummaghfirli 360 times sehri time.

Q)I ask a sign and dream about 3 girl whom 2 i know.They were wearing gold colour hijab and were smilling at me and i think they were taking photos.Meaning? 
A)Positive sign

Q)I asked my mum to do Istikhara for a project I want to do. She did not tell me the outcome yet. However, I dreamt that she came to me & told me she got a positive sign and I can go ahead with my project. Interpretation please? 
A)Go ahead

Q)The other day, I was sick at Dhuhr time & I started praying Dhur Fard salat only at 15:37 and completed this Fard salat at 15:41. The last time to pray Dhuhr salat on that day was 15:40. Does my salat count? 
A)Yes

Q)My brother in law having lot of problem in his life. One brother tell his mother to sacrifice a goat on his land and distribute the meat to non Muslim. Is it permisible? 
A)And why he mentioned only non Muslim. Slaughter yes. Distribute to poor muslims.

Q) I dreamt that my ex bf sent my friend a message telling me that he loves me a lot but he can't come.But recently in real he txt me and wants to come back forever in my life.Is my dream an indication to accept him? 
A) Do istikharah.

Q)I ask a sign and dream about 3 girl whom 2 i know.They were wearing gold colour hijab and were smilling at me and i think they were taking photos.Meaning? 
A)Positive sign

Q) Can i cut my hair and nails if iam in the state of impurity?
A) Avoid. Permissible.

Q) How to reform spirituality to Allah Ta`ala ? 
A) Through daily reading of Muntakhab Ahadiths, daily salaahs and daily tilawat of Qur-aan. One should choose pious people`s company.

Q) 1 year before i was rejected and a few days back the boy told me that he wants me back in his life.Since he went i always asked Allah to make him back and i had no interest in accepting other proposal.Should i accept him back as we have done zina? 
A) Yes, but this time he should ask your hand through your parents for an official nikah.

Q) I asked Allah for a sign and i dreamt that i found a memory card which i had lost 2 yr before.Meaning. 
A) Good sign.

Q) How to know if someone's intention is good? 
A) No one knows. One may take protection through protection duas of masnoon duas.

Q) A dua to make people see new change and like me? 
A) Tahajjud and istighfaar at sehri times.

Q) In hot summer days is it ok to wear only a kaftan without trousers with a burkha on top to read namaz? 
A) No. Kaftan is too thin.

Q) Is there any dua for removing pimples completely? 
A) Read 7 times surah fatihah and blow over olive oil and then pass over skin.

Q) Can i cut my hair and nails if iam in the state of impurity?
A) Avoid. Permissible.


Q) I dream that i was standing outside and facing my house, suddenly a girl came from behind and held my hand, when i turned i saw that she was dressed in white dress wearing hijaab and i recognise the girl, does this have any meaning.?
A) If istikharah was done, then positive sign.

Q) I asked for a sign and dreamt about people with body defect coming towards me.I think i was curing or helping them.Then a hijabi girl was at my window knocking i got scared and forgot the rest.Meaning?
A) You need more tahajjud, beauty in your ibaadah and istighfaar at sehri times. Need to come closer to sunnah and Islamic dress.


Q) Should a girl hide her sins she did in past with boyfriend to her husband?As she is scared the truth might come out?
A) Yes, do hide and make crying sincere tawbah.

Q) What should a girl do if she is forced to marry someone not of her choice and there is no one to help her in her family.And they keep telling her that her dad home is not hers.She is stressed.What should she do in this case?
A) Obey parents and do get married as with time, love will come Insha Allah. One may refuse such proposal that is unacceptable by the girl.


Q) Why do I hear movement in the bed bunk above me?
A) Probably a cat. Else do read manzil daily.

Q) Why there is counting on water about nekhi and gunha?
A) Please bring the text and context.


Q) I ask for if i will get my life partner and dream about me standing outside and talking to my mum through a window and a handsome boy came and i felt shy.Meaning.
A) Soon good proposal Insha Allah.

Q) I have a bitter past which i don't want anyone to know but it is coming in my present.I ask Allah lots of dua but still it is a hurdle.Please help.
A) Wake up tahajjud and cry for your past sins.

Q) I was rejected from a boy's family for no reason and they told me that i wil not get anyone in my life.Will their words come true?As i have full faith in Allah.
A) No. You should reform your spirituality to Allah Ta`ala and then Allah Ta`ala will open your way to happy companions during this life.


Q) Does the tears of a mother count when her daughter has been insulted and rejected?
A) Yes.

Q) Stamped sadke on road...any dua for protection.
A) Read 3 last surahs.


Q) Are ADS and MeNow cosmetic products Halaal?
A) Not listed.

Q) I ask for a sign and dream that i got brown spot on my whole neck.In real i got a few sun spot.What is the meaning of this?
A) Negative sign.


Q) How jinns enter a human body?
A) Like shaitaan enter a human body.

Q) I Asked for a sign and I dreamt about the same person I want. We Were Fighting In A Very Happy And Playful Way But Someone Across The Room Looking At Us And Dont Want Us To Be Together. Please Explain What Does It Mean.
A) A good sign.

Q) If I need to do istikharah for 7 days, does it have to be consecutive? What happens if one day I do not have time and do not manage to do it for consecitive days, even though I did it for 7 days? Does it count?
A) No need consecutive.

Q) I dreamt that a girl around 16 years came to my room and told me she was interested in me for a relationship. Interpretation please?
A) Insha Allah proposal coming soon...


Q) I am getting brown spot on my skin.Is there any dua to read to get rid of as its not contageous.
A) Read 7 times surah fatiha and blow over olive oil and apply on skin.

Q) In past i did zina which was unsuccessful anal sex with a boy who left despite promising to marry me.I did repentence.Will i get pardon?
A) Insha Allah.


Q) Is it permissible to do IVF in islam?
A) No. Unless, if no other possible way and also that no haraam involved. The semen taken out from the husband by halaal way and the egg of the wife is taken. Still, it is not Islamic friendly. Rather one may go in jamaat in couple and make dua for children in tahajjud there.

Q) If I do Istikharah Salat for something and I dream of something which makes me happy when I wake up, is this a positive? If I dream of something which makes me sad/frightened when I wake up, is this a negative?
A) Yes.


Q) What is fard namaz and sunnah namaz?please give me details on these topics.
A) Farz are obligatory and neglecting it will bring great sin. Sunnah is important, but not as obligatory as fard. If missed, Farz should be replaced even if years have passed by. If Sunnah missed, then need to replace in its time. If its time(example Zohr time) have passed by, then no need to replace. One may do istighfaar.

Q) I did Istikhara Salat for an investment the other day & dreamt that I wanted to masturbate but each time there were people around me & could not do it due to the lack of privacy...Is this positive dream?
A) No.


Q) I made Istikharah to ask Allah to guide me in an investment which I want to make. I dreamt of a lot of red hearts on a pink background. Is this a positive answer?
A) No.

Q) I dreamt i was applying henna but i started crying as my sis did not apply full mehendi on my left hand.My sister applied the mehendi correctly and i smiled.On my engagement my left hand did not had mehendi but i was happy.Meaning of this.
A) Days of happiness coming Insha Allah.

Q) My sister and aunt aren't married. what dua can they read?
A) Read Allahoummagh firli 360 times tahajjud times.


Q) If people think a man is gay while he is only efeminated. Any duah to change that?
A) One should go in jamaat and keep lots of fasts.

Q) What is the view on effeminated men (not gay)?
A) Should categorise male or female according to their urinary tendency.

Q) Quran 61:4 - "Surely Allah loves those who fight in His way". How to fight in Allah's way?
A) To struggle so as to uplift deen in our environment and in the world.


Q) How to praise Allah before asking dua?
A) Say Alhamdulillah.

Q) I ask for a sign and dream that i was going out happily with a boy.I think it was my husband or fiancee.Meaning?
A) Good sign.


Q) I dreamt of my two uncles who were smiling and my mother in law who came towards us. All three of them have passed away. Any meaning please?
A) One should turn attention towards preparation for the akhirah.

Q) A dua for getting good proposal?
A) Salaah n istighfaar.

Q) A dua for change in life and prosperity?
A) 5 times daily salaah.


Q) Is there any dua to read so as people appreciate me?
A) Be good to Allah. Allah will make you appreciated.

Q) Is there any dua to ask Allah to make everyone forget about my past as it is a hurdle in my future path.Even though im still repenting my past is coming in my present.And i want to get rid of it forever.
A) Yes, read 3 times after farz namaz putting right palm over forehead: http://islam-qna.org/Dua.asp?ID=122


Q) I want a dua to overcome a heartbreak and ask Allah for sending me a good spouse.Please give me a dua?
A) Read Allahoummagh firli 360 times at sehri times.

Q) Why do i always pass through dificult times and always have sorrows. And everyone i love go far away from me. Is it because im bad as i always get into problems?Or is it because Allah is guiding me towards good?
A) Life is a mixture of happiness n sorrows. But Quran promises happiness after sorrows. So be patient.


Q) Did Nabi (saw) see Allah?
A) Diverted opinion of sahabahs. Some say yes, some say no.

Q) If a girl of age 15 do nikkah but do not tell her parents and live with her parents....will any change occur in her body?
A) Yes, if she get close to her husband.


Q) Suppose for some reason, there is only enough time left for me to pray 4 rakaats during Zohr time. What should I pray 4 rakaats sunnah or 4 rakaats Fard?
A) Farz.

Q) Is this video true: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CbpJ7dAY4Js ??
A) Oral sex should be avoided as far as possible because it lead to haraam like swallowing semens, etc. But some couples complain that they are not aroused without it. Then it is permissible(without swallowing) in such a case. But try first with the hand and fingers using oil, etc.

Q) Are women allowed to go to kabarastan (i) to perform namaz janazah (ii) to assist in the burial of the mayyat and (iii) to do ziarat?
A) No. No. And No.


Q) I was asking dua after salaat the other day in Masjid for around 20 minutes and afterwards a friend of mine, who was looking at me, laughed at me because I was asking for too long..Should I ask dua for less time?
A) No. Continue asking hours of duas. In fact Allah Ta`ala like long duas. The beloved prophet SAW used to ask duas long night through.

Q) I have interest money from bank can i pay car insurance with that money?
A) No. Only can give to a poor muslim, without intention of sawaab.


Q) I dreamt a big brown and black spider in my house, what does this mean?
A) Nothing serious. Read the protection duas morning and evening.

Q) Which duas to read for the dead at the kabarastan, please.
A) You can read the beginning of Surah Baqarah until muflihoon and the ending 3 ayahs of Baqarah. Or can read anything from Qur-aan. Can read 3 times surah ikhlaas.


Q) Can we rent a building to an insurance company?
A) Permissible.

Q) I dreamt that i have lost my virginity with my ex boyfriend and i was holding a drop of blood on my finger and showing to him.What does this mean when in real im a virgin and single.
A) A dream from shaitaan. Blow slowly 3 times on your left and read Arouzoubillahi minashaitaanir rajim.

Q) In Surah 2, Ayat 153, Allah says that whenever one is facing trials, "Seek help with patient perseverance and prayer". This means that the person should pray. But how to be patient? Just wait for Allah's help?
A) Being patient means to submit silence from mouth and be non complain by actions also. Rather submit to the decision of Allah with silence and submission.


Q) When I follow Islam and want to please Allah, should I allow people to abuse me and "walk on me"?
A) No.

Q) What dua can I read to learn and master something faster? E.g learning a new language etc
A) Rabbi zidni ilma.


Q) Science has proven that fasting is extremely good for the health. If I fast Nafl with both intention of pleasing Allah and improving my health, will the reward be less than if I fast Nafl only to please Allah?
A) Rather fast only for Allah Ta`ala.

Q) Am I allowed to not have children if I have a lethal genetic disorder which I can pass to my child? Or is it a sin to get married and not have children?
A) Permissible not to have children, if there is medical reasons.


Q) I did Istikhara to know whether an investment would be good/bad, in terms of profit. I dreamt a man wearing golden-like clothes with a long white hat on his head approached me & told me not to worry & that he will invite me for any wedding ceremony he can.
A) Good dream.

Q) While in toilet, a lizard touched my right leg.
A) No problem. Lizards are pure and harmless. Rewarded in killing them though.


Q) Does my ummrah break if i change baby dipper during ummrah?
A) No.

Q) I asked for a sign and dreamt about eating a briyani which was for 2 days before.
A) Good sign.


Q) Why does Allah like patience in a person? I do not really understand why patience is valued a lot...
A) Because it is a quality of Allah Ta`ala.

Q) Any duah to increase intercourse between husband and wife ? And also to fall pregnant ?
A) Yes. Physical exercise accompanied with eggs yolk in the morning in milk, zafran, honey and chickpeas during the day. Go jamaat couple and read Rabbi habli minas saliheen at tahajjud times.


Q) I asked for a sign and i dreamt of someone delivering a baby.Meaning.
A) Good sign. Patience and taHAJJUD.

Q) I asked for a sign and i dreamt that i was fighting with my brother and there was a twin sister of mine but does not look alike me and in real i don't have twin sister but en elder sister. Meaning?
A) Should improve character by showing more kindness and politeness. Otherwise, people will be repulsed.

Q) Thinking about converting.
A) Very simple. Need only to accept the unicity of Allah and that the prophet Muhammad is the last messenger of Allah. Laa ilaaha illallahou Muhamadur Rasouloullah.

Q) Do we need witness when a husband gives talaaq to his wife ?
A) No. But for administration purposes, he may be asked to certify the talaaq.


Q) Do you personally, as a mufti, think that it is unfair if I pray to Allah and succeed in my exams and another muslim does not pray and fails?
A) No. It is fair to do duas.


Q) Where can women do hijaamah in Mauritius?
A) Phone on 5786153.


Q) I dreamt that i was getting married to a man in his 30s when im only18 .And i was feeling shy in front of people.Meaning of this.
A) Good dream. Happiness coming.

Q) Is it true that Allah increase our sustenance and independance when we get married. I am currently not eligible for marriage based on financial grounds.
A) Yes, it is true. Take courage and get married. But should do 5 times daily salaahs on time. And try to wake up tahajjud.


Q) If I get something positive in a dream after doing Istikhara Salaat, what will it be? Will it be green/white colour in the dream?
A) Describe the dream if any. Else follow the heart after 7 days of istikharah.

Q) I dreamt that it was my marriage.We were dressed in white and were smiling but when I was asked to sit near the groom i was refusing.The boy was young and handsome.In real i don't have anyone in my life and i'm young.Meaning of this please.
A) Soon insha Allah a good proposal. Do accept it.


Q) My wife is a convert since 7 years, her cousin is getting married, can we go to the wedding. 
A) Not in rituals. Go for a private home visit while she is leaving home.

Q) I dreamt that i met my friend in a market and we were buying vegetables, there were many people. Plse interprete.
A) A simple dream like this can be only the scenario of imagination.

Q) Is it allowed for a muslim couple to do a civil mariage after nikah or is it considered as a tradition of the kaafir??
A) Permissible if needed. But do "separation du bien" so that it does not complicate the issue of inheritance and asset use during lifetime.

Q) What should one do in order to bring changes in home as nobody listens by talking and there is always fight and untidyness in the house. Any dua for changes?
A) Do ta`lim or book reading daily for 10 mins when everyone is at home. Do ta`lim of Muntakhab ahadith.


Q) Is the book Ganjul Arsh safe to read because i read it and blew over water and when i kept drinking it i'm making more anger.Why so?
A) Not masnoon. Rather read masnoon duas.

Q) If a cockroach (usually lives in sewer, toilet etc) walks on my praying clothes, does the clothes become dirty for salaat?
A) No.


Q) When I ask dua, can I prostrate in Qibla's direction instead of raising my hands to ask?
A) Yes.

Q) I asked for a sign and i dreamt that i was doing wudhu. And also i was reading some verses or kalimah and i think i read Surah Fatihah. Meaning?
A) Very good sign. Should do lots of istighfaar at sehri time.


Q) How did ibliss enter paradise to influence Adam (AS) to eat the fruit if he was already cursed ?
A) He was cursed but was not denied access in Jannah.

Q) Frequently dreaming about my own marriage when in real im not committed to anyone.Meaning of this.
A) Soon coming insha Allah.

Q) I asked Allah for a sign and i dreamt about receiving a letter from my dad's sister,There was 3 pages and i read 2 and left for her home and i stayed there but did not do magrib namaz but was in wudhu.Is it a positive sign.
A) Yes.


Q) I dreamt that my friend is getting married to someone i know. there were few people in the house, i left the wedding and met another friend on the road who was going to the wedding. plse interprete.
A) There will be happiness and progress in your life insha Allah.

Q) Can i have the proof ( hadith) where the 4 caliph did not do raful yadayn?
A) Yes, but I need time to look for it. Do text us on whatsApp on +23057921333.


Q) What are the customs for death & bereavement?
A) Do read our article on Les rites mortuaries.

Q) I asked Allah if i will get my pair this year and i dreamt that i got a proposal and i accepted it and my heart was beating fast. Our dad accepted without any hurdle and i even went to see his house. Meaning of this.
A) Soon great news.

Q) I asked Allah for a sign and i dreamt that my left hand was full with henna.Meaning of this please.
A) Good sign.


Q) Very often friends at school tell me it is unfair to pray and ask Allah to help with exams since not everybody does this? How should I reply them?
A) Tell them that my Allah is happy when I ask Him. And He is unhappy when I don't ask Him.

Q) Is it haraam to work for a non islamic bank?
A) Should avoid.


Q) Is it permissible for men to wear long trouser that goes all the way and hide the ankles?
A) No. Makrooh Tahrimi.

Q) Is wudhu valid when drops of water gets back to the container and i keep using the water for wudhu?
A) Yes.


Q) Burning of oud during dua, is it a sunnah?
A) Sunnah to burn oud in home and masjid.

Q) I dreamt that I went to the seaside with my family and relatives. Then, when the time came, I left them and walked to a closeby masjid to pray...Can you interpret?
A) Should be more regular with salaahs.


Q) I did Istikhara Salat the other day and I dreamt of a very beautiful bathroom-like place with very beautiful green and blue...Is this positive?
A) No.

Q) I need to buy a land and build a house to get married. I need to borrow money for this. However, Al Barakah Coop does not give enough for my project. Can you recommend an institution which lends halaal money?
A) None.


Q) I dreamt that my in-laws were against me and i was holding a beautiful child who was smiling at me and he was reciting surah fatiha,what does it mean?
A) Pious child insha Allah will cover the bitterness of life trials. So do sabr and keep with salaahs.

 
Q) I dreamt my doctor told me i had breast cancer and something about it being 90% , not really treatable. i started crying etc.. meaning?
A) Give sadaqahs. Be more regular with salaahs and Qur-aan reading. Take your medical check up, etc.

Q) I would like to ask about Talaq. If someone says during usual fight with his wife: go get lost from here or go to your parent's home or i left you, and this was said many times at different occasions. Did Talaq take place or not? And what does Kinaya means?
A) Not Talaaq unless the husband did the intention of Talaaq with these words. Ask the husband about his intention. Else saying such words without intention of talaaq does not affect the nikah.

Q) I dreamt that there was a lady ghost who entered me and i started reading ayatul kursi and she came off me but still i held my mumls hand and continued reading ayatul kursi. Meaning of this.
A) Should read manzil daily. Read the 3 last surahs at the 3 occasions said in the MASNOON DUAS on web.


Q) Can we rent a building to someone who will do insurance activities? Is the income from the rent halaal?
A) Yes. Halaal according to the Imaam A`zam, Imaam Abu Hanifah r.a.'

Q) I am a girl of 29 years and i have made nikaah without my wali. i was present at the time of the nikkah. Recently i have read on the internet that the marriage of a woman without her wali is invalid. iis my nikah invalid? what should i do??
A) Valid if done in front of 2 witnesses and wordings properly formulated.


Q) In my dream i saw that in the sky it was written Allah and Muhammad in arabic but when i was going to take a picture,i saw it on a wall instead of the sky.plz interprete.
A) Should do more ibaadah and practice more on sunnah. Take councel with someone pious what is missing in you to perfect your religion.

Q) Is it ok to hold a para or Quran that is laminated or plastified without wudhu?
A) No.


Q) I dreamt that i asked a boy who supposedly i loved in the dream to break my virginity but he refused.In real im single but wishing to get a good husband.Meaning of this.
A) If it was an istikharah, then it is a negative sign to that person.

Q) What is the meaning of talaaq e bain?
A) A talaaq with emphasis that separate between a husband and a wife in such a way that nikah will be necessary before cohabitation during iddah or after iddah.


Q) What are the foods which the holy Prophet Muhammad SWA liked to eat?
A) Rutab Dates, Barley, vegetables, grains, Lamb Meat, honey and calabash.

Q) Is wudhu valid when drops of water gets back to the container and i keep using the water for wudhu. 
A) Valid.

Q) Is interest allowed in a non muslim country?
A) No.


Q) What is this '' sunnah daily-Muntakhab Ahadiths''?
A) Muntakhab is a hadith book 

Q) Dream about working in a pharmacy with a friend and suddenly went near a pond where a uterus was killing people.Meaning of this? A) Keep your connection with salaah and jamaat


Q) Is it halaal for a muslim to work at a bank?
A) No.

Q) I dreamt about my own marriage but i was not happy about the place where my marriage was being held and i told my sister i wish this could happen at my place.Then i told my sister to use blow dryer to make my hair.Please interprete this.
A) Soon will marry insha Allah.


Q) I have this recurring dream where my mom and i are fighting bitterly. I feel that she's being so bad to me. there's so much darkness and fear and ill feelings in those. i wake up quite shaken. those dreams feel so " evil" it disturbs me. any meaning?
A) Should perfect characters. Read Aroubillahi... 3 times and make as if spitting 3 times when waking up, then nothing will happen.

Q) Due to some unknown reason a girl has been rejected.Which dua should the girl read to ask for the pair that has beem created for her.
A) Read lot of Allahoummaghfirli.

Q)Which dua can a girl read in order to make things better at home and to always be blessed by Allah?
A)Rabbana atina fiddunya hassanah....


Q) Can Al baraka finance my business if I have 1/4 of the money with them as Action ? I'm trying to open a bakery which will cost me 1.5M
A) You should enquire from them.

Q) I want to settle down have a good job and get married but I don't have any idea where to start. any advise ? 
A) Start with regular salaahs and tahajjud. Go jamaat 3 days

Q) I asked Allah if He has forgiven me and i dreamt about a woman checking if my hair, hair eyebrow is brown.Meaning of this. 
A) Keep doing istighfar

Q)Is it bidah to make musafaha after eid salaah as mentionned in shaami? We normally meet for happiness on Eid ul Fitr. 
A)Permissible to meet on happiness. Plus there is a hadith whereby Hazrat Wasilah r.a. met rasouloullah SAW with the dua mentioned in our Article: Sunnahs around eid day.


 
 
Masaa’il on Cellphones, Internet &TV
Q) Is it permissible to play video games like PC, PS3 and XBOX 360?
A) It is not advisable to play such games since they prevent one from farz salaahs. But if one abstain from music, hard playing and regular with salaahs, then still not recommended, but permissible.

Q) I want to know on television, what is permissible to watch. Is it haraam to put television in our bedroom. 
A) Do not put tv in the house

Q) Is it allowed to put pictures of butterflies in the house? Similarly, is it allowed to put photos of birds, where the eyes cannot be seen, in the house?

A) No. Nabi (saw) said: Angels do not enter a house where there are photos or dogs.

Q) Can i sell my TV which i had bought with halal money from a non Muslim so as to regain some of my money?
A) Permissible.


Q) Is it allowed to watch news, taraweeh and documentaries on television?
A) Yes, but it is a sin to leave the TV on for watching other stuff.

Q) Is it permissible in Islam to have one's photograph being shot for weddings eid days or any events?
A) Pictures are not permissible except by necessity. Hence ID card, passport, money are all necessities. Hence not permissible for archive or memory purposes, but only when in necessity. 


Q) Many individuals either snap a photo of bull or video recording of it , how far is it halal to do such indecent act? 
A) Camera should not be used but only when necessary.


Q) My concern is that is it permissible for muslim girls or boys to get into social networking such as facebook, Hi5 or even chatting on themobile. In the negativity, I strongly recommend that this message becommunicated to all muslim brothers and sisters through newsletters and evenin jummah khoutbah.
A) It is worthy to note that the Qur-aan mentioned the positive effects of wine and gambling, but because of their overwhelming ill effects, they have been made haraam. Muslims should judge honestly and weight the detrimental effects of facebook and Twitter under the same scrutiny. We do not deny the positive contribution of the network, but on analogical basis, muslims should absolutely abstain from any platform that approaches to adultery and betrayal between couples. Wallahou a`lam.

Q) Facebook is right for a muslim to get access??
A) Muslims should know that the ill effects of Face Book is more than its good effects. Hence you are being made responsible to stay away from such platforms that approach you with evil.

Q) What is the law pertaining to ringtones with music?
A) It is not jaa’iz to put ringtones with music on cell phones.

Q) Can one use Qur’aanic ayat as ringtone?
 A) It is not jaa’iz to use Qur’aanic ayats as ringtone because it is disrespectful to the Qur’aan.

Q) Is it jaa'iz to sms strangers (na mahram)?
A) Smsing strangers (na mahram) is just like speaking face to face to them and is not jaa’iz.

Q) Is it jaa'iz to send picture messages, videos or songs on cellphones?
A) It is not jaa’iz and it is a great sin to send picture messeges (of living things), videos or songs on cell phones.

Q) Is it jaa'iz to sell cell phones with defects?
A) To sell cell phones with defects in cheaper price without informing the buyer of its defect is deceiving that person and our prophet (saw) has prohibited us from doing so.

Q) Is it jaa'iz to play games on the internet?
A) If playing games on internet, or cell phones leads to leaving out a fardh (e.g salaah) then that game becomes haraam. And if it leads to leaving out a waajib (e.g witr salaah) then the game becomes makrooh-e-tahrimi. And if it leads to leaving out a sunnat or mustahab then it becomes makrooh-e-tanzihi.

Q) I don't go to cinema's, but i heard that if you go to cinema with your hubby your nikah will break.. Is this true? 
A) Not true. But surely going cinema is an act of fisq and open sinning whereby ONLY sincere tawbah may erase such evil act.

Q) Is it permissible to play games on mobile phones?
A) Permissible when put on mute (without music) and when does not prevent oneself from salaahs.

 
 
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